My man wants "details"

[lillmizz]

Im soooooooo hoping someone maybe able to help me out. I have an unusal situation..
My bf and i have never been intimate....he is also in prison and has been for sometime...
he recently asked me to imagine him giving me oral sex and to write him the details of how it feels etc...well i have no clue what to say.. as i have never had oral before
im a bit nervous and shy sexually. with not alot of sex expericence.and have no clue what to say..i did try read some of the stories posted..but im honestly lost for words..so i thought id ask for a little help..just a quick description of how it feels....i dont want to dissapoint him with my words as he went to prison as a teenager and hasnt been with a woman in 13 or 14 years..
please can someone help

 

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[Jack_Samuel]

nobody will be able to give you experience.

Reading some stories copy and paste some feelings if thats all you want. But if you want to have, hold and grow you may have to actually live your life.

And theres only one way to do that...

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I have to echo JtohisPB's concerns. If you've never experienced oral sex, I really don't understand how he expects you to write a realistic fantasy. It's a bit catch 22. If you haven't found the stories here that helpful, I'm not sure what else to suggest. You know what kissing feels like and hopefully you've masturbated before so with a little imagination it shouldn't be too difficult to mix the two sensations in your mind.

I'd be careful of investing too much in this guy. He may very well be a reformed character but you can't know for sure. Also, given his early imprisonment and your apparent youth, neither of you has much real life experience. Take baby steps with him and after his release, give yourself some time to find out if he truly is the person he says he is now. Becoming this guy's girlfriend when he has spent so long inside is a serious undertaking and you may end up neglecting your own needs and growth in the face of this man's daunting task of rehabilitation. It's a serious undertaking to become someone's hope like that and if he has no supportive family waiting on the outside, you may swiftly become everything he has and when that happens, it's so hard to put yourself first and admit that things aren't working out.

You are making a great sacrifice by committing to this guy in such circumstances. It is possible that things will work out but do take great care to protect your own interests and future. There is still the possibility that this man could be a threat or danger when he is free, despite his good intentions.

 

[dashd]

Im soooooooo hoping someone maybe able to help me out. I have an unusal situation..
My bf and i have never been intimate....he is also in prison and has been for sometime...
he recently asked me to imagine him giving me oral sex and to write him the details of how it feels etc...well i have no clue what to say.. as i have never had oral before
im a bit nervous and shy sexually. with not alot of sex expericence.and have no clue what to say..i did try read some of the stories posted..but im honestly lost for words..so i thought id ask for a little help..just a quick description of how it feels....i dont want to dissapoint him with my words as he went to prison as a teenager and hasnt been with a woman in 13 or 14 years..
please can someone help

Why don't you tell him the truth, " have no clue what to say.. as i have never had oral before
im a bit nervous and shy sexually. with not alot of sex expericence" followed by something like "I can't wait for you to show me!"