Midlife blahs

[Trixie755]

I'm starting to think what I want doesn't exist or I don't deserve it.

Anyone else having the midlife crunch where you're questioning everything you've done up until now?

Recently diagnosed adhd after struggling my whole life. I also have chronic health issues etc.

I just want to find some people to talk with! Im a little without a DD. Because I miss the care, having someone to talk to.

 

[Polranny25]

I'm starting to think what I want doesn't exist or I don't deserve it.

Anyone else having the midlife crunch where you're questioning everything you've done up until now?

Recently diagnosed adhd after struggling my whole life. I also have chronic health issues etc.

I just want to find some people to talk with! Im a little without a DD. Because I miss the care, having someone to talk to.

Would you like to become my little? It would have to be on-line, discreet and from a distance

 

[fletchx]

I just wanted to say what you want is out there and you do deserve it. I've been in the midlife crunch. Sometimes you have to be brave and take chances, but you end up smarter and more where you want to be after all is said and done.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

I'm starting to think what I want doesn't exist or I don't deserve it.

Anyone else having the midlife crunch where you're questioning everything you've done up until now?

Recently diagnosed adhd after struggling my whole life. I also have chronic health issues etc.

I just want to find some people to talk with! Im a little without a DD. Because I miss the care, having someone to talk to.

Everyone's midlife crunch is different. For me it was a look back at life, what ive accomplished, and my plan going forward. You can't think of it as bad but as a new beginning.
I think it's good with adhd that you reach out and share your thoughts with people going through the same. Share similar feelings. Experiences etc.

Blue, Sometimes red. Sometimes black. No real favorite like women all unique all beautiful on there own

 

[PacificWaves]

I’m actually past what’s generally considered midlife so I can speak from experience. I’ve found myself at times wondering if I’d made wrong choices. Wondering what might have been, if only I’d done this or hadn’t done that. Feeling empty and unworthy.

I deal with it by stepping out of my comfort zone and into an uncomfort zone. I try new things and buy new things. It doesn’t matter what. Anything to break the pattern and wipe away the funk. Long road trips, conversations with strangers, new clothes…and the best tonic is doing random acts of kindness.

 

[quasimodm]

I'm starting to think what I want doesn't exist or I don't deserve it.

Anyone else having the midlife crunch where you're questioning everything you've done up until now?

Recently diagnosed adhd after struggling my whole life. I also have chronic health issues etc.

I just want to find some people to talk with! Im a little without a DD. Because I miss the care, having someone to talk to.

I was also diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, and -- while probably at least a bit past mid-life (statistically speaking anyway), I am periodically struggling with an early and unexpected retirement. Both have been revelations, which I would be more than happy to share with you if you think it might hold even a slim opportunity for insight . Please message me if you do.