My turn

[ACuriousCpl]

I have brought home a male friend a few years back for my wife, she also has had atleast two bi exp. alone and we also had 1 foursome . I ask her for a birthday present ... Its coming up in a week..... I was looking for a FMF , tie me up blindfold me and never tell me who the other F is ..... she tells me she doesnt know anyone or anyone that she can trust to do do this...........do other guys find this to be true ? ..............I know that I could pick the phone at any given time and have another male here in about 10 min..... Anyone have any imput on this matter ?

TIA

 

[TBKahuna123]

I have brought home a male friend a few years back for my wife, she also has had atleast two bi exp. alone and we also had 1 foursome . I ask her for a birthday present ... Its coming up in a week..... I was looking for a FMF , tie me up blindfold me and never tell me who the other F is ..... she tells me she doesnt know anyone or anyone that she can trust to do do this...........do other guys find this to be true ? ..............I know that I could pick the phone at any given time and have another male here in about 10 min..... Anyone have any imput on this matter ?

TIA

Well I think the difference here is that your wife is less comfortable with you being with another woman than you are her being with another man. Also it could be that she doesn't have any girlfriends she feels comfortable with. You never know.

 

[adamsro]

I'll propose an option 3:
Your wife maybe uncomfortable with you having sex with a woman she's comfortable with.

I'd suspect that to be the most likely. My ex-wife-to-be didn't exactly entertain the notion, but in a hypothetical conversation I was given the following bits of wisdom.

She'd be more ok with shagging another guy than with me shagging another girl (Duh, but her reasoning was that she new she'd still be in love with me)

She'd be not so ok with a girl she knew well in a threesome ("it'd be weird if we were friends, even if I wanted to")

My .02, of course I'm a bit of a fuckup