MILF night at the strip club

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I was talking to a lady friend about what I'd like to see at a strip club.

I told her I'd like a MILF night. I think the most sexy woman is about early 40s. Maybe she had a kid or two and her hips have spread a little, her boobs sag a little and she carries herself with the confidence of a gal who knows who see is.

I'm in my late 50s. I have two daughters in their early 20s. I'm kind of uncomfortable seeing girls who are young enough to be my daughter stripping. But a MILF maybe a decade younger than my wife, now we're talking.

The whole point of the strip club to me is the fantasy. That I could theoretically sleep with the dancer. One no twenty-something is ever going to want to sleep with middle aged me. And two it would be kinda creepy.

Am I on to something here?
 
Your “on to something” from your own perspective only while there are many other perspectives. I’m in my mid-50’s and personally prefer women my own age or up to 65 or so. That doesn’t mean to me that it is particularly creepy that a man my age may find a woman I. Her 20’s desirable, although with certain perspective on that man’s mindset, I may find it uncomfortable, in certain instances. Your question is presumes too much of your own lack of insight to be taken seriously.
 
If you want to see older women stripping, look for a smaller bar with strippers. They can not afford the young chicks so have mostly middle aged women. I have visited several in various places as I like average women versus hot young chicks. None of these women were going to star in Vegas and I suspect some of them may have been willing to meet later.
 
A few years ago we used to go to a local gentleman's club for a lunch buffet, and one of the dancers who came by every time we were there was obviously a little older. Once I learned she in her early 40s, she really turned me on. Unfortunately, she was the only one that age.

If I owned a club I would hire a couple of milf bartenders who were secretly dancers. Have them dress in the less revealing bartender outfits (shorts/t-shirts at this place), and occassionally 'go crazy' and strip behind the bar. To me there is something so hot about the non-stripper giving it a try.
 
The whole point of the strip club to me is the fantasy. That I could theoretically sleep with the dancer. One no twenty-something is ever going to want to sleep with middle aged me. And two it would be kinda creepy.

Am I on to something here?

I know what you mean. I prefer my fantasies to be plausible - they usually involve average, decent-looking women rather than girls with supermodel looks. Not necessarily older women (though when I was in my 20's and 30's, I definitely had a thing for 40-somethings), but not the cookie-cutter version of a nubile early 20's "Perfect 10" either.

I also dislike the look and feel of breast implants and other plastic surgery-enhanced looks, so the smaller, less fancy clubs are the place to go for that as well.
 
I know what you mean. I prefer my fantasies to be plausible - they usually involve average, decent-looking women rather than girls with supermodel looks. Not necessarily older women (though when I was in my 20's and 30's, I definitely had a thing for 40-somethings), but not the cookie-cutter version of a nubile early 20's "Perfect 10" either.

I also dislike the look and feel of breast implants and other plastic surgery-enhanced looks, so the smaller, less fancy clubs are the place to go for that as well.


I agree 100% - the more realistic the fantasy the hotter it is. But we might be in the minority. The 2 guys I went to lunch with were both mid-40s, divorced, but made decent livings. They were both positive these 18-22 year old dancers, and also waitresses at Hooters and other breastaurants, were in to them and not the $$$ they threw down. Supposedly they scored often, just never when anyone else was around.
 
I would be all for MILF night. I prefer woman as close to my age as possible.

I would also love to watch my wife strip on an amateur night. I doubt she'd go full nude, but I think she would get up on stage and dance in the right environment.
 
I agree 100% - the more realistic the fantasy the hotter it is. But we might be in the minority. The 2 guys I went to lunch with were both mid-40s, divorced, but made decent livings. They were both positive these 18-22 year old dancers, and also waitresses at Hooters and other breastaurants, were in to them and not the $$$ they threw down. Supposedly they scored often, just never when anyone else was around.

I wish I had a $ for every time I hear some acquaintance of mine assuage his ego by trying to convince me (and himself) that the stripper or hot young waitress "really likes him" or "is really into him" as opposed to barely tolerating him because it's her job.
 
Ah, my strip club days. I lived almost next-door to a "go-go bar" in NJ years ago. I stopped there almost every day after work for a quick beer and to see which girls were working. One of the bartenders was a woman in her late 40s, very busty, who used to dance on rare occasions. When she did, the place went nuts. I think many of the men preferred her to the young slimmer girls.

The bustier girls were, of course, very popular, but I always liked the girls who seemed to be into it. I knew they weren't hot for me, but the ones who were so obviously bored, just going through the motions turned me off. I remember one dancer who wasn't very popular, who I always tipped. She was tall and slim, but when she would dance in front of you, she would look you in the eye and bump and grind like she was really horny. Once, when I tipped her she asked me why I liked her and I told her it was her attitude.
 
I’ve had a similar night once, and it reminded me of how spontaneous fun can lead to the best stories. If you're into places that mix a relaxed vibe with something a little extra, 신림셔츠룸 was way more laid-back and engaging than I expected. The crowd was chill, and it gave me flashbacks to the kind of nights you're talking about. Definitely worth checking out if you're nearby.
 
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I was talking to a lady friend about what I'd like to see at a strip club.

I told her I'd like a MILF night. I think the most sexy woman is about early 40s. Maybe she had a kid or two and her hips have spread a little, her boobs sag a little and she carries herself with the confidence of a gal who knows who see is.

I'm in my late 50s. I have two daughters in their early 20s. I'm kind of uncomfortable seeing girls who are young enough to be my daughter stripping. But a MILF maybe a decade younger than my wife, now we're talking.

The whole point of the strip club to me is the fantasy. That I could theoretically sleep with the dancer. One no twenty-something is ever going to want to sleep with middle aged me. And two it would be kinda creepy.

Am I on to something here?
You would be surprised at what you can take home at the bar. I have seen fairly ugly guys take home some beautiful women.
 
I was talking to a lady friend about what I'd like to see at a strip club.

I told her I'd like a MILF night. I think the most sexy woman is about early 40s. Maybe she had a kid or two and her hips have spread a little, her boobs sag a little and she carries herself with the confidence of a gal who knows who see is.

I'm in my late 50s. I have two daughters in their early 20s. I'm kind of uncomfortable seeing girls who are young enough to be my daughter stripping. But a MILF maybe a decade younger than my wife, now we're talking.

The whole point of the strip club to me is the fantasy. That I could theoretically sleep with the dancer. One no twenty-something is ever going to want to sleep with middle aged me. And two it would be kinda creepy.

Am I on to something here?
Amateur night brings out the milfs. There is a club that lets the audience come up to strip. I remember one who was probably in her 50s (I was in my 20s) who had a nice smile, gorgeous ass, big fake tits and a beautiful pussy. She was making it rain.
 
I wish I had a $ for every time I hear some acquaintance of mine assuage his ego by trying to convince me (and himself) that the stripper or hot young waitress "really likes him" or "is really into him" as opposed to barely tolerating him because it's her job.
Those strippers do "really like" guys with dollar bills. I always went with a pocket full of of 'ones'. I haven't been to a strip club in quite some time, so what's the 'expected' tip for dancers on stage who pay a little attention to you?

I understand that the lap dance is a completely other 'expectation' (well, actually an outright fee), but I used to travel to Cleveland for work and would visit a strip club in "The Flats" called Christie's Cabaret. They used to have a "special" where all the girls would walk on stage and then into the audience and give 'bargain' lap dances. I can't remember the exact cost, but it was within my budget. Fun times. And I'm SURE they "really liked me" 🤣
 
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Amateur night brings out the milfs. There is a club that lets the audience come up to strip. I remember one who was probably in her 50s (I was in my 20s) who had a nice smile, gorgeous ass, big fake tits and a beautiful pussy. She was making it rain.
I've been to a few amateur nights and always had a great time. Aside from the tips there were contests for different $ prizes. Just keep in mind that some of the "amateurs" are not that, they are strippers from different cities or states. Sometimes the real amateurs give the appearance of a deer in headlights while dancing, then you know most likely amateurs. I dated a stripper for a few years, I went with her to a few of them. She never won 1st but did come in 2/3, plus tips made a nice outing.
 
I'd love to find a place anywhere near Dallas that had amateur/MILF nights. Not as interested in watching 22 year old pros do it as I was a few years ago
 
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