Mutual Masturbation

[riverdeep]

I would enjoy being contacted by females (must be 18 years +)who share my pleasure of mutual masturbation. I'd like to discuss this form of pleasure for mutual story ideas and enjoyment. I am a friendly Englishman who loves company.

 

[Sienna]

Riverdeep.......have you registered on the UK On-line Directory yet?

Mutual Masturbation........most people who get involved with cybersex on-line are actually taking part in mutual masturbation through the internet.



Phone-sex is another most popular way too

 

[riverdeep]

Sienna, you are a star. I've posted on UK On-line Directory and hope to find friendly females to provide new ideas and some mutual excitement.

 

[riverdeep]

Chat

Ladies please give me a 'shout' I'd love to discuss the subject of masturbation with you. I promise I don't bite

Maybe we could have some good fun.

 

[Sienna]

Ok.....so, what ideas do you have......how do you want to play this?

I always think that mutual masturbation is something that happens during cybersex?.......

Here on LIT, I know some people must masturbate to the pics or to really hot stories...whatever, you understand what I mean, yes?

Cybersex is usually live on-line. So everything happens at that moment......here there is a time difference between postings.

Sexual-role play is the same as cybering only its more "acting" out like a "play" and so its a form of acted out erotica. Not quite the same as cybering and such.

Am I understanding you on this, and do you have some ideas I have not thought of?

Sie. xxx

 

[riverdeep]

Sienna, Thanks for your response. Regretably I don't believe I can shed a new twist on cybering. I'd love to but I am talking about 'live' masturbation on-line. It is a real turn on for me to have a woman watch me toss myself off for her. It is wonderful to watch the expression on a womans face as you prepare to cum for her. I am hopeful that I'll find some new friends by way of these Personals. Your imput and encouragement is appreciated.

 

[riverdeep]

PS

I love your bum. May I see more? Please

 

[Sienna]

Hi riverdeep, thats no problem. Although I don't have one, may I suggest webcams?....

I know people do that "live" on-line and they love it, from what they tell me....

Personally, I am a literal person...a kind of diarist...I like to express my imagination and real experiences in words and exploit the artistic aspect of it all so that I can share with many others.

I do cyber live on-line, that I will admit. It isn't real and I accept the virtuality of it. But it isn't something I specialise in. Even to cyber with someone, I have to know something about them first. Maybe someone I am fond of and atleast a photograph to help me. Other than that its just an induced "wet dream" played out in a conscious state.

Sie. xxx

 

[riverdeep]

Watching

Sienna, it's lovely to see such honesty. I like that. Get to know me a bit and who knows.

I have cammed and yes, it can be good fun. I take your point though. However, it still can be satisfying.

 

[Rothgar]

I think there might be an important distiction to be made. I too have done my share of cybering, and in most cases cybering leans toward "roll playing" in that the participants usually enact a virtual physical encounter between them. With touching, kissing, licking, sucking, fucking, etc. Rarely (at least in my experience) is the "theme" of the encounter Mutual Masturbation. I would enjoy such a "live" on-line exchange with a woman, knowing she is masturbating along with me, or at least endulging in the fantasy of it. All our lives masturbation is a very private thing, always done alone. It is a VERY intimate and erotic thing to share with someone else. It would be very special knowing that the arrousal at the other end of the computer is as real as mine.

Rothgar

 

[Sienna]

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Check out my story.....Cyber-lovers

Fiction it is, but it happens......

http://literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=25315

Sie.xxx

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[Smilodon]

Hi Riverdeep,

Have you tried phone sex?

It is soooo hot. I've only started doing it recently with someone I've got to know really well online. We ahven't met although we have exchanged photos. (we intend to meet in feb - I can't wait!)

Because we became so fond of each other online it was just amazing to hear his voice, (broad yorkshire accent - mmmmm) but the best thing is to hear his breathing/moaning/grunts etc during masturbation, and he finds the same listening to me. We usually cum together, tipped over the edge by hearing the other one start to lose control.

Just amazing!!!

Smiley

 

[Rothgar]

Sienna

Wonderful story. It raises a lot of issues about cyber sex, such as the importance of setting ground rules, the blurring of the line between the virtual and real worlds, and the question of whether or not cyber sex constitutes infidelity. Each of these subjects could support a tread of it's own.

Just a couple of nights ago, I was chatting with a woman with whom I cybered once. To be honest, she didn't remember the specific encounter as it was nearly 2 years ago and she admitted she did a lot of cybering back then. I asked her if she ever experienced actual physical arousal during cyber sex, or if it was more of a mental exercise for her. She admitted to "a few times that surprised me," but that the stimulation was usually more mental than physical. I told her that for men (or at least, for me) there is significant physical arousal as well as mental. I don't know if this is typical of all men or not. I guess, just as in real life, there are guys who just want to get their rocks off and others who desire to flex their imagination muscle. I'm sure I've been each on various occasions.

In your story, with the element ot the webcams, Donna and Jimbo didn't have to wonder about the actual arousal of the other. They could see it was genuine with their own eyes.

I've enjoyed all your stories, Sienna. I wish writing came easier to me as there are some fantasies I'd love to express. I've made some laborious attempts. You have a unique gift.

Rothgar

 

[Rothgar]

Hmmm

I seem to be the only Yank in this thread so far.

Rothgar

 

[Sienna]

I know certain people who may read this might not like what I have to say......especially those "few" I have cybered with...

When I first started using the internet I found myself in a virtual world where interaction one to one can be done in a chat room private domain.

I have to admit I was lost at first and discovered that men chased the women......almost felt like being hunted down. I was overloaded with PM's and I just pressed escape to get away... the messages were very intimate and it was my first encounter...I did actually feel "threatened" even though those people were a long way away from me.

I soon learned to "filter" it all out and concentrate on the one that seemed most reasonable and began to chat to them....I have been decieved by some, treated with respect by others and built a friendship with those I now trust.

Cybersex is a very new phenomenon in the sex realm. It is very much like phonesex as Smilodon points out regarding the level of contact and what can be achieved. Perhaps cyber does permit more role-play. Relationships can evolve. I will confess to that myself. But it is a thing which should either be kept to the confines of cyberspace or as Smilodon again explains, come out and show yourselves for real.

When you have responsibilities for someone close to you that you love in real life, keeping a cyber-lover confined to cyberspace is probably something you have to do and come to terms with. Once you cross that line.....then you are being unfaithful because every shared emotion you experience with them in cyberspace will come out. You can't hide it. Meet them and you will want more....and more....and more....because you expose yourself to real physical contact, real physical feelings and......

Alas, need I say more........

Thankyou.

Sie. xxx

 

[VanB]

Sie

The interesting thing about cybersex as opposed to real sex is: where do you draw the line?

Personally, I believe that if you are in a relationship and have cybersex (or phonesex or real sex) with someone else then you are definitely being unfaithful if your partner is not involved.

However, if cybersex is something that you and your partner use together to titllate and turn each other on, then great. It's all about trust, openness and honestly. IMHO!

 

[Sienna]

VanB......

With me....both my real partner and my cyber-lover know about each other......I have indeed had to be honest with both. The thing is.....it now confines me to a set of rules imposed upon me.

Cyber-lovers are now becoming good friends and my partner the only true lover I have. I have already been to the limit and turned back.....it isn't easy....but I think we all survived unscathed.

No families have been broken up....no "physical" feelings or mutual contracts have been breached......the only pain that results is emotional pain.....and that is survivable.

Sie. xxx

 

[Rothgar]

Indeed, the conduct of some men in adult chatrooms is embarassing. Do they really not know what fools they appear to be? Do they really ever have success with that kind of approach? Obviously they don't realize (or care) how uncomfortable they make women feel as Sienna's early experiences illustrate. True, we are all a bit more forward in a chatroom than we would be in real life, still a certain level of civility MUST exsist. I believe that even if she professes to be a slut, a woman deserves to be treated like a lady, and I have the responsibility to behave like a gentleman.

"To thine own self be true"...even during cybersex.


Hmmm, are we straying too far from the original subject of this thread: Mutual Masturbation?

Rothgar

 

[Sienna]

riverdeep is no doubt one of those gentlemen who knows how to ask politely.....his questions and queeries here are evident of that.... He has like many people, an interest in persuing his sexual requirements whatever they are and indeed locating the ideal or near ideal game-partner.

That is mutuality by agreement.......a good and honest thing.

Thank you riverdeep for allowing us to use your thread....I hope as Rothgar says, we did not stray too wide of the field of your original subject....

Sie. xxx

 

[VanB]

Sie

Thanks for your reply which I found very touching. If you have everything sorted then more power to you but I think there is a lesson here for those who think that the cyber world is a game. Yes it's addictive but be careful about your real life!

 

[Sienna]

I think its worth noting.

I was involved in a cyber once which left me feeling so "dirty" which does stay in the back of ones mind for ever. I thought I had found someone genuine and I foolishly trusted them....

He told me he liked me and thought I was "cute", although he never knew what I looked like apart from a description I gave. I was honest about my description because I trusted him. We spent about two hours chatting and flirting. The image based on his description in my mind turned me on....... he made moves and wrote with passion.....no doubt he was well practiced in his art of arrousing women........

I replied, exchanging my emotions with him......following him on everything he led us on.....I even began to touch myself and in my mind I could feel him touching me and likewise......

He then told me after a brief silence that he had cum. And the next line..........."OK, I have to go, bye." He left just as quickly as he wrote.

For me.......I was devastated, left feeling so unsatisfied and I felt as if the world had stopped turning. I regretted what I had done and felt so bad.

I know its hard to write this kind of thing......but it happens even if some of us don't admit to it.......it was like being made love to and suddenly that person cums, gets up and runs........without even a thought for the person who was led into believing they had a mutual interaction.

I felt sorry for that man in a way......he was weak, with very little consideration for others feelings.......what kind of person could he be in real life?....

Sie. xxx

 

[midas2001]

Never feel sorry for someone like that....

People who 'use' others do not deserve any consideration. That so called man... wasn't a 'Real Man'... just an opportunist - just like a thief !

Midas2001

 

[riverdeep]

Hey guys and gals, I really found your resposes mostly in tune with my thoughts. The most important issue is trust. I cannot emphasise that enough. It has always (and will remain) my aim that no one is hurt. It is supposed to be fun and of course stimulating. Provided the cardinal (is that a pun? lol) rules are adhered to then it is exciting and mostly rewarding for both parties.

Sienna, I, like you sometimes say things that might not go down too well, but honesty and decency are conciderably powerful tools for successful playing.

 

[riverdeep]

I should have said that YES it is a fantastic feeling to know that a woman is also masturbating at the same time as you. I have been luck enough to experience this a few times. A cam is a wonderful tool here.

Both parties have to work at the trust and honesty aspect but if you find that empathy together then the whole experience is fullfilling.

 

[riverdeep]

The Lovely Sienna

I did write an erotic story some years back. Commodore 64 days, Blimey! That dates me. However, I don't think it would be generally appreciated as it was written mainly for my own benefit and focused heavily on masturbation. Still Sienna I did actually try my hand at writting.