My wife is a sex slave/slut

[dukecitysal]

I recently learned that my wife has been serving another man and in the process has become a sex slave/slut for the both of us. Anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do about the whole situation? Punishment is certainly an option and I welcome any suggestions.

 

[james02]

you should take up swining

 

[LorriLove]

I recently learned that my wife has been serving another man and in the process has become a sex slave/slut for the both of us. Anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do about the whole situation? Punishment is certainly an option and I welcome any suggestions.

as james says share her round some, it's fun for both that way, my hubby punishes me if i'm naughty as well so there is that option, give her a fucking good beating with a cane or whip.

 

[Gringao]

as james says share her round some, it's fun for both that way, my hubby punishes me if i'm naughty as well so there is that option, give her a fucking good beating with a cane or whip.

Then again there's nothing else quite like the feel of a nice ass cheek under your palm as your spank it fiery red as she tells you every detail of her adulterous and whorish fucking and sucking. Make her call her lover while you're disciplining her and beg him to come sodomize her mouth and ass while you rut her slutty cunt out.

 

[LorriLove]

Then again there's nothing else quite like the feel of a nice ass cheek under your palm as your spank it fiery red as she tells you every detail of her adulterous and whorish fucking and sucking. Make her call her lover while you're disciplining her and beg him to come sodomize her mouth and ass while you rut her slutty cunt out.

oh!!!!!!! you dirty man... made me quite moist between the legs now that does sound like fun

 

[Gringao]

oh!!!!!!! you dirty man... made me quite moist between the legs now that does sound like fun

It's only fitting, Lorri...she needs to admit her whorishness to everyone while paying the price for it.

I'd say hubby needs to have her on a collar and chain when her lover opens the door. Then run the leash through his legs and pull her adulterous mouth onto his stiff prick until his balls are on her chin and her throat bulges lewdly. Then take her pic and post it so we can see her depraved sucking.

 

[wash25]

Ya servicing another men is kind of a negative. But then again, sex slave, that's definitley a plus. Huh, well, I got nuthin'. Good luck though.

 

[sultryslayer]

This whole thread is

burning hot!

 

[Hil_the_thrill]

as someone who has often been a slave to others.

Test her limits & make her pay for her activities.

Also, feel free to welcome her other master in & team with him to test her limits.

Humiliate the slut, she wants it & needs it. See about trading her to another guy for his wife/GF/friend etc.

Now that you know shes a whore the limits to what you can try & do are endless.

 

[LorriLove]

as someone who has often been a slave to others.

Test her limits & make her pay for her activities.

Also, feel free to welcome her other master in & team with him to test her limits.

Humiliate the slut, she wants it & needs it. See about trading her to another guy for his wife/GF/friend etc.

Now that you know shes a whore the limits to what you can try & do are endless.

you got it hun... spot on... that's what my hubby did with me when he caught me cheating on him years back... he organised all manner of events around me with mates of his and other guys... used me like the slut i seemed to want to be, and it worked, i got the message and toe'd the line a bit more, his line... lucky for me he's as kinky as me and we sorted it all out that way rather than splitting up

 

[dukecitysal]

Thanks for all of your suggestions. I will definitely try punishing her in a way that she won't soon forget her whorishness. At this point I don't want to involve her other master because I believe that she can only have one master and that is going to be me. Once I have her total submission then I will consider sharing her like the whore that she is.

 

[LorriLove]

Thanks for all of your suggestions. I will definitely try punishing her in a way that she won't soon forget her whorishness. At this point I don't want to involve her other master because I believe that she can only have one master and that is going to be me. Once I have her total submission then I will consider sharing her like the whore that she is.

good for you honey, and any guys you let loose on her in future will 'not' be masters, you are the master... they will just be borrowing her cunt or whatever part of her you allow them to have... if it were my hubby he'd not allow that other guy who claims to be her master near her again, fucking cheek of the bloke claiming mastership of someone else's woman.

 

[iwfuutaudls]

i would just sell the bitch. i like swingers, i like BDSM, i like kink and fetishism, and i like promsicuity and decadence. but i absolutely, utterly, HATE liars and cheaters and deceivers and fakes. sell that rotten cunt on the internet and buy yourself the new Lotus Elise - it will provide a much more thrilling ride.

 

[dukecitysal]

Selling is certainly a viable option if I knew where to go. But for now I think I'm just going to make her realize just what a slut/whore she is and that her life from now on is going to belong to me and she is going to be my sex slave from now until I chose otherwise.

 

[iwfuutaudls]

like i said: i am into the bondage/fetish and swinger scenes. these scenes are wonderfull for exploring the kinky side of the human psyche. but before i would venture into any of these scenes, regardless of the reason, i want to fall in love and to be loved back.

i believe in trust, communication, compassion, love, intelligence, and open-mindedness. i must first find my perfect partner, and fall in love with her, and she must feel that i am her perfect partner and love me in return. then i must share each and every one of my fantasies and desires with her and she must share each and every one of her fantasies and desires with me. afterwards, we will discuss openly, without leaving out anything, how to react and what to do with these fantasies and desires, as a couple. only then, after we have shared absolutely everything about ourselves to one another and have discussed absolutely everything openly and intelligently, will i participate, with her, in any of those scenes.

i am submissive. but i am not faint of heart. if i were ever to be betrayed, lied to, cheated on, deceived, all hell would come crashing down upon the head of the idiot who dared to cross me. i can turn from a submissive puppy lapping away happily at my goddesses temple into a hell-spewed pitt bull devouring her alive and grinding her bones into dust.

you should not stick around and stay with your wife. that is giving her more respect than she deserves. find the most mentally insane human slave trafficer and sell her to that trafficer. make sure that every second of her life she will pray and hope to die and that the number of seconds she feels this will add up to decades upon decades.

 

[dukecitysal]

You seem to very informed on the subject of whore domination. Yes she is a whore and in my mind will always be one, but by the same token, shouldn't I use her to suit my desires no matter how wicked? If you know someone that might be interested in a slut/whore/slave let me know. I may want to negotiate.

 

[taomaster]

your choices

You have important decisions to make, and you should not be hasty. I've checked some of your posts, and it appears you're both middle-aged, probably married for some time, and you've been encouraging her slutty behavior for some time as well as training her as a submissive. Up until this affair, the "others" were likely all participants with you present. Now, however, she's struck out on her own. However, this is no lifestyle commitment yet!

I think she might very well have the potential to be a good slave/slut, but it will be up to YOU to make her into one. More important, though, is making her the slave/slut that YOU want.

I think you've probably got a good basis in training her already. The most important thing, though, is defining the path you want to take. What I read from you at first was the typical jealous male reaction -- cut her off from other lovers, and punish her. Do you honestly think that will train her to be a slave/slut? It will most likely impede her progress. If you really want her to develop into a slut, she will need to be pulled into more sluttery through feeding her passions. The important extra ingredient, though, is the control you are now going to add to her life. You will show her that if she wants the passion, she will also have to accept much more dominance of her.

Let's say your most important goal is to teach her obedience to you. You want her to willingly accept your punishments and oversight as the price she pays for her sexual fun. The first step would be confront her with her wronging of you and tell her that you are going to punish her -- not for having sex with another man, but because she didn't ask your permission first! That is, the sex is not the sin; betraying your trust is! Get her to admit she wronged you and that she should be punished. Then get her to submit to your control.

The general principle at this stage of her development is if you're going to apply the stick, it is best if you continue to offer her the carrot -- being able to have other sexual adventures -- but only with your premission!

As to developing her slavishness, you later start intruding ever more in her dates, giving her "assignments" or scripts for her sexual adventures. For example, what she will wear, or specific sexual tasks. You might even set up a hidden camera to capture her in action. She should know that you will view them to make sure that she does as she's told, and to evaluate her performance and sexual skills. Watch them with her, and praise her. Women love praise and they need emotional support.

The fact is, there are a lot alternatives, but you have to first get yourself under control and committed to a direction. Then, in her training include both negatives (punishments and controls) with positives (sexual adventures and your emotional approval and support for her submission and sluttishness). Don't be too hasty in your decisions. Remember that you're training her, that it will take some time, and that you must proceed step by step. Keep in mind that in an endeavor like this, it is the journey itself which is the most enjoyable thing, and not rushing as fast as you can to your final goal.

I hope this makes sense to you. It is not easy getting a good slave/slut, and I think if you train her right she will be what you desire. She already seems to have a good foundation to build on.

If you have any specifics you'd like to discuss at more length in an email, I'd be happy to respond.

-- Robert

 

[iwfuutaudls]

I agree with the general overview, presented by Robert, of how one needs to train a slut/slave. I disagree with the reasons for keeping her around.

A successful relationship is based on full communication and complete trust. A successful alternative relationship is based on those two plus a host of numerous other qualities.

I am not in the relationship; however, it appears that there is a chilling lack of communication and of trust in your relationship. Therefore, I advise you to terminate the relationship and find a partner who can live the lifestyle in a mature and responsible manner.

 

[User_Name]

Well friend either accept things as they are, or kick the bitch out, I don't think anything we can all say will help you a lot. Me? I'd kick the shit out of the guy who tried to claim her, and kick the bitch out.

 

[emeraldman]

right on!!

 

[jade1033]

well Me and Hubby have been Swingers for 9 years. We have partyed with over 300 couples and singles. but he nor I have ever done anything with out telling the other. Swinging is one thing Cheating is another. I think it is just wrong to cheat. Swinging is open both know what the other is doing but when you sneek off and cheat that is where the VD's come from. Just what i think.

 

[pyramider]

I recently learned that my wife has been serving another man and in the process has become a sex slave/slut for the both of us. Anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do about the whole situation? Punishment is certainly an option and I welcome any suggestions.

How do you feel about it? What really matters is how you feel and that will dictate what course of action, or punishment, is fitting. Does the other guy have a woman you could pay him back?