More or longer?

[Lapper69]

Ok, sigh here goes. I am a 54 yr man who has a lot of pre-concieved notions, that my lover says is all wrong. We went over and over the topic of the size of my dick until I give in when she says it is perfect for her. Me of course thinking it should be bigger than the 5" that I have. The question here is: Girls, would you rather be fucked for 20, 30, 40 minutes or longer before he cums and settle for once or twice a night or: Would you rather your guy fuck you 10 to 12 times a night for 2 minutes duration? This does take into consideration that at a minimum you will cum twice as much as he does, by one means or another. I have quick rejuvenation powers, but little staying power.
Be honest girls..

 

[ickle_stace]

Ok, sigh here goes. I am a 54 yr man who has a lot of pre-concieved notions, that my lover says is all wrong. We went over and over the topic of the size of my dick until I give in when she says it is perfect for her. Me of course thinking it should be bigger than the 5" that I have. The question here is: Girls, would you rather be fucked for 20, 30, 40 minutes or longer before he cums and settle for once or twice a night or: Would you rather your guy fuck you 10 to 12 times a night for 2 minutes duration? This does take into consideration that at a minimum you will cum twice as much as he does, by one means or another. I have quick rejuvenation powers, but little staying power.
Be honest girls..

to be honest, once or twice a night for 20 30 40 minutes would be more pleasurable, but aslong as the guy made me cum, preferably before penetration then the 2 minutes would be cool too.

 

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[Mazuri]

I fear my answer is: it depends.

Sometimes I want it to take a while, sometimes I just want it NOW and I don't care if it's 10 min or 10 seconds others...well, whatever happens happens. Don't look at it like a formula that you have to subscribe to, do whatever works for you and your partner. And if you ask her what she wants and are sincerely wanting her input, listen to her! She knows what she likes far more than you do (that sounded harsher than I meant it, but it's true!).

 

[Eilan]

Quality over quantity. While there's always a time and a place for a quickie, I can't cum in two minutes, so I'd find several two-minute sessions in a row to be tedious.

And as far as size goes, it matters, but not in the way that a lot of guys think it does. And that's my polite answer.

 

[redfox1961]

once or twice for a longer period of time, definately. I'd be thrilled to have 2 orgasms in one night . . .

 

[M's girl]

a] Bigger is not always better. 5" is pretty average (so not small) and should do the trick just fine. Plus, why don't you trust her when she keeps saying it's fine for her, because that's all that matters.

b] No matter what the size of your 'dick' is.... if you don't know how to please a woman (and frankly... your 'dick' has far less to do with that than you might think) size does not matter one bit! Learn how to please her. Ask her what she likes and how she likes it. Chances are your penis is welcome only for the afterparty, so to speak

c] Many women don't cum from penetration alone. So once again, penis size is not as important to most women, especially when they do not orgasm from PIV sex (alone) anyway. Again, learn how to please her and ask what you can do to make the PIV experience more pleasurable for her. She might also, like I do sometimes, ask you to just go ahead as you please, once she has cum from, for example, oral just before. It does not really matter then (to me) how long it takes... whatever pleases him!