My first dom...

[imaclosetsub]

Hi,
I’d like some advice on how to... become a sub. I’m completely new to this but have been interested for many years. I would like to stay online only in the beginning.

Any advice would help!

 

[KimGordon67]

Advice

... prepare for a flood of PMs.
And be careful. Take things slow ... it's all very exciting, but there's no hurry.

 

[imaclosetsub]

... prepare for a flood of PMs.
And be careful. Take things slow ... it's all very exciting, but there's no hurry.

Thanks! I’m going to take your advice on taking things slowly. I’m actually pretty apprehensive going into this but would love to find out more.

 

[KimGordon67]

Thanks! I’m going to take your advice on taking things slowly. I’m actually pretty apprehensive going into this but would love to find out more.

I've got a monumentally long thread about that, among a mountain of other things ... if you're interested let me know and I"ll find the link.

 

[DominanceDefined]

Take your time. Trust your feelings about the person you're talking to. If it feels right, great. Pay attention to what you like, what scares you and excites you simultaneously, and what is a clear limit. Any Dom worth their salt will want to know your limits and respect them. This doesn't mean they won't push. Enjoy your journey down this pleasurable and rewarding path.

 

[Prince Albert]

What everybody else has said. These give you an idea to what to look for & lookout for. Please feel free to PM any of us, if you want more private information.

 

[msteel4u]

My opinion is, from talking to subs, don't post your interest here because you will get flooded with emails from every Dom wannabe. Rather look over what Doms post and their history, talk to other subs, etc. Be selective and careful. I have other hints but the more you educate the fakes and flakes the more clever they become, lol. I personally would never respond by PM to a sub that posts trying to land her. Not that she might not be a good sub, but because of the spam for everyone she will get will just overwhelm her.

Just my thoughts, play safe and be careful!

Steel

 

[Sir_Adam]

you will be asked for pictures. if you want to send some thats fine It can be really fun but do not show your face in any nudes that you send unless you are 100% sure you can trust the person you are sending to. if you want to talk about any of it directly feel free to send a PM.