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I recently went to my first party, and despite my initial concerns about many things agreed to be publicly flogged on a St Andrews Cross by my friend Chris.
I have always said that playing in a group was not for me, but in the club it felt secure and a safe thing to try.
My initial reason for asking to be flogged is I wanted to try out the St Andrews Cross, I have never tried any large pieces of equipment (for those with dirty minds insert your own joke here!
) and I realised that being chained to the cross and not having anything done to me would be worse than actually participating.
I have to add that a pm from Luna also added to my curiosity about being played with in a group situation.....
My friend is an experienced person of 20 +yrs whose main love is CP not D/s, he does not consider himself a Dom. I had watched him throughout the evening spanking and flogging others and I felt he would stop long before my embarrassment level kicked in.
He started with a horsehair flogger which was too light but it did help me relax and calm me. He changed to a suede flogger with soft flat ends. It was nice to begin with and when I became de-sensitised to that he used a 3rd flogger. I am not sure what it was made of but it felt like suede but with less ‘give’ in it and a firmer impact. The final one he used was leather. It was not the softest of leather but nor was it too hard and unbending. After a brief time of that I knew I could not take too much more in a public place.
Throughout the 25-30mins that Chris took with me he constantly checked and re-checked I was ok, he showed me each new flogger and laid it close to my face so I could feel it on my skin. I was surprised how easy it was to forget you were in a public place and just focus on the sensations. It was enjoyable and only towards the end did I start to feel the pain receptors kick in. I spoke to Chris later and asked him about how he knew to change floggers, directions and finally stop. He said he constantly watches the body language and works accordingly.
I did not lose myself in the flogging and I did enjoy it, but in a detached way.
As there was no emotional involvement it was like trying on a new piece of clothing to see how it feels.
And it felt ...****
Edit to add: I have three pics of the night but they are too big to upload, so if anyones knows how to reduce them or can reduce them for me I will post them
I have always said that playing in a group was not for me, but in the club it felt secure and a safe thing to try.
My initial reason for asking to be flogged is I wanted to try out the St Andrews Cross, I have never tried any large pieces of equipment (for those with dirty minds insert your own joke here!
) and I realised that being chained to the cross and not having anything done to me would be worse than actually participating.I have to add that a pm from Luna also added to my curiosity about being played with in a group situation.....
My friend is an experienced person of 20 +yrs whose main love is CP not D/s, he does not consider himself a Dom. I had watched him throughout the evening spanking and flogging others and I felt he would stop long before my embarrassment level kicked in.
He started with a horsehair flogger which was too light but it did help me relax and calm me. He changed to a suede flogger with soft flat ends. It was nice to begin with and when I became de-sensitised to that he used a 3rd flogger. I am not sure what it was made of but it felt like suede but with less ‘give’ in it and a firmer impact. The final one he used was leather. It was not the softest of leather but nor was it too hard and unbending. After a brief time of that I knew I could not take too much more in a public place.
Throughout the 25-30mins that Chris took with me he constantly checked and re-checked I was ok, he showed me each new flogger and laid it close to my face so I could feel it on my skin. I was surprised how easy it was to forget you were in a public place and just focus on the sensations. It was enjoyable and only towards the end did I start to feel the pain receptors kick in. I spoke to Chris later and asked him about how he knew to change floggers, directions and finally stop. He said he constantly watches the body language and works accordingly.
I did not lose myself in the flogging and I did enjoy it, but in a detached way.
As there was no emotional involvement it was like trying on a new piece of clothing to see how it feels.
And it felt ...****
Edit to add: I have three pics of the night but they are too big to upload, so if anyones knows how to reduce them or can reduce them for me I will post them
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) is a wonderful thing. And yes, playing without the emotional attachment (or baggage, as some people put it) can make a first public scene easier for some people. I'm glad to hear you got through it and enjoyed. We'll look forward to video (or at least pics!) of some of your next adventures! 
and go you for being so couragous..I'd never be able to do anything like that..
