My life questions

[Acre]

Hey this is my first post ever on literotica. Ive just got a few questions as i turned 18 at the end of last year and i don't like talking to people i know about this stuff as im quite shy about it. Im feeling stupid already asking these questions.

1. At this age should i still be getting uncontrollable erections? I don't know what triggers it but i can just be sitting here doing some work and i will get an erection.

2. I haven't had sex yet, the most ive gone with a girl is with my last girlfriend where she gave me a blowjob and i fingered her. Unfortunetly she moved away but has recently sent me some emails. Im confused on what she wants as i haven't seen her in ages.

3. Normally when i masturbate, i always find myself rolling off the bed to kneel on the floor, bucking my hips back and forward as i masturbate. Is this normal?

4. My Penis is about 7inches long and about 1 1/2 to 2 inches thick. Is this good or bad?

5. When i tried Phone Sex with a girl friend (just a friend, she asked if i wanted to try it) when i masturbated to her words, my body went crazy and kinda freaked me out my body shook alot.

More to come when i gain some more courage. Thanks for any help.

(Just realised i probably posted this in the wrong section)

 

[Chicklet]

I don't think there's a cut-off age for uncontrollable erections. I've been with men who are well into their 20's and have spontanious erections... unless of course they just don't want to admit it's me

The hip bucking motion is what you'd do during sex. I do similar things, pumping my hips up and down from the bed when I'm masturbating. not always, but sometimes. You shouldn't worry about whether or not your masturbation technique is 'normal' - i doubt there's anything someone else hasn't done before

your penis size would probably be a deal-breaker for me - too long! but everybody has different tastes.

Sounds like you just had a really good orgasm during the phone sex.

**Edit to add:

I think that THIS is a great place for people, both men and women, who haven't had the opportunity to see many different penises in person. It's great to show what a huge variety of 'normal' there is.

 

[DerelictionOfSanity]

Hey this is my first post ever on literotica. Ive just got a few questions as i turned 18 at the end of last year and i don't like talking to people i know about this stuff as im quite shy about it. Im feeling stupid already asking these questions.

1. At this age should i still be getting uncontrollable erections? I don't know what triggers it but i can just be sitting here doing some work and i will get an erection.

2. I haven't had sex yet, the most ive gone with a girl is with my last girlfriend where she gave me a blowjob and i fingered her. Unfortunetly she moved away but has recently sent me some emails. Im confused on what she wants as i haven't seen her in ages.

3. Normally when i masturbate, i always find myself rolling off the bed to kneel on the floor, bucking my hips back and forward as i masturbate. Is this normal?

4. My Penis is about 7inches long and about 1 1/2 to 2 inches thick. Is this good or bad?

5. When i tried Phone Sex with a girl friend (just a friend, she asked if i wanted to try it) when i masturbated to her words, my body went crazy and kinda freaked me out my body shook alot.

More to come when i gain some more courage. Thanks for any help.

(Just realised i probably posted this in the wrong section)

1) The erections are perfectly normal. If you want them to go away, try to think about something very boring (Personally, I use the multiplication tables)

2) Try asking her gently what she wants. Don't be afraid to admit it if you're confused.

3) Some guys do it. It's certainly not abnormal. Masturbation and sex tend to be extremely different from person to person. A good site about masturbation (informative) is jackinworld.com

4) You're a bit above average in length. It's good if you're happy with it, bad if you're not.

5) Sounds like you had a more powerful orgasm with the additional stimulation. It's probably nothing to be concerned about, but if it worries you, you might ask a doctor.

This is the GayLesbianBiTrans chatter forum, meaning that most of the people posting here fall into one of those categories. If you feel that this is the wrong place for your thread, you can ask one of the moderators to move it. That being said, feel free to post here if you want to, I don't think anyone minds.

 

[SephStarr]

I think that THIS is a great place for people, both men and women, who haven't had the opportunity to see many different penises in person. It's great to show what a huge variety of 'normal' there is.

That site's fascinating-*I* didn't know there was that much variation, and I'm a complete slut! [grin]

 

[gingermango]

your penis size would probably be a deal-breaker for me - too long!

I'm definitely out then - 8.5" - 9". I guessed I watched too much porn early on because I never realized that wasn't about average. After I got divorced and remarried a sexy, swinger chick Goddess (and therefore started having sex with a lot more people) I realized it wasn't average.

On the other hand, I did once send my wife to the ER with a bruised cervix (and no, that's not a tall tale or a made-up story). I felt terrible.

 

[Chicklet]

On the other hand, I did once send my wife to the ER with a bruised cervix (and no, that's not a tall tale or a made-up story). I felt terrible.

ouch...

that's something i fear!

my last two *average* lovers have found angles that make me feel like someone's pounded a battering ram into the back of my body, sometimes making it hard for me to walk.

i'd like to use the excuse of my small stature, but duh, i know i could physically take a much bigger object. it just huuuuurts.