Minxy's Sofa

[minxy69]

I could just about guarantee that at some point we all feel less than 100%, less than 75%, even as low as 50%

If you wanna talk, share or just vent...then here's your place...you may well find likeminded people here....

Shall I begin..just to get you here...this time, 4 years ago, I was temping for a good agency, having been made redundant from my job as PA. Life was pretty good, I'd gone to my placement on a 6 weeks assignment....I was to be there for 11 months...till they appointed a permanent position. I never applied as I liked temping, going to new places, meeting new people, it was much like the net really. I was sent next to a University...close to home. I had a man in my life, who loved me completely.

The uni didn't turn out to be the placement of my dreams, but it was temporary, so I never quibbled.

We were out on our motorbike, with friends following...a clear road, a decent day...a car pulled out of a junction...we couldn't avoid it...catapulted along the road...

I have never recovered...not physically or mentally, as I have now learned. I can no longer give all to any one. I can't give anything to anyone. And I have learned that I must seek help.

I have tried to give, but I am just prey to those who are stronger mentally...they take no heed of what I have to say...but whatever my faults, NO in some situations means NO

And while they may blame me, they need to look to themselves for their cavalier attitude towards others...

 

[ima6uldv8]

*Sits on Minxy's sofa, noticing how soft and comfy it is, I decide to stay* I know what you mean about not recovering. After all that's happened to me recently, I'm a tortured soul. I know I need to seek help but have yet to do it. Don't know what's holding me back from doing it. I want the old, carefree me back. The one I was before divorce and all the recent sadness in my life.

 

[minxy69]

*Sits on Minxy's sofa, noticing how soft and comfy it is, I decide to stay* I know what you mean about not recovering. After all that's happened to me recently, I'm a tortured soul. I know I need to seek help but have yet to do it. Don't know what's holding me back from doing it. I want the old, carefree me back. The one I was before divorce and all the recent sadness in my life.

*gives you a hug* tis all I can do hon, you may weep on my shoulder...if it helps

 

[ima6uldv8]

*gives you a hug* tis all I can do hon, you may weep on my shoulder...if it helps

*Hugs back* Thanks sweetness One day I'll uncover that old me. It's not lost, just buried.

 

[minxy69]

*Hugs back* Thanks sweetness One day I'll uncover that old me. It's not lost, just buried.

And when the time is right darling, it will come back....it's just hiding now...

 

[Evil_Geoff]

*runs in like a cheetah chasing a couple of gazelle's... vaults across the coffee table, twisting and turning in mid-air like something from The Matrix landing on the couch on hands and knees... straddling the two women... and begins bouncing up and down... up and down... up and down...*

You've been trounced! Trounced, I say! WOO-HOOOOO!

*leaps from the couch and runs off into the distance....*

It's too nice a day to be maudlin! BWAHAHAHAHAHA!


This drive-by trouncing was brought to you by Effexor. Better living through chemistry!

 

[minxy69]

Wow....trounced....that was fun....thank you...made me giggle

 

[Jonny G]

any room for me on the sofa

 

[minxy69]

any room for me on the sofa

*moves across* hello sweetie, course there is

 

[minxy69]

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For any who drop by

 

[Macdaddy23]

*Plops down on the sofa*

 

[minxy69]

*Plops down on the sofa*

Well hello Macdaddy

 

[skygazer]

I could just about guarantee that at some point we all feel less than 100%, less than 75%, even as low as 50%

If you wanna talk, share or just vent...then here's your place...you may well find likeminded people here....

Shall I begin..just to get you here...this time, 4 years ago, I was temping for a good agency, having been made redundant from my job as PA. Life was pretty good, I'd gone to my placement on a 6 weeks assignment....I was to be there for 11 months...till they appointed a permanent position. I never applied as I liked temping, going to new places, meeting new people, it was much like the net really. I was sent next to a University...close to home. I had a man in my life, who loved me completely.

The uni didn't turn out to be the placement of my dreams, but it was temporary, so I never quibbled.

We were out on our motorbike, with friends following...a clear road, a decent day...a car pulled out of a junction...we couldn't avoid it...catapulted along the road...

I have never recovered...not physically or mentally, as I have now learned. I can no longer give all to any one. I can't give anything to anyone. And I have learned that I must seek help.

I have tried to give, but I am just prey to those who are stronger mentally...they take no heed of what I have to say...but whatever my faults, NO in some situations means NO

And while they may blame me, they need to look to themselves for their cavalier attitude towards others...

You must be having a bad day today. Try not to dwell so much on the past. Tomorrow will be brighter... Trust me, you'll see

 

[minxy69]

You must be having a bad day today. Try not to dwell so much on the past. Tomorrow will be brighter... Trust me, you'll see

Thank you, some days are bad, more days are good now tho

 

[minxy69]

Coffee on the Sofa!

Morning folks, coffee time....

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[Azuldrgon]

My shoulder's ready if you need it.

 

[minxy69]

My shoulder's ready if you need it.

Good morning Azul and thank you....but this morning I just need to lie my head there for no other reason than a cuddle

 

[Azuldrgon]

Good morning Azul and thank you....but this morning I just need to lie my head there for no other reason than a cuddle

I don't mind. I make a good pillow also.

 

[minxy69]

I don't mind. I make a good pillow also.

*curls feet beneath me and rests head on your shoulder*

 

[Azuldrgon]

Hope you are feeling well, love.

 

[minxy69]

Hope you are feeling well, love.

Good morning honey, I feel really good....must have been that lovely cuddle yesterday....and reading your stories....

Hope to catch you again soon

 

[minxy69]

Goddamn it!!! FFS how do some men get to be so frigging arrogant eh....they're out shagging anything that'll stand still long enough, and then when you say it was just a meeting...not a "REAL, PROPER" date, they go off on one....let's face it, I was just a shag for both of them....it's not like they had nay feelings for me, other than good old lust!!

So why am I getting "beaten", is it a frigging guilty conscience on their part!!

Rant over...tis why I started the thread after all!!

 

[Azuldrgon]

Goddamn it!!! FFS how do some men get to be so frigging arrogant eh....they're out shagging anything that'll stand still long enough, and then when you say it was just a meeting...not a "REAL, PROPER" date, they go off on one....let's face it, I was just a shag for both of them....it's not like they had nay feelings for me, other than good old lust!!

So why am I getting "beaten", is it a frigging guilty conscience on their part!!

Rant over...tis why I started the thread after all!!

You have to remember that not every person has the best of intentions when they do things. You have the right and the power to go for whomever you want. You also have the right to protect yourself also.

Still given ya hugs cause you know I am full of em.

 

[minxy69]

You have to remember that not every person has the best of intentions when they do things. You have the right and the power to go for whomever you want. You also have the right to protect yourself also.

Still given ya hugs cause you know I am full of em.

Morning hon, and thank you...hugs are good...and some for you too

 

[Jonny G]

Im always here for you if your feeling vexed minxy

or sad

or needy