Guide to being naked for men
This is my little blog of thoughts from many CMnf events I have done over the years. Girls, at first it seems scary and a little threatening but very soon you will learn to relax and enjoy it and it becomes so lovely and natural.
The basics of CMNF
Firsty, don’t do it if you don’t feel comfortable. You need to be relaxed, enjoy it and not feel scared that events will get out of control. Even though you are a sub you still need to be in control of your limits.
On the day shower and wash well, being really clean gives you more confidence. I use a pH neutral, natural soap so my skin is not reacting to any chemical in it. Afterwards, a little gentle moisturiser, again a gentle one. I use Neutrogena Hydro-Boost. Hair and nails done in a natural, I just use a clear polish and sometimes a french manicure and hair can be tied back off the shoulders or left down if your Sir prefers. Makeup, very little, a bit of foundation and be subtle with lipstick or any eye makeup, looking natural enhances the feeling of being naked.
Our pure CMnf events are casual which we think enhances the experience. It is just basically a relaxed social gathering likelike having the neighbors over for a drink and something to eat. I know it is hard but try and forget you are naked, mind over matter girls! Don’t do what I did and try and cover up and hide a little (hand bra lol), it’s a lot easier of you stand naturally and relaxed. After all it is CMnf and you are the nf. Talking to the men will help you relax, just chat and be attentive, listen to them and don’t talk about politics or religion! I find this calms the nerves, the men will look at you, often they are talking to your nipples but that is fine after a while you feel more comfortable in this situation.
After you have done a few gentle CMnf events you may start to feel you like it and become relaxed immediately in this situation. It is good then to try and learn how to sit stand and move so as to make the event more pleasurable for all involved. It also gives us girl a bit of fun and makes the event more exciting. Posture can play a subtle in important role in showing you body off. Practice in front of full length mirrors or even better a male friend! Posture is critical, stand upright and chest out, shoulders back. Legs can be slightly apart but nothing unnatural or forced. Sometimes you may have to reach over or bend down for something. Remember do this slowly and show off your body a little. Bend from the hips have your legs slightly apart. After a while and with growing confidence you can casually pose and expose your body to your male guests.
The next step… should you want to take it.
Touching.
This is a different dynamic and one maybe you don't’ want to take so this is fine and just stick to CMNF. If I go through how touching events work for us then you can have a think about it and see if you want to do limited are touching or maybe just with your partner.
Firstly it is essential that you have a small group of trusted men and they understand the rules and boundaries of the event, this cannot be overstated. Also, timing of the event and a schedule is important, you and your guests want to know what is allowed and when.
We normally start off with normal CMNF event, maybe about an hour or maybe longer. You can control the length of time the event goes on for and how long the men are allowed to touch. It is also important the touching can be halted at any time and you have a safeword that the men have agreed on if it gets a little uncomfortable.
After the initial CMNF we maybe have drinks or something to eat to signify that touching will then be allowed. This can also be announced by either you or your partner. It is a good idea that your partner explains that touching should start slowly and work up. So the men can start by gently touching and caressing your skin. As the event goes on the men will increase the level of touching. Maybe set a limit either with time or the level of touching allowed. Sir, allows full access to my body so normally the men will start of gently touching and running fingers over my body. Then they will gently grope, my breasts and buttocks and then caress and play with nipples and maybe play with my feet if seated. Finally, the men will play with my clitoris and insert fingers inside my vagina and anus. We do this in what we call passive touching in that the men can do it to me but neither of us discuss or react to the touching. I let the men explore my body as they want with no direction. Obviously the men have to have control and some discussion beforehand so it is slow and not a free for all! Also, Sir had trained me to internalise arousal so I can carry on despite stimulation and almost reach a state of a low level orgasm during the most intense stages of the event.
Now, what I have said regarding posture applies even more during touching and require some practice to move and stand as to allow access to your body.
Above all relax and enjoy it.
Xxx
Great CMnf thread.
Never having attended a CMnf party, what is the proper etiquette for touching your clitoris? Ask first? Smile and use one finger? Or just grab? There are so many things I don't know, but would like to learn.
