My Sub will do:

[yessirbill]

So I have taken on the Dom role,from being a lifetime Submissive role. My wife who is my submissive girl,discovered we where into BDSM shortly after we got Married. We found out we where both submissive,we have kick around the ideas of what rolls we would play in our bedroom life. I switch and taken on the Dom role, i like it, i still crave very submissive tendency, she accommodates those,when Sir says to. So we are a very, i like to say extreme BDSM life, but mostly kept in the bedroom.

So she has said she does not want to live a 24/7 life style,but we have a 95% BDSM sex life in the bedroom an. She has recently been stepping out side the bedroom, still in the sex minds set. We are always tiring to take our sex play to extreme measures. I am wondering now if she wants more?, or if i should ask her or do more?,and or to take it more outside the bedroom. She seems very willing, she throws me a lot of signs, even if its sexual. Thanks for any advice from Subs

 

[may_I_please]

If you have a relationship talk

If you don't talk then how do you know what your limits are

Time to sit down and communicate

 

[MeekMe]

I am wondering now if she wants more?, or if i should ask her or do more?,and or to take it more outside the bedroom. She seems very willing, she throws me a lot of signs, even if its sexual. Thanks for any advice from Subs

Step 1: Find a comfy spot

Step 2: Have a food or a beverage (your choice)

Step 3: Have an honest discussion with your wife

We can't read her mind. You can't read her mind. She can't read minds. I really hope no one can read minds because I think about some fucked up shit and really don't want anyone to know about it.

Talk to her, it's that simple.

 

[yessirbill]

Thanks for the replys., oh ya we talk, and we do not even have to make a date, lol. I guess I should of worded it better!, yes no one knows, fursure, what some one is thinking. I was trying to get a sub perspctive in how best to spproach. What do they say"prececption is everything". So I like to know everything

 

[BabblingBrooke]

Thanks for the replys., oh ya we talk, and we do not even have to make a date, lol. I guess I should of worded it better!, yes no one knows, fursure, what some one is thinking. I was trying to get a sub perspctive in how best to spproach. What do they say"prececption is everything". So I like to know everything

But....we aren't all the same. My perspective and preference, as well as other pyls from this board, may be very different from your wife's.

You perceiving us correctly gets you no closer to perceiving your wife correctly.

 

[SpunThings]

Thanks for the replys., oh ya we talk, and we do not even have to make a date, lol. I guess I should of worded it better!, yes no one knows, fursure, what some one is thinking. I was trying to get a sub perspctive in how best to spproach. What do they say"prececption is everything". So I like to know everything

Our perspectives won't likely help you at all, and might hurt your relationship because you could implement something that is completely the opposite to what would work for your wife.

There's a discussion around here somewhere where people describe their relationships. That might be the most helpful to you.