My first "kinky" experience

BlueDaisy

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Posted at the encouragement of my friend....


I don't usually venture out of the Playground and General Board, so some of you in this forum might not know me. But I had an experience on this past Saturday that I wanted to share and felt that you folks could appreciate it more than the people I usually interact with.

I've led a pretty "vanilla" existence for the most of my life, but have lots of kinky fantasies which I always have hopes of coming to pass, but never really expect them to. Well, one finally did!

Saturday night a local group had its "play party" and I went as a guest of Dusty and Jess as a precursor to joining the group. It was, to use a much overused word, awesome! Dusty offered to use some of his toys on me, and wow! did he ever. I stripped (egad! did I do that in public? I still have trouble getting used to having done that!) and he cuffed me to an X-shaped thing. He used a variety of his "toys" on me. I had to ask later what they were: 2 different suede floggers, one heavy and one light, a quirt, a hemp flogger, and eagles beak and a fantasy whip. He stopped after the fantasy whip because it was breaking my skin. Dammit. I was really getting "into" it. I'm not sure which one I liked the best...I think it was the hemp flogger, but they are all a jumble in my mind. My butt was sore all day yesterday, and is still a bit tender today. What a nice reminder of a great evening!

Afterwards, he used a piece of fur to rub me down for what he called "aftercare", then wrapped me in a blanket for a bit. After I got dressed, we were introduced to a person who was visiting from another group from out of town. She (excuse me...."he"...had this awesome looking thing that was a bundle of polycarbonate "things" attached to a handle. They reminded me of a bundle of thick fiberoptic strands.) Anyway, by this time I was game for just about anything. I had gotten my dress back on, and did something else I never thought I'd do...Dusty, Jess and the other person were sitting in a semi-circle behind me (I was on the floor in front of them). I hiked up my dress, pulled my panties over to the side and gave him a target, and again, to use the overworked word, it was awesome! I wasn't ready for it to be over. I guess I'm a glutton for pain. lol I seem to recall them using the words "masochist" and "pain slut" in reference to me. At least, I think they were talking about me.

Oh...and can't forget Volcano, Dusty's "Daddy". He and I both have October birthdays, so Dusty got his birthday spanking (apparently Dom's don't get birthday spankings, they give them), then later I got his spanking PLUS my birthday spanking. Dusty said he used on me a dressage whip, a dogging bat and a rattan cane. I did NOT like the cane. The last thing he used on the last hit (number 45 for me, and I think he was turning 37, so I got a lot of spanking) nearly knocked me off my feet. I was leaning over one of those padded sawhorse things, and Dusty almost had to grab me to keep me from falling. I turned around and asked just what the hell he hit me with...it was his forearm! Damn but he had a good blow with that arm!

Well, I hope you've enjoyed my first foray into the world of kinkiness. For me, anyway, this is kinky. Vanilla old me. I hope it isn't my last. I told Dusty and Jess in a PM today that I'm ready, willing and able to have another go at it! Guess I am a glutton for punishment.

Thanks for reading my story.
 
Wonderful! I am pleased you had such an enjoyable and memorable experience. Not too many are brave enough to go to a play party before a munch and to not only attend but participate. Something about diving into the deep end comes to mind for some reasons. :D

Bravo! From the tools used on you I would say that they are right in their referral of you being a "masochist" and "pain slut". Many beginners into this would run away from some of the items you mentioned. Plus if they were breaking your skin that would confirm it too.

Shame you didn't enjoy the cane, that is my favorite of all tools because it is so versatile. Anyway that is just me.

I hope your other experiences from here on out are just as pleasurable for you. Welcome to the scrumptious world of kink...aka S&M.
 
Congratulations and welcome to the world of perversion!

Takes a while to feel anything but hatred of the cane, you may find yourself revisiting it in the furture though. I know very very very few people who liked it the first time.
 
Also I extend a warm welcome into the world of perversion. Mybe I'm weird but I'm both afraid of the cane and in love with it. But alas, that is another story, so have fun and enjoy your exploration as far as you wish to go!
 
Joe Schmoe said:
Wonderful! I am pleased you had such an enjoyable and memorable experience. Not too many are brave enough to go to a play party before a munch and to not only attend but participate. Something about diving into the deep end comes to mind for some reasons. :D

Bravo! From the tools used on you I would say that they are right in their referral of you being a "masochist" and "pain slut". Many beginners into this would run away from some of the items you mentioned. Plus if they were breaking your skin that would confirm it too.

Shame you didn't enjoy the cane, that is my favorite of all tools because it is so versatile. Anyway that is just me.

I hope your other experiences from here on out are just as pleasurable for you. Welcome to the scrumptious world of kink...aka S&M.

I went to the munch prior to the play party; seems to be a prequisite here. But thank you, just the same! I look forward to the next events!
 
sphynx's dragon and Netzach... still hav my doubts about the cane, but the rest was most enjoyalbe!
Thanks!
 
*chuckles* Glad I could assist in getting you to let your hair down. I was quite impressed with you and found that you were quite fun to beat. Glad I was the one to break your bdsm cherry ;)

Though, I do believe I have created a monster :rolleyes:
I suppose if you can't wait for the next play party, there's always the GWNN play party next month. Not sure if we are going or not yet though.

I'm not big on the cane either, though I've only ever had one used on me in an actual punishment scene so I suppose I can't judge my cane experience by that.
 
DustyWolfe said:
*chuckles* Glad I could assist in getting you to let your hair down. I was quite impressed with you and found that you were quite fun to beat. Glad I was the one to break your bdsm cherry ;)

Though, I do believe I have created a monster :rolleyes:
I suppose if you can't wait for the next play party, there's always the GWNN play party next month. Not sure if we are going or not yet though.

I'm not big on the cane either, though I've only ever had one used on me in an actual punishment scene so I suppose I can't judge my cane experience by that.

Yep, you created a monster, alright! I'm already ready, willing and able!
Hugs....
 
BlueDaisy said:
Yep, you created a monster, alright! I'm already ready, willing and able!
Hugs....

Yep... scening is very addictive. For some it's like a drug. You start to crave those chemical rushes that you get from a good scene.
 
DustyWolfe said:
Yep... scening is very addictive. For some it's like a drug. You start to crave those chemical rushes that you get from a good scene.

Yeah...poor Dusty is getting tired of my asking when we can do it again. lol
 
DustyWolfeI suppose if you can't wait for the next play party said:
GWNN?? Did i hear you say GWNN??? i want to go....haven't been to one of their meetings yet...but i do come into Austin for SAADE...do you attend their events???

Party this Saturday!! ;)
 
nusubgurl said:
GWNN?? Did i hear you say GWNN??? i want to go....haven't been to one of their meetings yet...but i do come into Austin for SAADE...do you attend their events???

Party this Saturday!! ;)

I used to know someone who lived in Paradise, Texas!
 
nusubgurl said:
GWNN?? Did i hear you say GWNN??? i want to go....haven't been to one of their meetings yet...but i do come into Austin for SAADE...do you attend their events???

Party this Saturday!! ;)

I've actually not been to any GWNN functions yet. I recently moved away from Austin to the San Antonio area. So now I'm involved in SASM and possibly either submensa or the switch group. Though, I think Daddy does attend the GWNN play parties
 
BlueDaisy said:
Posted at the encouragement of my friend....


I don't usually venture out of the Playground and General Board, so some of you in this forum might not know me. But I had an experience on this past Saturday that I wanted to share and felt that you folks could appreciate it more than the people I usually interact with.

I've led a pretty "vanilla" existence for the most of my life, but have lots of kinky fantasies which I always have hopes of coming to pass, but never really expect them to. Well, one finally did!

Saturday night a local group had its "play party" and I went as a guest of Dusty and Jess as a precursor to joining the group. It was, to use a much overused word, awesome! Dusty offered to use some of his toys on me, and wow! did he ever. I stripped (egad! did I do that in public? I still have trouble getting used to having done that!) and he cuffed me to an X-shaped thing. He used a variety of his "toys" on me. I had to ask later what they were: 2 different suede floggers, one heavy and one light, a quirt, a hemp flogger, and eagles beak and a fantasy whip. He stopped after the fantasy whip because it was breaking my skin. Dammit. I was really getting "into" it. I'm not sure which one I liked the best...I think it was the hemp flogger, but they are all a jumble in my mind. My butt was sore all day yesterday, and is still a bit tender today. What a nice reminder of a great evening!

Afterwards, he used a piece of fur to rub me down for what he called "aftercare", then wrapped me in a blanket for a bit. After I got dressed, we were introduced to a person who was visiting from another group from out of town. She (excuse me...."he"...had this awesome looking thing that was a bundle of polycarbonate "things" attached to a handle. They reminded me of a bundle of thick fiberoptic strands.) Anyway, by this time I was game for just about anything. I had gotten my dress back on, and did something else I never thought I'd do...Dusty, Jess and the other person were sitting in a semi-circle behind me (I was on the floor in front of them). I hiked up my dress, pulled my panties over to the side and gave him a target, and again, to use the overworked word, it was awesome! I wasn't ready for it to be over. I guess I'm a glutton for pain. lol I seem to recall them using the words "masochist" and "pain slut" in reference to me. At least, I think they were talking about me.

Oh...and can't forget Volcano, Dusty's "Daddy". He and I both have October birthdays, so Dusty got his birthday spanking (apparently Dom's don't get birthday spankings, they give them), then later I got his spanking PLUS my birthday spanking. Dusty said he used on me a dressage whip, a dogging bat and a rattan cane. I did NOT like the cane. The last thing he used on the last hit (number 45 for me, and I think he was turning 37, so I got a lot of spanking) nearly knocked me off my feet. I was leaning over one of those padded sawhorse things, and Dusty almost had to grab me to keep me from falling. I turned around and asked just what the hell he hit me with...it was his forearm! Damn but he had a good blow with that arm!

Well, I hope you've enjoyed my first foray into the world of kinkiness. For me, anyway, this is kinky. Vanilla old me. I hope it isn't my last. I told Dusty and Jess in a PM today that I'm ready, willing and able to have another go at it! Guess I am a glutton for punishment.

Thanks for reading my story.

I need to get to know the right people, apparently.

Thank you for posting this, it sounds... awesome :D
 
fieryjen said:
I need to get to know the right people, apparently.

Thank you for posting this, it sounds... awesome :D

Oh it was! i guess I met the right people! Good luck to you.
 
This sounds like it was an interesting event, for sure. A play party after your first munch? Several different floggers used on your bound naked body? You're moving right along, aren't you.
 
lil bro sent me the link to this post. I was swooning all over his box just reading this! Oh, my .... such a little painslut! I wish I had a dozen like you ... though my whip arm would fall off, lol.

Welcome to the world of perversion!

lil bro Dusty is one of the best you could have met to innitiate you into this beautiful world. Enjoy every second of it!

~*~Lady Kestrel~*~
 
DVS said:
This sounds like it was an interesting event, for sure. A play party after your first munch? Several different floggers used on your bound naked body? You're moving right along, aren't you.

hey DVS....haven't talked to you in a loooong time. Yeah, it was quite interesting *grin*
 
KestralWolfe said:
lil bro sent me the link to this post. I was swooning all over his box just reading this! Oh, my .... such a little painslut! I wish I had a dozen like you ... though my whip arm would fall off, lol.

Welcome to the world of perversion!

lil bro Dusty is one of the best you could have met to innitiate you into this beautiful world. Enjoy every second of it!

~*~Lady Kestrel~*~

Well, I for one do feel fortunate that Dusty "broke me in", so to speak. I'm certainly enjoyint it. Trying to patiently wait until the next event. Oh...and thanks for the welcome! Glad to be "here"!
 
arg! dying to go to a munch. :( But I'm married and hubby doesn't lean to the kinky side of things despite my begging. *sigh* Sometimes being married to a nice sensitive guy can really suck, lmao. I wish he'd consent to going as a couple. We live a half hour away from a monthly munch.
 
Hanalia said:
arg! dying to go to a munch. :( But I'm married and hubby doesn't lean to the kinky side of things despite my begging. *sigh* Sometimes being married to a nice sensitive guy can really suck, lmao. I wish he'd consent to going as a couple. We live a half hour away from a monthly munch.

Well, my hubby and I are splitting up. As soon as I can get a job and can afford to move out with our son, I'm outta here. I guess he doesn't mind my going since we aren't really a "couple" anymore. We've lived like roommates for years and haven't had sex in over a year. Actually, I think he is hoping I'll find someone to replace him at these events. I tried to tell him that those events are not the place to be looking for a guy (or gal...lol).

I hope you can get to go, for your sake. I had a blast!
 
:nana: Congrats on your first time!! Wow, it sounds like it had tons of fun. Wish I could've been there.


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