But what if you're not gay? What if you're really bi? If you're in a committed relationship, should you keep it to that, even if you're partner is ok with it, if you intend to stay in that relationship always, if you didn't know till years into it? Should you either leave them to explore that, or just not follow those urges?
What an incredibly honest story.
Gay straight...doesn't matter. You fell in love.
My heart sank cuz of the pain all of you went through.
I crossed the line with an older married gentleman. We have been lovers for 2 yrs as his wife is sick with MS, but I can't have him. Like you we started out fulfilling a fantasy fully expecting it to be a one night stand but we have such a strong bond. I love him dearly. I respect his wife and her place in his life. I call him the luckiest man on the planet to have two women who are crazy about him.
Thanks for sharing.
-Hotncmom
This was a really moving story..how is your ex? and your daughters? Are they ok?
Don't worry, I'm sure you and your partner will regain all that is lost and gain even more. You got a long way to go in life
Just remember who and what is really important to you
What I admire is people who know their faults and try to make things better. You seem to be that kind of a guy. You didn't run away and didn't hide. Your wife will move on.. she has way to go in life, it's just that it hasn't been that long since you broke up. I'm happy that everything is fine with your girls At least if the tension is gone your wife can start relaxing..Eventually she'll start living life in her own rythme.