My idea of the Perfect Dom...

[~Dream~]

originally posted by Spankabelle:
Strength of character( He has that ) and a knowledge of Himself in all facets of life.( shown me that also ) Strength of spirit, human decency and kindness,( Artful has always treated me kind) openness of heart and mind.(His heart was open enuf to receive my love ) Patience, a lot of patience.(without His Patience I would be lost forever)
Certainty of what He needs, wants, desires( I pray He still wants , needs & Desires Me as His Submissive )
. Quiet Dominance that radiates off His being and quivers in His words.( His words ARE very POWERFUL to me) Unpretentious confidence in Himself.(he has enuf Confidence for us both lol)

Understanding. Respect.(always) Willingness to communicate.(He spends more time on ME that anything else) Ability to learn(always reading and educating Himself )
. A steady hand that guides, pushes gently, nudges just enough.(Sometimes His guidance goes unappreciated by me , for that I publicly apologize)
Knows His own soul.(hope I'm in there?) Ability to listen, to actually hear and digest what is being said.(He does His BEST ,Period).. Encouraging of one to learn, to read, to ask, to research, to better oneself.(yES He encourages me to better mysef).. Insightful. Affectionate.(mmmm ) Extremely sexual, sensual, erotic, kinky( A MAN AFTER MY own HEART and IT belongs only to Him). Loyal to His heart.(I am there) Emotional and mental strength.(He has that also) Laughter( God how I love to hear His *chuckle*). Strength in building up one that is weak(He COMPLETES ME)
, and tearing down that which keeps Him from accomplishing it.HOPE HE NEVER STOPS TEARING AWAY MY INSECURITIES AND DOUBTS Relentless( YES). Trustworthy and knowing that that too must be earned to some extent(and He HAS earned it ). Never settling. Always knowing what His girl is feeling,( I hope He feels my wanting and my Needing of Him tonite )
knowing her, what is best, even and especially when she is lost..( I AM Lost without Him) . Knowledge in His own physical power. Knowledge in His own limits. Knowledge in when to stop. Knowledge in the safety of His girl, emotionally, mentally(yes yes yes), physically, sexually. Being in control at all times, even when His guard is down.(He is) Never being afraid to be human, to accept mistakes, to own up, to ask forgiveness, to accept it when given( Master has ALWAYS done that !1)
. To see beauty in one kneeling. To see beauty beyond the outward package. To see the soul inside and know the answer to the question... To know when to release His girl when He sees He is not doing what is best for her submissive soul. Strength to see and to embrace that which is before Him, begging, seeking, needing to be released into His hands... (i HUMBLY beg Not to be released but to have my submission accepted here now publicly in this forum ..please???/


Master ARTFUL IS what is BEST for me.I need Him and His strength and guidance as surely as the air that I breathe,I beg you to reconsider Your decision , M'love and to give our relationship just 1 more chance ? I need you ,i love you and I am INCOMPLETE without you by my side.. it's all the TRUTH .. I will never want another Master ,it is YOU or NOONE AT ALL!! period
I am terribly sorry for dishonoring you ,I love you and widsh to offer myself to you , I will do my very BEST to accept whatever decision YOU decide is right for *US* you will ALWAYS have my Heart , no matter what

 

[Ghost's amaris]

Dream

That is a very beautiful post. I know that it is all true from you as well.

I wish you all the luck and I pray that things work out for the best for both of you.

I really do hope to maybe see you and Artful work it all out.

Ghost's amaris

 

[artful]

Dream

I haven't asked for your collar,...but I want you to know,...if you wish to walk,...you may walk away,..."BLAMELESS". That's all I will comment on PUBLICLY.

 

[Ghost's amaris]

Artful and Dream

I wish you both the best and I really hope you guys can work out everything the way you wish it to work out.

The best of luck to you both.

Ghost's amaris

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Dream

I haven't asked for your collar,...but I want you to know,...if you wish to walk,...you may walk away,..."BLAMELESS". That's all I will comment on PUBLICLY.

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Thank -you for the option Master but I respectfully DECLINE to walk,and with all due RESPECT, I am 'NOT ' Blameless ' at all baby , I am the guilty one and we BOTH know it.. I accept Your forgiveness and hope only and pray only to serve You and ONLY You much much better in the future,I love You , and PROUDLY wear Your Collar,Master..

*there is not , nor will EVER be another Master for Dream , I CHOOSE only You ... always..I pray You will accept me...

 

[MissTaken]

That is good news from both of you, as long as it is what makes you happy.

Now, I feel a need to remind you both.

Nobody IS perfect...no perfect Doms, no perfect subs.

Communication, patience and communication are key in any BDSM relationship, any relationship at all, actually.

Keep those communication lines open.
Dont' play games.
And when it gets real tough, do what you need to do to get through the next day as long as it is done with respect and openess.

Sometimes, a prayer here or there works too.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Another moving out of lurk mode

I for one, would like less posting of you and Art's personal business. Can we please have some discussion on BDSM, please?

Now I am going back to sleep for a while.

Ebony

That is good news from both of you, as long as it is what makes you happy.

Now, I feel a need to remind you both.

Nobody IS perfect...no perfect Doms, no perfect subs.

Communication, patience and communication are key in any BDSM relationship, any relationship at all, actually.

Keep those communication lines open.
Dont' play games.
And when it gets real tough, do what you need to do to get through the next day as long as it is done with respect and openess.

Sometimes, a prayer here or there works too.

 

[~Dream~]

Miss T..

That is good news from both of you, as long as it is what makes you happy.

Now, I feel a need to remind you both.

Nobody IS perfect...no perfect Doms, no perfect subs.

Communication, patience and communication are key in any BDSM relationship, any relationship at all, actually.

Keep those communication lines open.
Dont' play games.
And when it gets real tough, do what you need to do to get through the next day as long as it is done with respect and openess.

Sometimes, a prayer here or there works too.

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Thank you for the very KIND words of advice and I shall do my very BEST to adhere to them.. it's great to KNOW there are several people out there ,which are TRUE friends to Master and I that really care about us BOTH ,ty soo much Miss T ...

 

[A Desert Rose]

I have avoided this thread and others like it in other forums. And I do believe I posted to it before. But here I go again.

I don't like lists that someone has to live up to. I don't like lists that I have to live up to. I think it is restrictive and goes against all the things I hold important, such as tolerance and acceptance.

No one is perfect. I don't seek perfection in myself or others. If I did, I would have no friends and it would surely limit my romantic contacts.

Perfect conotes static, unchanging. And we should all strive to grow and change and learn.

I bet I said this all before but I am too lazy to go back and read the thread again. ~smiling~

 

[~Dream~]

I understand Rose

the actual LIST .. so to speak was originally posted by Spankabelle, not I , I just felt it had alot of good qualities I saw in my Master and that submissives other than I might see in theirs also and help them come to "appreciate' their Masters more as I do mine now also... ty for your post Sis

 

[Lancecastor]

Hey Dream....have you thought about something a little larger for your sig file, something that lets people know how you really feel?

 

[~Dream~]

aww come on Lance..

Hey Dream....have you thought about something a little larger for your sig file, something that lets people know how you really feel?

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not YOU too!1 lol give a girl a break already , sigs are up to personal preferences after all and I at last have found mine ,have No intention of changing it sorry ,unless of Course, My Master recquests it of me ... hehe

 

[Lancecastor]

I don't expect you to change, Dream.

Just to consider the point of view that your sig preferences are seen as silly and selfish and thereby devalue your posts.

JMHO

 

[MissTaken]

Good post, DR.

And using a list by which to measure yourself or someone close to you is bound to end in disappointment.

People do not fit into tiny little boxes on a checklist.

They are who they are and what works for Dream may not work for the rest of us.

I have avoided this thread and others like it in other forums. And I do believe I posted to it before. But here I go again.

I don't like lists that someone has to live up to. I don't like lists that I have to live up to. I think it is restrictive and goes against all the things I hold important, such as tolerance and acceptance.

No one is perfect. I don't seek perfection in myself or others. If I did, I would have no friends and it would surely limit my romantic contacts.

Perfect conotes static, unchanging. And we should all strive to grow and change and learn.

I bet I said this all before but I am too lazy to go back and read the thread again. ~smiling~

 

[Lancecastor]

People do not fit into tiny little boxes

Some people do, MissTaken. I've read entire threads about how to build them and everything!

 

[MissTaken]

Some people do, MissTaken. I've read entire threads about how to build them and everything!

Mmmmm


So, do you have anything in a size... ****?

(I am not telling my size!)

 

[zipman]

Mmmmm


So, do you have anything in a size... ****?

(I am not telling my size!)

I know her size, it's:














Perfect!

 

[~Dream~]

Lance..

I don't expect you to change, Dream.

Just to consider the point of view that your sig preferences are seen as silly and selfish and thereby devalue your posts.

JMHO

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I am truly sorry that You CHOOSE to see the way I express my love for Master as silly and selfish *sigh* Man oh man there is just no pleasin some people ... but ya know what ? I dont HAVE to ,as long as I am Happy & Master is happy ,thats all that REALLY matters to me.... sorry you feel that way Lance ,but you ARE entitled to Your opinion,,ya know FREE Speech and all that..

 

[Lancecastor]

That's more like it...let's get you folks back to PervTalk instead of yammering about Art & Dream...those two young lovers are going to make us all fucking crazy if we let them anyway!

MissTaken, I think you should disrobe and cover yourself in olive oil, as this box is a little snug.

 

[~Dream~]

good point Miss T..

Good post, DR.

And using a list by which to measure yourself or someone close to you is bound to end in disappointment.

People do not fit into tiny little boxes on a checklist.

They are who they are and what works for Dream may not work for the rest of us.

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as well as what works for you all may not work for my Master & I at all,each relationship is special &unique.. I am willing toincorporate the ideas of others into my open mind tho.. np

 

[Lancecastor]

Re: Lance..

as long as I am Happy & Master is happy ,thats all that REALLY matters to me....

I realize that your happiness (with your Master's happiness coming afterwards) is all that matters to you, Dream.

Just thought I'd give it a shot.

 

[P. B. Walker]

I never thought I'd say this... but after reading "someone's" posts here and in other places... my will to live is just completely drained... Someone just come by after work and drag me out back by the woodpile so I don't stink up the office.

PBW "Can that sig possibly get any LONGER?"

 

[zipman]

I never thought I'd say this... but after reading "someone's" posts here and in other places... my will to live is just completely drained... Someone just come by after work and drag me out back by the woodpile so I don't stink up the office.

PBW "Can that sig possibly get any LONGER?"

Hang in there PBW! We can't afford to lose you! But if that doesn't change your mind, sprinkle some lime on yourself, it will help keep the smell from getting too bad!

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Re: Lance..

I realize that your happiness (with your Master's happiness coming afterwards) is all that matters to you, Dream.

Just thought I'd give it a shot.

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Lance,that is NOT what I meant at all and You know it, It was simply the way I phrased it, omg !! You people are getting quite ludicris ..it's almost laughable .. almost .. My Master Artful's happiness comes First before me and after My children's period!!...
FOR YOU TO TAKE MY own words Lance and try to use them against me causes me to doubt your true friendship after all(geez the ignore list is starting to sound better & better)

I am not in this world to live up to Your expectations or any others..
I set goals for MYSELF to be the BEST submissive for my Master ,not to make anyone in this forum ,a "happy camper'.
I Choose to submit to Artful and make Him happy ,when I cease to do so ,,I would fully expect to be "released" when HE says.. no one else.. and I pray that that day will NEVER come..

 

[Lancecastor]

Dream;

The words were yours. I simply trimmed off the rest of it to illustrate my point.

No offence; I'm just not interested in debating or discussing your relationship with Art.

I'm not the first person to suggest to you that your sig is over the top.

I'm not the first person to suggest that we'd be interested in hearing something out of you that isn't all about You and how You feel about Art.

You do with all of that as you see fit. It's your life.

Cheers;

Lance