Most popular female sex fantasy

Female sex fantasy

  • Fuck A Stranger

    Votes: 35 27.3%
  • Being Dominated

    Votes: 48 37.5%
  • Gangbang

    Votes: 38 29.7%
  • Lesbian experience

    Votes: 37 28.9%
  • Role switch ( female domination)

    Votes: 7 5.5%
  • Cuckold

    Votes: 10 7.8%
  • Double penetration

    Votes: 20 15.6%
  • BBC

    Votes: 16 12.5%
  • Gay Sex ( 2 men)

    Votes: 14 10.9%
  • Public Sex

    Votes: 41 32.0%

  • Total voters
    128

Darkgemini

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Us guys watch a hell of a lot of porn, which is common knowledge and I would generally say porn is more aimed towards men's desires.

The vast majority of the most common male sexual fantasies are well documented but what about all the horny ladies out there. Women are perhaps even more sexually charged than men and I thought it would be interesting to hear what you ladies most desire...

Included some topics I have read are popular for women but any others ..lets us know
 
What a great post! I would love to talk about things with the wife that are common women fantasies that perhaps she doesn't bring up but would find sexy.

But as a general rule I am genuinely at a loss to understand the female mind. But I try.
 
I'd have added: illusion of lack of control or being spied on ;-) but I could be a strange bird.
 
What a great post! I would love to talk about things with the wife that are common women fantasies that perhaps she doesn't bring up but would find sexy.

But as a general rule I am genuinely at a loss to understand the female mind. But I try.

Just thought the post might be a good idea..

Women are probably kinkier and more adventurous than men I think , we just don't hear as much about it...

Let's see what the discussion reveals
 
Not quite on target for me, but . . .

A good many choices aren't fantasies--they're either on the main menu or completely off of it!

No domination, dammit.

Gay sex (2 males) Not sure I'm going to apply the 'gay' label, but I do enjoy seeing 2 guys that consider themselves straight sucking some dick during group play.

Role reversal-female domination: I don't consider pegging a guy female domination, at least not the way I've done it. Very much a partnership deal.

BBC: Meh--don't dream of being stretched to the point of pain whether BBC or BWC. Gimme a great lover with a nice 5-incher and I'm good.

Fucking a stranger and public sex are genuine fantasies, though. Both are foolish enough that I'd never do it, but it's nice to play with the idea!
 
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A good many choices aren't fantasies--they're either on the main menu or completely off of it!

No domination, dammit.

Gay sex (2 males) Not sure I'm going to apply the 'gay' label, but I do enjoy seeing 2 guys that consider themselves straight sucking some dick during group play.

Role reversal-female domination: I don't consider pegging a guy female domination, at least not the way I've done it. Very much a partnership deal.

Fucking a stranger and public sex are genuine fantasies, though. Both are foolish enough that I'd never do it, but it's nice to play with the idea!


Good points valendon, guess I got the ideas from popular porn searches articles I read.... Mix of fantasy and sexual acts I guess

Not Gay really, poor label but exactly as you said , just women seeing too guys interact with eachother with them involved also ...as men enjoy seeing two women
 
But as a general rule I am genuinely at a loss to understand the female mind. But I try.
Points for trying! The female mind is definitely not an easy-to-navigate place. I have difficulty, and it's my own mind!

Us guys watch a hell of a lot of porn, which is common knowledge and I would generally say porn is more aimed towards men's desires.
Generally so, because, as you said, men watch a hell of a lot of porn. :D

But so do women. ;) And with the blue ether of the internet, women and men can pretty much find exactly what it is that they want to watch, from the kissy-kissy, romantic features to the naughty, bent-over-the-couch fuck vids to the hardcore, up-against-the-concrete-wall-and-slap-you-around stuff. Ahhh. Options. :)
 
Points for trying! The female mind is definitely not an easy-to-navigate place. I have difficulty, and it's my own mind!


Generally so, because, as you said, men watch a hell of a lot of porn. :D

But so do women. ;) And with the blue ether of the internet, women and men can pretty much find exactly what it is that they want to watch, from the kissy-kissy, romantic features to the naughty, bent-over-the-couch fuck vids to the hardcore, up-against-the-concrete-wall-and-slap-you-around stuff. Ahhh. Options. :)

Preach women be complicated creatures but awesome , thanks to the Internet more people becoming acceptive to different varieties of sex and fetishes... Think people becoming more adventurous and would be good see what all those kinky ladies out there secretly want to try...
 
If you had every woman's fantasy on that list....it would be a book!
None of my wife's are listed. Everyone has their thing....
 
I have very specific scenarios and thoughts that get me off quicker than others, but I think they all revolve around one or two general themes.

I do enjoy nonconsent/reluctance, but it goes a bit deeper than that. I absolutely love scenarios where women have been "tricked" into sexual situations. It sounds corny as hell, but sometimes it's almost as simple as "Whoops, I slipped and fell on your dick. Guess we gotta fuck now!" [Thank you, GeorgeTasker!] Other times, it revolves around dirty old men that say they just want to feel a young lady's breasts...and then kiss them...and then suck them. The trickery theme is still there --- going as far as, I swear I won't come in you. And then of course they do.

To me, that's all variations on a theme.

*I don't know if it's significant or not, but I'm never featured in these fantasies. It's always some faceless stranger with a giant cock and some sweet huge boobed young lady.
 
What I actually fantasize about the most is my own husband and the many ways he pleasures me.
:heart:

Otherwise, I picked Stranger, Gangbang, and Public.
My husband and I swing (see siggy)
I've done the first two, so they may not count, even though I'd be happy to do them again and again.

Public Sex. Ive been watched many times by people that I don't end up playing with at the end of a party. The closest to 'public' I've been was at a strip joint.
Need to do a little more work on this one. Does a YouTube video count?

Jenny
 
The number of options these polls can hold is pretty small, I know. That's why I'm not complaining that my two fantasy topics, impregnation and incest, aren't here. ;) Nor costumes/lingerie/dress-up, roleplaying (of the variety with cat-people, elves, dragons, etc.), transformation, non-human...
 
Edited by Nancy Friday.

Several books, actually.

I didn't see my favorite fantasy on the list: being the center of attention for many nude, erect men, knowing that I'd have my pick of one of them. To win my favor, they have to arouse me, kissing me in all the places that I'd like to be kissed.

In this fantasy, I give myself a much more desirable body than the one I have. But doesn't everybody do that?
 
Based on my experience in the SRP section of the forum, the most popular one on this list is being dominated.
It's been quite a surprise to me to see how many women want to play totally submissive roles.
 
The book on this by Nancy Friday hinted at above, for those who don't know it, is called 'Women on top' (there is also another earlier one). It's basically just a compliation of women writing a page or two about their sexual fantasies.
Definitely recommended. You can find a pdf of the whole thing online if you look for it.
 
Based on my experience in the SRP section of the forum, the most popular one on this list is being dominated.
It's been quite a surprise to me to see how many women want to play totally submissive roles.

Are you make or female?

Do you prefer dominant women?
 
Male and straight. I wouldnt say I prefer either. On the whole I prefer 50/50 but a bit of mild domination play either way round adds some fun and variety. I've just been amazed that so many women seem to want or at least fantasise about being totally dominated. Especially since this is the opposite of what we read all the time in the news!
 
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