My old accountant is tucking in my kiddos.

[Ezarc]

Bah Humbug.
Ezarc

 

[Marxist]

I don't get it...he couldn't make enough as a CPA and now he's a babysitter?

 

[Cheyenne]

Say what?

 

[modest mouse]

Your wife is with him?

 

[Ezarc]

Say what?

My soon to be ex is dating our old accountant and I found out today that hi has been tucking in the kids.
Ezarc

 

[Marxist]

Your wife is with him?

You'd think Ezarc would've just paid his taxes in hugs.

 

[Marxist]

My soon to be ex is dating our old accountant and I found out today that hi has been tucking in the kids.
Ezarc

Now that sucks in a new and imaginative way.

 

[Cheyenne]

My soon to be ex is dating our old accountant and I found out today that hi has been tucking in the kids.
Ezarc

Did you and Zamdrist go to the same discount school called "How to start confusing threads in 20 words or less?"

 

[Ezarc]

I miss my kids so much.
He is a good man and I trust him around them. I am experiencing something new to me, jealousy.
Ezarc

 

[Marxist]

I miss my kids so much.
He is a good man and I trust him around them. I am experiencing something new to me, jealousy.
Ezarc

Here's an idea: Write a paragraph or two explaining your situation. It might make me and everyone else care a little more and understand a little more.


Not that I don't care right now. No way dude, it's just that Jealousy is an old drinking partner of mine and I'd love to hear how he's doing.

Your friend, no hugs involved,
Marxist

 

[Ezarc]

Ok, I have been separated from my wife for close to two years. I lived in the area until November when I moved back to the Boston area. When separated, I saw mi kids about three times a week. I moved back here because I couldn't pay child support and was making almost no money. I am making more money and she is getting child support again.
She started dating our old accountant about four months ago. I know that he treats her well and is a good guy. I found out today that he tucks in the kids whenever he comes over.(which I got the impression was alot)
That is about it unless you have any more questions.
Ezarc

 

[Cheyenne]

No wonder you're a bit jealous.

You're in a tough spot- be able to support your children financially, or be able to see them more often but not give them as much. Throw in the boyfriend and I can see where you may feel "replaced."

I'm sure your kids would still pick you in a heartbeat if they had a choice of who to spend time with. Including being tucked in at night.

 

[pipercatt]

Taking a break from studying to give Ez a *huge hug*.

I know how rough it's been for you, hon. I wish I could do something to make you feel better.

Take care, hon...I'm pulling for you.

 

[Ezarc]

Taking a break from studying to give Ez a *huge hug*.

I know how rough it's been for you, hon. I wish I could do something to make you feel better.

Take care, hon...I'm pulling for you.

Thank All,
Especially my wonderful pippercatt. I am so unused to jealousy that it kinda freaks me a bit. I see them next weekend though. How is the waiting game, piper? Eight more days?
Take Care and Lust Always,
Ezarc

 

[patient1]

It's a no-win situation.

I'm glad there's a decent guy around your kids, I'm sorry it's not you. That's got to hurt you, even if it's good for them.

Maybe by next year they can spend the summer with you.
That'd be

 

[pipercatt]

Thank All,
Especially my wonderful pippercatt. I am so unused to jealousy that it kinda freaks me a bit. I see them next weekend though. How is the waiting game, piper? Eight more days?
Take Care and Lust Always,
Ezarc

Baby-doll, either I am talking waaay too much about it, you are just too sweet to be counting down along with me.

I think I'll opt for #2.

HUGS!

edited to add a missing word

 

[Ezarc]

Baby-doll, either I am talking waaay too much about it, you are just too sweet to be counting down along with me.

I think I'll opt for #2.

HUGS!

edited to add a missing word

Bingo give the girl a prize. I think I have only seen it once and that was in a pm. Other than that you have just mentioned that he was coming.
Take Care and Lust Always,
Ezarc

 

[penguindance]

 

[Ezarc]

Re: Re: My old accountant is tucking in my kiddos.

I'm sorry honey. Man, that sucks. It's tough to be away from them, I know. ((hugs)) Keep your chin up. You're still their daddy, you always will be, no matter where you are.

Thank you,
I am just bummed by not getting to do that myself.
Take Care,
Ezarc

 

[penguindance]

Re: Re: Re: My old accountant is tucking in my kiddos.

 

[Karmic Essence]

I got what you were saying right from the begining.
You're a better man than me.

Originally posted by Ezarc
She started dating our old accountant about four months ago. I know that he treats her well and is a good guy.

If it were someone who before was a stranger, then after meeting him you learned he was a good guy it would be one thing.

But having some guy who used to work for you come in and...


I dunno. I think I would be getting in some serious trouble if I were in your shoes.

 

[Ezarc]

I don't get mad easily. I just don't know how this should feel.
Ezarc

 

[Kitte]

Honey...there is no manual on feelings. There is no right or wrong way to feel. I am not a biological parent so I can not say I know how you feel but I can tell you, you are handling all of this very well. you are entitled to jealousy you are entitled to feel hurt and yes you are entitled to feel angry. You are away from the most important things in your life and there is another man doing the things you long to be doing of course it is going to evoke a plethor of emotions. Just know you are an amazing father and that I know and the boys will know you are doing the best you can. Like I said today. He may have a place in their life but he will never be Daddy.

I love you honey

 

[MsMuffet]

I don't get mad easily. I just don't know how this should feel.
Ezarc

No one knows... But I know how this feels... and so do YOU!

(((((((((((((((((((((((EZARC)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

 

[Ezarc]

I really thank you.
I miss them terribly. I want custody. Is that too selfish of me.
Ezarc