My Christmas Thoughts

JazzManJim

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I love Christmas. I have since I was a kid. This year, though, I'm having trouble getting the Christmas vibe, so I've been doing some thinking - remembering just what I love about Christmas, to put me into the spirit of the holiday.

And I figured that maybe if it helped me, it's help someone else.

There simply is no holiday like Christmas. It surely brings out the petty and materialistic impulses in folks, but there's a lot more than that. Focusing on the bad things people can show during this time absolutely obscures the not so obvious, but more important, and deeper things that make this holiday so special.

Christmas is a time of giving. This has become hackneyed over the years, but it's still very true. People give and give - money, time, cheer, smiles. They give out of a seemingly bottomless well of charity and, given this year, the giving's only increased. This is a season of sharing and we share like no other time.

Christmas is a time of remembering. Some of my fondest memories are of Christmas. I used to sit up, forcing myself to stay awake into the wee hours of the night, waiting for Santa to arrive. My family didn't have a lot of money - we were a large family living on one income - and I knew that I wouldn't necessarily get everything I asked from Santa like many of my friends did. But I still waited. I'd end up falling asleep, the anticipation of the next day tight and warm in my stomach the way that only the welcoming of the most exciting events could bring. But it was more than gifts. It was about spending the day with my Grandmother and Uncle and cousins. It was having a whole day just hanging with them - some of the coolest folks I ever knew, and ones I never seemed to get to see enough. It was about waiting for Christmas, the grandest day a boy could imagine. And when the morning came, Santa never disappointed. No...I never got everything on my list, but I always got something good, something I could use and love and enjoy. I still have some of my childhood gifts today.

Christmas is a time of love. This time of year gives more possibility of love, abd being loved, than any other time of year. Maybe it's the mistletoe, or maybe it's just that when we're more interested in giving than in receiving, or in the mindless toil of everyday life, we find ourselves more willing to love, and more able to receive it. It's the time of year when, if you have someone to love, you can spend it with them in cozy bliss. If you don't, you have the most hope that you will find that amazing someone to share the season with.

Christmas is a time of possibility. More than any other time of year,we look forward to the years to come and see that, no matter what may have happened to us this year, the next year is full of open and boundless possibility. We make resolutions for the New Year, forgetting how often we broke the ones of the years past, but always believing that this year will be the year that we hold to our wishes. That's hope, and it's perhaps more valuable than anythign else we have.

There's so much more about this season I love - the weather, the tantalizing hope of snow on a brisk Christmas morning, the egg nog, the bright Christmas candles, the gaudy tree which any other time of year we would scoff at but this time of yera seems more beautiful than any other decoration we've seen.

That's what I thik Christmas is all about, at least for me.

I'm done. :)
 
God bless us, every one!


Seriously though, I'm glad you enjoyed Christmas as a child so much Jim. I'm not gonna go off on one of my little wallowing miserable rants here, so I'll talk about the two good Christmas I ever had...

The first one was when I was about 8.. It was the only christmas where my whole family actually seemed to get along. My dad was doing okay, as was my mom, we got to see both sides of the family that day, and I got my first ever knife(a big show of trust from my parents) along with several other things I'd really wanted.. That was a wonderful holiday..

The only other good Christmas I've ever had was last year. I spent that whole week with my girlfriend at her family's house. Her parents loved me, her brother and I were friends, and she and I were completely in love. I won't go into all the little details, but I actually felt more at home in that place than I usually do in my own residence. Plus the early Christmas morning, when only the two of us were up. I'd just seen her sing in the choir, she was radiant, like an angel, her voice was beautiful, gods, just thinking of it almost brings a tear.. And when she saw the ring I'd given her, real diamonds and white gold, when she had probably been expecting a cubic zirconia in a 12k ring.. The look on her face, I can still see it, eyes wide with surprise and joy and love.....

I worked for almost a year to buy her that ring, and we broke up a month later, I never got it back. Even so, that moment, that week, was worth it. This holiday may be as joyous or even more, because I'm finally meeting someone who I've grown very close to over the internet. It won't be in the same way, but perhaps better in a new way.

Anyways, to all of you I say:
Joyous Solstice
Merry Christmas
Happy Hannukah
Happy Kwanzaa

Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect to all.
 
JazzManJim and Moridin

Thank you both for sharing your thoughts on this holiday.

My favorite Christmases were those in my childhood. I grew up in my Grandparent's house, and my aunts and uncles always partied there on Xmas eve. Christmas morning always involved a big family breakfast, then we'd go sit by the tree and share our gifts. I was always the youngest and they would let me pass out all the gifts, then we'd start with the oldest so I eagerly watched as each person took their turn "center stage" (talk about foreplay!!).

Egg nog, Pfferneiuse (those sugary dumpling cookies), candy canes, hot cider, christmas music, pine scents, warm cosy feelings. I loved it all, and I remember actually having snow on the ground most of those years.

My Mom is out west, and I'm spending this Xmas online and on the phone "connecting" to those I love. Hoping to pick up some holiday treats, settle down and enjoy the classic holiday fare on the TV. I believe the spirit of Christmas lives on and the memories of all our good ones will take us through these sadder and lonlier times.
 
Damn you people... I keep sinking back down into my usual wintertime depression and you bastards keep cheering me up without even trying. DAMN YOU ALL!
 
I've always enjoyed Christmas...

It gives me a chance to delay paying bills, blaming it on the Christmas mail service...



:D
 
Re: I've always enjoyed Christmas...

p_p_man said:
It gives me a chance to delay paying bills, blaming it on the Christmas mail service...



:D

You're just a sentimental fool arent' ya? :D
 
foxinsox said:
Bah humbug.

You want humbugs for Christmas? Umm ok, I've got Golden, Striped, Spice, and Peppermint Humbugs, from The Candy Company. If you really want, I can send you a couple of jars.:D

(FYI: Humbugs are an old fashioned sort of candy)


Christmas is not a time that I've had much luck with, but we always go big on Christmas. My family always does a big dinner, or several big dinners, and a large tree. This year, it seems my luck is changing, considering I'm going to get to go see a guy who I've grown to consider my brother over many months, and I look forward to it.
 
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