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There seems to be a one side concept when communicating here on LIT in the PM's. I've noticed that if I send a reply with a multi sentence or even paragraphs of text I get in reply a couple of words, or sometimes an uninspiring "Mmmm"! When did "Mmmm" become a thought? When did the actual English language become extinct in sexual conversations? Im a man yes, and therefore I'm burdened with a caveman mentality. But I try to rise above the cave by being articulate even when my dick is hard and I'm trying to get you wet with sexual banter. So please... if you want replies that are both stimulating to your mind as well as your nipples.... then extend that same courtesy to any person you PM with. Intellectual intimacy goes both ways. And maybe I do too!!:cool:
 
Good luck mate.

It’s a long held frustration of mine too, when you have taken the time to consider a reply that is detailed, descriptive and you hope for something similar in return to be treated with a short and closed reply that gives you nothing to go on to build the conversation!

Hope you find someone who is willing to make a mutual effort.
 
I understand both of you

I feel relieved reading that people other than myself also run into illiterate woman here on Literotica sometimes. I agree with both of you: it feels damned disappointing, when you see that some women simply do not deserve the PMs they receive from men like us.

When something like that happens to me, I try to forget or swallow my own gullibility; having believed the woman were more civilized than what she turned out to be. But think of it this way: she could have not reacted at all to your PMs. Or what is worse, she could have begun a pleasant conversation with you, and then ghosted you after a few mails back and forth.

So really, learning about the degree of literacy and civility of a woman right away, I find is a blessing. This way, it is only the first mental engagement with her that turns out disappointing, at a time when you or I were not deeply involved yet. Much more painful if it happens at a later stage of mental engagement.

Which does not change my disappointment for having judged a woman wrongly. I sure would have felt better, had that not happened to me.
 
Appreciated

I appreciate the camaraderie from you both. Good luck on your searches as well.
 
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