I've found it helps to get a sig line with a link to your thread in it, and to go and post on as many other threads as you can. It may take a few days, but the ladies will start coming to your thread.
If you just post your thread and sit back and wait, you'll fall off the page too quickly.
Go like you're going to make a post, click on the "http://" button, type in whatever you'd like to call your sig line, then click "okay" then copy and paste the link to your thread into the next box and click "okay" then copy the addy it posts...DO NOT submit the post. Go to your profile where it says "sig line" and paste it into that box.