my attempt to be brief (for a change)

[glBock]

here's what I can offer you

I'll summarize briefly, why you might perhaps enjoy exchanging mails with me; why you might like me, perhaps.

For me ■ mutuality has always been what I truly crave. Starting with orgasms, but in general as well, I like to give you back everything I would like to get from you.

And then ■ sincerity is important for me. I don't like to fool around. I want what I say in my ads, and when I answer one every once in a while, I am seriously attracted by what the ad writer conveys about herself.

I am ■ reasonably intelligent and we can talk about almost anything in a way both of us will enjoy it.

I am certainly not a shallow person, so if you have ■ some depth to yourself, you might like mine.

■ Empathy is my middle name, because I enjoy the active part of it as much as the passive.

I am a ■ responsive soul, meaning that I listen to what you tell me and respond to it. That includes ■ timely responses to your mails also.

■ Curiosity and an open mind are an important part of mine; nice would be if you are curious and open-minded as well.

I have a ■ head full of fantasies, some of them quite frivolous. And I would like to fill your "head cinema" with content that's bound to help you enjoy your "handy work" better than doing it only by yourself.

What do you think? Is a man like this what you look for?

 

[MarooPhasar]

Second bite of the apple

Somewhat tongue-tied here, mainly because what I am looking for may be well below the level of involvement you are looking for.

So here's the big one. I'm a romantic. With a libido. What it means is that kinky does not excite me unless I read about it in a setting that is completely neutral, i.e. it's not me and it's not you.

I like sex but masturbating in writing with someone else? never tried it. Don't even know how that goes. Do we keep the lights on?

I also have a very busy job and little time. I write when I can, I am not looking for yet another obligation to add to my already full plate.

Why am I here then? a couple of reasons, tough to explain. Obviously not since I will. One was a New York Time Magazine article about a writer who proceeded to discover sex at the age of 67 and who was a sapiosexual. Which was like, hmm, what an interesting thought.
The other is that I would not be here if I were in a satisfying relationship. Obviously I'm not. I have been dating a man for a year now whom I love very much (I am a sapiosexual). In a year, he has yet to kiss me and there has been no sex. I thought about ending things but then I read the NYT article and figured another solution was to split my lives, sexual and social.

There you have it.

 

[glBock]

I have sent you a PM