MM anal questions

[Lionblade]

I am a bi male. and tomarrow I agreed to meet my man friend, and let him "take my cherrie" I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice on what to do to please him. On how to make it as enjoyable as possable for both of us. and on anything that I may not be thinking of?

 

[hellboy1]

what do you wanna know

 

[Etoile]

You might want to ask this over in GLBT Chatter too. Both the groups here (in How To) and there would probably have good answers.

 

[turboguy]

I am a bi male. and tomarrow I agreed to meet my man friend, and let him "take my cherrie" I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice on what to do to please him. On how to make it as enjoyable as possable for both of us. and on anything that I may not be thinking of?

That is awesome Josh!!! Hope you let us all know how it goes!!

T

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I'm sorry this is too late for you, but I figured I'd give any hints I have regarding anal.


Now, I'm a chick, so I've not got a prostate, and I don't know if it all feels any different in the ass for a man or for a woman (I do have a G-spot that he can hit indirectly, so y'know).


So here goes:

Lube. Lube is your best friend, but that one's a given.

Relax. Enjoy foreplay, enjoy oral, enjoy kissing.. and go slow. Begin with softly exploring mouths, tongues, fingers in the area around your asshole, gently push against the asshole so you get used to having something near it.. and slowly work in... start with fingers to penetrate (though I'm a fan of tongue-to-ass penetration, when using a dental dam), and slowly add a couple more fingers, stretching you out slowly.

One suggestion for you is to rub a bit of anbesol on your asshole, right around and gently into the sphincter. It's that stuff that numbs your gums when you have a toothache, and I've found that as it slightly numbs the area, it does relax you a bit. However, I'm a pain-slut, so I don't use it. *grin*

Um.. that's about all I can think of.... though the idea of you getting fucked in the ass by another guy is rather a turn-on.

Hope it was wonderful!

 

[Lionblade]

I thank you all for your advice, tis truely appreciated...but sadely unneeded I got "stood up"

 

[hellboy1]

i wouldnt stand you up

 

[hellboy1]

when and where

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I thank you all for your advice, tis truely appreciated...but sadely unneeded I got "stood up"

I am so sorry to hear that... *hugs*

 

[bharman4102]

so are you disappointed that it didn't happen? or a mix of relief to? just curious about the different emotions you may be feeling...lol, i mean, if he stood you up, he wouldn't have been a great guy to do it with, right?

 

[Lionblade]

You guys are sweet Thank you. I am not exactly sad, just...annoyed. I have never realy been stood up. But I guess that it is just one of those things. C'est La Vie

 

[subFLmale]

Josh, from my experience you may want to try lots of oral foreplay before going for it.

If he is going to take you anally and he cares aabout you and not just a piece then it should not be a problem. Start off with a warm shower to get as clean as possible. he should be attracted to your ass and be willing to lick, suck and carress you getting you relaxed and turned on.

As he licks around your virgin hole he will get it wet and relaxed. Let him run his tongue inside you a few times as he plays with your balls and cock.

There is nothing to compare with anal foreplay and the feeling of being filled by another mans cock as he slowly drives in and out of you hitting your sensative prostrate.

I hope you find someone who will respect you enough to meet you and give you the best anal experience of your life.