My dilema...

[Svejk]

Ok, so heres my situation.

A while ago I posted on a gay personals site, not expecting much, last week I checked it, and found I had quite a few hits, a replied to a couple and hit it off with one of the guys who seems like a genuine person.

Now I've fantasised about being with a man for a long time, but I'm at best bi-sexual, I mean, most of the time I'm primarily interested in women. So after a while thinking about it, I told the guy that talking with had helped me work out some things and that my fantasy about being with a man was best left as just that. He seemed to understand, and left the window open for me to get in touch with him again if I wanted to realise my fantasy.

So here I am, a week later, wanting to go through with it again.

So what I'm asking is, should I?

 

[blondboy]

Ok, so heres my situation.

A while ago I posted on a gay personals site, not expecting much, last week I checked it, and found I had quite a few hits, a replied to a couple and hit it off with one of the guys who seems like a genuine person.

Now I've fantasised about being with a man for a long time, but I'm at best bi-sexual, I mean, most of the time I'm primarily interested in women. So after a while thinking about it, I told the guy that talking with had helped me work out some things and that my fantasy about being with a man was best left as just that. He seemed to understand, and left the window open for me to get in touch with him again if I wanted to realise my fantasy.

So here I am, a week later, wanting to go through with it again.

So what I'm asking is, should I?

Yes - I have always regretted far more the things I didn't do.....

 

[Svejk]

Yeah, I hear that, but theres something else I should say, I'm a virgin, and I always pictured my first time being with a woman, so maybe I should get laid first...

 

[PutterBoy]

What do you really WANT to do? Trust your heart. If you're looking for real intimacy, a gay personals site is probably not going to deliver it.

 

[dynamics]

id say do it with a chick and see where you stand after that...

 

[human_male]

I'm in the same boat as you, and just as unsure of whether or not to take the plunge. You could always just hook up with the guy and see how it goes. Just be honest with him and tell him you're unsure of things and you might back out at any time. If he's cool with that then get together and see how it goes. If you feel like it do it, if you don't then don't force it.

I wish you well.

 

[Mugiwara]

Ok, so heres my situation.

A while ago I posted on a gay personals site, not expecting much, last week I checked it, and found I had quite a few hits, a replied to a couple and hit it off with one of the guys who seems like a genuine person.

Now I've fantasised about being with a man for a long time, but I'm at best bi-sexual, I mean, most of the time I'm primarily interested in women. So after a while thinking about it, I told the guy that talking with had helped me work out some things and that my fantasy about being with a man was best left as just that. He seemed to understand, and left the window open for me to get in touch with him again if I wanted to realise my fantasy.

So here I am, a week later, wanting to go through with it again.

So what I'm asking is, should I?

Nah, you shouldn't until you can decide for yourself in a firm 'yes'.

 

[Svejk]

id say do it with a chick and see where you stand after that...

Sound advice, I'll probably take it. And yeah, I figure if I'm not entirely sure I shouldn't go through with it.

 

[mannis]

unsure!?

Best way my friend is to give it a try, treat it like a wine tasting thing, sip, taste, savour, then either spit our or try some more. Imagine dying and never knowing.