more on threesomes - finding the third

[mjp]

A lot of couples here have commented that they would like to try a threesome. It seems that the couple in the threesome equation is easy to find, just not the third, especially when it's going to be a woman.

So my question is, how many people have had success finding a third person, and how did you work out making sure they were what you wanted? We're not sure that we like the idea of going with someone we know.

mjp

 

[badbabysitter]

I've actually used the net wquite well. Places like aff and alt.com. i've met a few. Coffee in a nuetral public place. Email, chatting on the phone, maybe a couple more meets. Building up sexual trust takes a while. most couples just want a girl to come join them in bed. I'ma bi gal myself, and i'm not going to jump into bed with the first couple that comes along.
this also allows me to be picky, which some see as being a bitch. As far as i'm concerned, if you feel the need to drag another person into your bed you could at least have some patience.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

I agree..

My gf and I have talked about doing a 3-some a few times. She two says that she would have to be picky. I think that it's ok to be picky when it comes to something like this.

There are a ton of places and ways, you just have to looks around. I wouldn't be surprised if there are somw swing clubs near your area.

PowrDragn

 

[Marquis]

I'm glad I found this thread, I have often wondered this myself. People have told me good things about meeting thirds on the net, but I haven't heard of any actual success stories.

Have any of you actually done this successfully, if so tell us how it went down so I can do it too!

 

[badbabysitter]

depends on your gender a lot too.

Being a gal, i've noticed couples fall over each other to get a tme.

But a guy needs an agle, something to make you standout. plus you gotta have alot of patience. Be polite, let them bring up the sex. Dont expect to get any on the first meet. And lord knows, DONT BE APIG