If I was to find my ideal domme, this is what She would be like, and most importantly, this is what we would be like together. In a perfect D/s relationship.
She would be someone whom, it would give me pure bliss simply to lie at Her feet and admire Her power and grace. Whose corporal punishments I would gladly endure for Her, both to be strong for Her and for Her to teach me to to be a better partner for Her.
She would be someone who I admire, both Her intelligence and her strength. Confident, secure, intelligent, educated, and a good, moral person. Someone whom, I could learn from and be a better person for simply having known them.
She would be sexy, in a way that would make me want to worship her feminine power.
We would explore our kinks, of course. We would share mutual interests both out of the bedroom and in it. I would eagerly satisfy Her whims, both her darkest fantasies and most sadistic urges. Because by doing so, I would satisfy mine. We would have an "open" relationship- in that She would be able to seek sexual release however (and with whomever) she sees fit, while She would, of course, allow me to have sexual release, but only however She sees fit.
But more than that, She would be a companion and a best friend. Someone with whom I could share quiet evenings at home, long hikes in the hills to distant lakes and deep woods, someone to share laughter and joy, and to help each other through hardship and sorrow. Someone who would know my darkest secrets without being judgemental. And likewise I would be the same to her. Basically someone I could worship and adore, to share kinks, pleasure and pain.
I post this here, not expecting to find it. It is a one in a million thing to find such chemistry even in the vanilla world. But for those like me who do share that with their dominant partner- cherish it, for it is a beautiful thing.
She would be someone whom, it would give me pure bliss simply to lie at Her feet and admire Her power and grace. Whose corporal punishments I would gladly endure for Her, both to be strong for Her and for Her to teach me to to be a better partner for Her.
She would be someone who I admire, both Her intelligence and her strength. Confident, secure, intelligent, educated, and a good, moral person. Someone whom, I could learn from and be a better person for simply having known them.
She would be sexy, in a way that would make me want to worship her feminine power.
We would explore our kinks, of course. We would share mutual interests both out of the bedroom and in it. I would eagerly satisfy Her whims, both her darkest fantasies and most sadistic urges. Because by doing so, I would satisfy mine. We would have an "open" relationship- in that She would be able to seek sexual release however (and with whomever) she sees fit, while She would, of course, allow me to have sexual release, but only however She sees fit.
But more than that, She would be a companion and a best friend. Someone with whom I could share quiet evenings at home, long hikes in the hills to distant lakes and deep woods, someone to share laughter and joy, and to help each other through hardship and sorrow. Someone who would know my darkest secrets without being judgemental. And likewise I would be the same to her. Basically someone I could worship and adore, to share kinks, pleasure and pain.
I post this here, not expecting to find it. It is a one in a million thing to find such chemistry even in the vanilla world. But for those like me who do share that with their dominant partner- cherish it, for it is a beautiful thing.
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