Congratulations on the new job, best of luck in 2001. As for the boyfriend, what do you expect, he's a man. He's obviously in need of more training. It will come with time.
First off, congrats on the new job. Wish I consistently landed back on my feet as well as you did this time.
Ahh, but while your job/life update was the majority of your message, it wasn't the real issue.
Reciprocity is a tricky thing. It extends into every aspect of the relationship. There is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship. OK, I'll make that an, in my opinion statement.
But in the area of sex I have to admit that I derive almost as much pleasure from giving my partner pleasure as from being pleasured. I love giving and receiving oral sex. And not just giving oral sex as a warm-up prior to the main event. There is nothing that compares to driving your partner to multiple orgasms with your tongue and touch. At the same time, there is nothing as beautiful as my partners lips around my shaft, or watching as I slide into and out of their pussy.
Perhaps your boyfriend is insecure about eating you out? With experience comes confidence. Have you shared with him how much it turns you on? There is also the possibility that he's just a selfish boor who expects a woman to service him in all areas of life from the laundry room to the kitchen to the bedroom.