patience and lubing are the 2 best pieces of advice they gave you on the previous posts.
Sometimes guys penetrate rapidly because they fear loosing their erection if they have to stay still for a while. You can be penetrated with a dildo until you are relaxed enough and then he can do it.
One of the best positions for sirst timers is both on the side (he on your back) with you controlling the degree of penetration. Another small tip, once you are relaxed and the glans (head) is inside, if you bear down as if you are going to defecate he will be able to enter very easy.
If he is not using a condom it is advisable that he drinks plenty of fluids so he can pee right after sex to wash out any particles that might get into his urethra and avoid infections (even if you prior cleansed your bowels with an enema)
Overall it should not hurt at all. You may feel stretching of your anus but not pain. And after anal sex you might feel like your bowel is full or your anus is not fully closed, but also no pain. If he is a good sport, have him check your anal area the following day for tears (a sign that you haven't taken your time and you need more patience before penetration)
Sometimes guys penetrate rapidly because they fear loosing their erection if they have to stay still for a while. You can be penetrated with a dildo until you are relaxed enough and then he can do it.
One of the best positions for sirst timers is both on the side (he on your back) with you controlling the degree of penetration. Another small tip, once you are relaxed and the glans (head) is inside, if you bear down as if you are going to defecate he will be able to enter very easy.
If he is not using a condom it is advisable that he drinks plenty of fluids so he can pee right after sex to wash out any particles that might get into his urethra and avoid infections (even if you prior cleansed your bowels with an enema)
Overall it should not hurt at all. You may feel stretching of your anus but not pain. And after anal sex you might feel like your bowel is full or your anus is not fully closed, but also no pain. If he is a good sport, have him check your anal area the following day for tears (a sign that you haven't taken your time and you need more patience before penetration)
