lonely_hubby60
Really Experienced
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- Dec 21, 2017
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Don’t know whether it’ll help me much. Most likely remembering my loss is only going to worsen it. But it’s possible that YOU might read my musings, you being a woman who longs for something similar. In which case I’d be writing this not only for myself, but for you as well.
So what is the uttermost core of what you and I do not have any longer; what we miss so terribly? Both of us being able to share all sorts of things wth each other. Thoughts mainly, and dreams. And sometimes fantasies. Ill feelings and superb feelings, and when we share them, we begin realizing they belong to both of us.
Funny how a feeling changes and becomes totally different, when it belongs to two people; no longer to only one of us. This concept of mutuality is transformative for sure. Even if I very much miss hearing from you, I know by tomorrow when I wake up, there’ll be a mail from you for sure. Totally different from missing a partner for sharing entirely.
Sharing is sort of an “all inclusive” concept. We shared our horniness with each other, and your and my lust for giving each other joy and bliss. And we shared ideas and discoveries. And we enjoyed exercising our brains together, and receiving something akin to cross-fertilization now and then.
And sometimes sharing morphed into empathy, and that made both of us feel better again. Or when we shared your joy or mine that happened yesterday, it felt like participation for sure.
So why do you, a woman longing for companionship also, and I, a man yearning for the same, not simply join up with each other, to create a new “whole” once again? You might say we do not know each other yet, but that can be changed, can't it? OK, the kind of resonance that will develop between you and me, will turn out different from the resonance we once knew. But who knows, it may even turn out better here and there, even if it is lacking in other respects.
But better a totally new kind of resonance than no resonance at all, right?
Send me a PM and wait for mine back, and we shall see, how that will change again our future.
So what is the uttermost core of what you and I do not have any longer; what we miss so terribly? Both of us being able to share all sorts of things wth each other. Thoughts mainly, and dreams. And sometimes fantasies. Ill feelings and superb feelings, and when we share them, we begin realizing they belong to both of us.
Funny how a feeling changes and becomes totally different, when it belongs to two people; no longer to only one of us. This concept of mutuality is transformative for sure. Even if I very much miss hearing from you, I know by tomorrow when I wake up, there’ll be a mail from you for sure. Totally different from missing a partner for sharing entirely.
Sharing is sort of an “all inclusive” concept. We shared our horniness with each other, and your and my lust for giving each other joy and bliss. And we shared ideas and discoveries. And we enjoyed exercising our brains together, and receiving something akin to cross-fertilization now and then.
And sometimes sharing morphed into empathy, and that made both of us feel better again. Or when we shared your joy or mine that happened yesterday, it felt like participation for sure.
So why do you, a woman longing for companionship also, and I, a man yearning for the same, not simply join up with each other, to create a new “whole” once again? You might say we do not know each other yet, but that can be changed, can't it? OK, the kind of resonance that will develop between you and me, will turn out different from the resonance we once knew. But who knows, it may even turn out better here and there, even if it is lacking in other respects.
But better a totally new kind of resonance than no resonance at all, right?
Send me a PM and wait for mine back, and we shall see, how that will change again our future.
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