My father had me smiling today

SeaCat

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Okay, as I mentioned in another thread I went u to visit my parents today. We had plenty to talk about, things like my mothers health and the contratemps in the rest of the family. (My mother has been declared Cancer Free and the rest of the family is going to seed.)

Well while we're down at the beach checking out the fishing a young lady in a very small bikini walks by. My father points her out to me about six seconds after my wife does. His comment? "Holy shit will you look at her? She's worth taking home."

Okay I admit that she was cute, but she was young. Maybe 20 years old. She walked by with that hinted at sexuality that said she just wasnt sure. She knew she looked good but,,,,,,,

My comment to my father had him quiet for a couple of minutes. I said that while she looked good she as just eye candy, she wasn't the kind I would ever be interested in.

Well that got a conversation going about everything fro sexuality to cheating to just plain enjoyment. It was a more than interesting conversation.

My father commented that sex was something that should be enjoyed. I commented that this enjoyment should be shared, which stopped him for a minute. He asked why I thought this and in what ways it should be shared.

We talked for well over an hour on this, with my mother and my wife adding their viewpoints.

It truly was an interesting conversation, and one that I will cherrish as my father is one of those few people who use both logic and knowledge to base their arguments on.

Cat
 
You're blessed, Cat. I can't imagine being quite that frank with anyone in my family.
 
You're lucky, Cat. I couldn't discuss anything like that with my father. He quickly link any talk of sex into a conspiracy by "those fucking Jews!" :rolleyes: Actually he links everything into a conspiracy by said Jews.

My sister I could have discussions like that with. Out of earshot of her kids.
 
cloudy said:
You're blessed, Cat. I can't imagine being quite that frank with anyone in my family.

Yes Cloudy I am truly blessed with both my parents and my wife. They are intelligent and think for themselves.

Cat
 
rgraham666 said:
You're lucky, Cat. I couldn't discuss anything like that with my father. He quickly link any talk of sex into a conspiracy by "those fucking Jews!" :rolleyes: Actually he links everything into a conspiracy by said Jews.

My sister I could have discussions like that with. Out of earshot of her kids.

Your father wouldn't lke my father then. Not only does he avoid conspiracy theories, (except as a source of amusement,) his grandfather was named Cohen. (Long story with more than a bit of humor.)

My parents are fairly private people, but they can and will stand up for what they believe in.

My sister nd brother on the other hand? Talking to them about sex is often comedic. My brother is a born again Catholic. My sister on the other hand feels that any guy who talks about sex is a pedophile or worse.

It is strange how they turned out so differently than I did.

Cat
 
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