My daughter is engaged to marry a wonderful young man.

FlamingoBlue

a simple country lawyer
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Well, the big day arrived yesterday with the formal presentation of an engagement ring and the request for my daughter's hand in marriage. The request was made over the telephone while my daughter listened in on the conversation. (They are in Florida).
I gladly gave my consent and offered my congratulations.

My wonderful daughter has always been a chip off the ole blue. She dated lots of good looking guys from diverse backgrounds. During the past 10 years, I waited as she evaluated them and their relationships.( My mother used to ask me if she had to date a guy from every state and country and I told her, and my daughter, that if that's what was necessary for her to choose a mate, than that's what she was gonna do). I never doubted her judgement although there were a few nail bitters for me along the way.

So, she finally found Mr. Right as oppossed to Mr. Right Now. I love the two of them together and I am trying, in my special way, to help them understand that there will be bumps in the road while teaching them how to avoid the bumps and what to do if you hit them.

Here's these 2 wonderful kids with 4 sets of parents between them. Amongst the 4 parents, we have 11 marriages. Currently, 1 of the parents is unmarried but living with someone; me and Dr. blue are married but living happily and seperately, and the other 2 are married and together.

It's not so strange that these kids are taking it slow and easy and asking for help along the way. There have been enough divorces and unhappiness in the families already! This marriage will be built on a strong foundation, unlike the failed marriages that came before it and I, ole blue will be there to help, when I am asked.

This is a very happy time for me and my family. I thought I would share it with you.

blue
 
Congrats to you and your daughter Blue...........I'm sure you are very proud of her and have taught her well...........
 
Congrats. Your daughter is quite lucky to have you as a parent.
 
Father of the Bride

Blue .... wonderful news ....

I wish your daughter and her fiancé a lifetime of happiness!
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Congratulations Daddy ... do I get to kiss the father of the bride? ;)
 
Madison

Congratulations and Best Wishes:)
 
Madison

Congratulations

Blue
It's great to see such a caring parent happy with thier childs happiness.

Blessings to you both.
 
I just have one request for you... Tell her Morgoth says good luck!
 
"Congradulations to you and your Daughter!"

I know it's not the same,but I remember how happy my wife and I where when my son came home,and said he had asked Michelle to marry him.

Now 3 years later,their still married.

They gave us a beautiful granddaughter,and there is a grandson in the oven right now.Shes 5 months along now.

Good Luck there Blue!
 
Madison ~ Some advice for marriage that my father gave me.

~~ Don't marry a man you can live with. Marry a man you can't live without ~~

He was a smart man.

blue ~ Congrats to you as well. Letting go is hard to do. You have been a wonderful father and I know Madison will remember this as fondly as I of my father. :)
 
Congratulations Blue!

Be proud … be really Proud! This is bound to be one of the paybacks for being a great dad.
 
Congrats - It's always nice to find that the choice your child has made is one you approve of and to know that she has chosen with care.
 
Madison's Mom is already breaking out=

in hives. We got together this morning to talk about the financing the fiesta. I have seen many of these affairs turn into money pits that drain the joy out of the experience. Fortunately, my wonderful daughter has no desire to see that happen here. When she returns from her cruise we will all sit down and discuss this thing realistically to avoid the trap that so many of my peers have fallen into. This is suppossed to be a happy time and that's how I want it to be.

I am a very fortunate father. I have spoken to my daughter and told her that I have no intention of going into debt and/or prolonging my stay in hell (that's how I fondly refer to law practice) just to have a wedding. I know a doctor who married off 2 daughters in 2 years and now has to work another 3 years to pay off the weddings. That ain't gonna happen to me or Madison's Mom because Madison loves us both too much to ever let that happen.

So, now I get to see what it's like to be the father of the bride. I am sure that this will be a really wonderful time for everyone!

blue
 
Congratulations blue and Madison, you are both lucky people...
 
Damn...just damn.

And all this time I thought it was me she liked. :D WoooHooo! to Blue and the bride to be, Blossom, I mean Madison.
 
Congratulations, Madison!!

But Madison's the lucky one, FB, to have such a wonderful dad! Kids don't turn out like that by accident! *kiss*
 
Now the real problems begin...

The seating arrangements! Who is gonna seat at the table with who?? I'm staying out of that.

blue
 
Congratulations to you all. It sounds like your daughter found a great guy & it goes without saying that you are a great Dad! Best wishes for many years of happiness.
 
Well a great daugther yes, a great dad.. well that is in question for he is a lawyer... ahahah j/k you blue...
 
Well, DA, I may be a lawyer, but....

I made damn sure that my chldren would not follow me down that same path. And that ain't no joke.

blue
 
Tomorrow is the "Parent's Brunch"....

at my house. Four sets of parents are going to meet each other for the very first time. It should be quite a fiesta. I ordered a dairy tray with smoked fish, lox, tuna, cheeses, veggies and bagels. I bought champagne, fresh squeezed orange juice and strawberries. (Dr. blue is bringing the crystal champagne flutes. I would have used juice glasses, peasant that I am). The table is all set and so am I.

It's really hard to believe that this day is here. I have seen it come and go for others, but I have never experienced it personally. I just love the idea of my daughter loving someone who loves her. And I love the idea that all of us will have a chance to share in it, together.

blue
 
Very well said flamingo. I wish them the very best, and may they provide you with many grandkids to dote on.
 
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