My incest story...

I think you've shown us a new face of incest. We don't see this side of it, most of us don't read it or care for it, but you are exploring it and its outcome.
Perhaps writing will give you a sense of peace and understanding. :rose:
 
Most of what is written here is fantasy. The fantasy and the reality of incest are so far apart. Your story is the reality. Write it.
 
Dismantled said:
Thank you! I'll be honest, just rereading what I've written here has given me some new perspective on this ordeal.
Just a suggestion, but perhaps you need to talk to someone on a professional level, sometimes we need to go deep inside ourselves to find out who we are.

I think you're headed in the right direction.
 
Literalizing our fantasies, especially the taboo ones, can often end up with serious, real life consequences.

I would strongly, strongly suggest that you seek someone to talk to about this--a professional, someone recommended to you rather than a pick out of the phone book, preferably.

A lot of what you and your mother are playing out together is a psychological process that we all go through--most don't literalize it, though.

Not to get all Freudian (and I'm not--a Freudian--but it's one theory and can be useful) but the Oedipal complex is real and as you know, can happen "in real life." But talk about cautionary tales--look at what happened to Oedipus and his family :(

God help the man who "wins" his mother from his father... and that's just what has happened to you...

Again, I want to encourage you to seek outside of yourself for answers... go talk to someone...

because you have to think about your future. Are you planning on staying in a relationship with your mother? Is your fantasy (or hers) about running off together? While this isn't an impossibilty... it's a pretty disasterous improbability...

what happens when this affair ends?

all things to think about....

You are smart, clear and articulate, and clearly have a handle on what's going on... but I think you need some more help getting through... don't you?

:rose:
 
i'm not sure there's a market for a 'cautionary tale,' though there might be a market for truth.

I think people need more warning about the kind of trouble mom/son incest can get you into,

you don't sound wholly convincing here, since you generally deny trouble and say you've got everything under control, can stop when you want etc.

i agree it would be interesting from a psychological standpoint to hear of 'taboo' relationships that aren't destructive and Satanic. i'm thinking of the film, 'Close My Eyes' about a man and his sister; it was quite well done, including the consequences. this stuff is hard to find. (somewhere on the 'net, it's there.)
 
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