My Quest for a Japanese Girl

[Christopher2012]

Okay, so this is it. I have talked to a lot of really nice people on Lit, but right now I want something very specific. I want a Japanese girl. I love Japan, love the culture, and I would love to learn more. I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I do want to meet a Japanese girl to talk to and just sit down, one-on-one and discuss our perspectives on Japanese life and culture. I'm sure there is so much to learn and so much to experience.

I do not speak the language, unfortunately.

There are approximately 14,077 Japanese women from the ages of 20-40 on the planet.

(14,077 Japanese girls / 7,324,782,225 people in the world) x 100 = 0.00019% of the world's population

And that's not including married girls, taken girls, etc. My chances are pretty low. But why the hell not? I might as well shoot for the stars. So if you're out there, shoot me a PM.




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[Christopher2012]

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[Christopher2012]

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[princessface]

Sooo. is it some kind of Asian fetish you have then? Can you explain to me how it works? Do some white guys just auto think I'm hot if I'm like let's say a 5/10 do my asian features suddenly boost me up to like an 8/10 for guys with yellow fever?

 

[dj211]

Sooo. is it some kind of Asian fetish you have then? Can you explain to me how it works? Do some white guys just auto think I'm hot if I'm like let's say a 5/10 do my asian features suddenly boost me up to like an 8/10 for guys with yellow fever?

Yes, yes it does. For some guys it's an exotic look that we rarely see, or fantasize about.

 

[Christopher2012]

Sooo. is it some kind of Asian fetish you have then? Can you explain to me how it works? Do some white guys just auto think I'm hot if I'm like let's say a 5/10 do my asian features suddenly boost me up to like an 8/10 for guys with yellow fever?

Yes, yes it does. For some guys it's an exotic look that we rarely see, or fantasize about.

Okay so I wanted to address both of these comments together because I want to make my own intentions very clear. Though that may be dj211's opinion, it does not reflect my opinion.

Let me tell you when my fascination started with Japan. It started when I was a very young child and received a Nintendo SNES for Christmas. From that point on, I became an avid video game player. So from my roots, I was in love with products that were designed in the most technologically advanced country in the world. From televisions to movies to most forms of entertainment, Japan is years ahead of its time. Cell phones and texting were rapidly spreading in Japan while America was still using wired devices.

Japan is full of rich history, culture, and environment. And yes, Japanese women are beautiful. The language is beautiful. The artistic style of Japan is just jaw-dropping at times.

And when it comes to this personal ad, I will talk to anybody who is willing to have a discussion about the country. I didn't say that I necessarily wanted to date a Japanese girl (though I wouldn't deny it either). I'm just saying that I would like to have a friend who can share stories, interests, and experiences.

This is not a personal about sex. This is about an amazing country that has made a tremendous impact on my life even though I have not stepped foot on its soil.

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[princessface]

And yeah. I understand that you find the culture fascinating but you don't necessarily have to be a Japanese girl to be immersed within the culture. I have white friends that have worked there as language teachers, and now he lives there permanently so I would say that he knows a fair bit about Japanese culture.

And why are asian features attractive to white men? That I don't understand still. Are we stereotyped a certain way or something? Sometimes I find it offensive when men are looking specifically for asian women and I stay away because at that point you question whether or not he's interested in you, or how asian you look.

 

[Christopher2012]

And yeah. I understand that you find the culture fascinating but you don't necessarily have to be a Japanese girl to be immersed within the culture. I have white friends that have worked there as language teachers, and now he lives there permanently so I would say that he knows a fair bit about Japanese culture.

And why are asian features attractive to white men? That I don't understand still. Are we stereotyped a certain way out something? Sometimes I find it offensive when men are looking specifically for asian women and I stay away because at that point you question whether or not he's interested in you, or how asian you look.

I'm sorry you feel that way and I'm sorry I came across that way. I actually have several personal ads that don't just specify Asian girls. They are linked below. I don't have answers to your questions regarding stereotypes. I just know what I find to be attractive in a woman. It's just my personal preference. I don't only look for Asian girls. In this particular thread, it does seem that way but it's not the case.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1201951
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1204431

 

[ForeverDreaming]

And yeah. I understand that you find the culture fascinating but you don't necessarily have to be a Japanese girl to be immersed within the culture. I have white friends that have worked there as language teachers, and now he lives there permanently so I would say that he knows a fair bit about Japanese culture.

And why are asian features attractive to white men? That I don't understand still. Are we stereotyped a certain way or something? Sometimes I find it offensive when men are looking specifically for asian women and I stay away because at that point you question whether or not he's interested in you, or how asian you look.

Since I just had this discussion with Chris.. Many men (and women) do have a "fetish" for asians. But it is not a lot different then when I went to Japan. I stood out. I was different. Many men here in the states like "different" Asian women are different, and beautiful and often thought of as sensual and petite, and that makes them a turn on. One of my best friends married a Japanese girl because he assumed that she was going to be the old school, wait on him hand and foot, follow his orders kind of girl. When he found out that she wasn't like that, he divorced her and tried to claim she used him for a green card. Weird story, but explained at least his "thing" for why he wanted an Asian girl.


You are correct, it's not necessary to ask for an Asian woman to learn this culture, but it is a little more common to expect one to know the culture better, however, he has explained that it sounded bad, and he is purely looking for someone that can offer him knowledge of Japan.

He also did not intend to upset anyone, or offend anyone by his choice of wording and I explained that just because I'd love to learn about Italian culture, doesn't mean I couldn't learn it from someone who isn't italian. But they could easily lack the hot accent.

He did not mean to offend anyone, and if you want to know more about why there seems to be an Asian fetish. Try the fetish section and ask. I myself think Asian women are beautiful. However, that does not mean that American women are not, or any other woman.

 

[princessface]

Oh. I'm not offended in the slightest by what Chris said I just thought I'd put it out there that there are others who are culturally enriched that aren't necessarily native.

I wasn't referring to his ad when I was describing the ads where men look specifically for asian girls but the ones that are more raceplay specific. I'm more curious than anything and like to ask a lot of questions, cause I get hit on by a lot of raceplay curious guys and never understood why.

 

[Christopher2012]

I am so fortunate to have friends who can explain me better than I can! Thanks, Foxy for stepping in because I was looking really bad there for a minute.

I guess what it boils down to is that I did not realize that this thread would insult anybody. I thought I was showing appreciation for the culture and style. I did not realize that Asian women felt like I only wanted them because of their specific features. In retrospect, that was a terrible oversight and again, I'm sorry for that.

 

[ForeverDreaming]

Oh. I'm not offended in the slightest by what Chris said I just thought I'd put it out there that there are others who are culturally enriched that aren't necessarily native.

I wasn't referring to his ad when I was describing the ads where men look specifically for asian girls but the ones that are more raceplay specific. I'm more curious than anything and like to ask a lot of questions, cause I get hit on by a lot of raceplay curious guys and never understood why.

Your previous reference to frustration over men only looking for specific types of women, is really no different than a man who would post an ad for a skinny girl with blonde hair and blue eyes, or any other specific feature. We all have to face the fact that we don't fit everybody's role as to what is beautiful, and we all look for something special in a person even if we don't necessarily want to admit it. Sometimes that is just what Asian features bring out in men.


I am like you though and I loved us to know you questions, I just know Chris and his sensitivity level. he worries a little bit too much about how people perceive him. so I know that he was worried he had offended someone.

 

[Christopher2012]

Okay so I will add in an edit to the original post when I get some time and try to explain my intent better so that it's clear and not quite as fetish like. Buuut since we're on the discussion of the beauty of Japan, lets look at their dogs.


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[JudasIscariot]

That last picture is hilarious. What kind of dog is it?

 

[Christopher2012]

That last picture is hilarious. What kind of dog is it?

It's called a Shiba Inu. They are gorgeous dogs. I was working one day and a man brought one of these in. It was such an awesome dog.

 

[JudasIscariot]

It's called a Shiba Inu. They are gorgeous dogs. I was working one day and a man brought one of these in. It was such an awesome dog.

Thanks, I'll certainly be looking out for one.

 

[Christopher2012]

Thanks, I'll certainly be looking out for one.

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[Christopher2012]

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[Christopher2012]

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[Christopher2012]

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[Christopher2012]

My dreams are crushed....

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[Christopher2012]

Kyary Pamyu Pamyu

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[MeekMe]

It might help your case if you stop using girl and use woman instead. Also, posting pictures of young Japanese women is kind of a creepy way of boosting your ad. It's certainly fine to have preferences and a thirst for learning about Japan, but it seems a little insincere when you post pictures of cutesy street fashion.

Just a bit of helpful advice.

 

[Christopher2012]

It might help your case if you stop using girl and use woman instead. Also, posting pictures of young Japanese women is kind of a creepy way of boosting your ad. It's certainly fine to have preferences and a thirst for learning about Japan, but it seems a little insincere when you post pictures of cutesy street fashion.

Just a bit of helpful advice.

You know what, if people are really this sensitive about the thread, then I just don't give a damn. I'm going to keep posting what I like.

You think this thread is creepy? Have you been on Lit? There is not one nude photo in this thread and yes, I focus on the fashion.... The reason why is because I can't tell the goddamn difference between a naked Chinese girl and a naked Japanese girl.

And I'll use the word girl all I want. If I don't get any hits, then it's just a thread full of pictures.

Here I thought the "I want to fuck my sister and my mom and all my uncles" threads were creepy. Ooooh no boy, it's that Japanese thread with all the young, fully clothed girls.

Lit Member Logic

 

[Christopher2012]

It might help your case if you stop using girl and use woman instead. Also, posting pictures of young Japanese women is kind of a creepy way of boosting your ad. It's certainly fine to have preferences and a thirst for learning about Japan, but it seems a little insincere when you post pictures of cutesy street fashion.

Just a bit of helpful advice.

This more of what you had in mind? Here's a Japanese woman reading a book.

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