My wife is having problems and can't have sex. help

[hunglikeahamster]

My wife is having female problem and can't have sex. She has told me it is ok to get help if I need it. My problem, is that I have a lot of bigger talkers, but no takers. Can anybody help me with this?

 

[rm4_1more]

My wife is having problems...

Just a suggestion:

Perhaps you should get your wife another women. Could be that a girls lick is all she needs. If this is the case, just sit back and enjoy the show.

Maybe after a change of pace and a little girl / girl play, she will be ready to let you back in.

 

[Butterflybaby04]

My wife is having female problem and can't have sex. She has told me it is ok to get help if I need it. My problem, is that I have a lot of bigger talkers, but no takers. Can anybody help me with this?

Sounds to me like she is testing you to see if you would actually go outside the marriage to get some sex.

What sort of female problems are we talking about?

 

[hunglikeahamster]

she has fibroids on her uterus and endometriosis. It is not that she doesn't want to have sex, it is just too painful for her to even think about.

 

[dixie50]

What about...

medical intervention?? Sounds like a hysterectomy would take care of things. A big step, but probably well worth it. I know it was for me.

 

[lemmesee]

Why don't you just masturbate to something here on lit?

 

[dunno_yet]

If the tables were turned and it was you that could not have sex how would you want her to handle it???

 

[Eilan]

medical intervention?? Sounds like a hysterectomy would take care of things. A big step, but probably well worth it. I know it was for me.

I'm gonna second this. I think surgery should always be considered a last resort, but why should she (and your marriage) suffer when there are treatments available?

Google "fibroids" and "endometriosis" or check out a site like WebMD and get all the info you can. Make sure your wife sees a doctor. Whether the two of you are having sex or not, she shouldn't have to be in pain.