Michigan Couple seeks plaything.

13abovethenight

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We live in Southeast Michigan, the Lansing area. We're interested in finding another woman, and maybe eventually a couple to have fun with. We're just not sure how to go about it.

We have a very secure relationship, which we feel is essential to this sort of thing, and we're both relatively attractive (Niether of us will grace your magazine covers anytime soon, but we won't be scaring children at bus stops either.), young (I am 30, she is 23.) and open minded.

We're definitely interested in finding another woman to have fun with. She'd love to perform every sex act we know on another woman, with me watching and helping enjoy this. We're going to be cautious however, as we want to make sure we get several things:

  1. Clean, an obvious one right? We want some one who is disease free, maintains good hygiene, and isn't going to drop a kilo of coke in our home, or hotel room. (My job sort of frowns on that sort of thing...)
  2. Honest. We don't expect to get her, our their social security numbers, but we'd like to know we can trust them to uphold their end of any bargain reached. We're also not looking for polyamorous fun-just sex.
  3. Willing to meet our needs. She's had one experience before with another woman, but it wasn't much worth repeating. The other woman was just doing it to make her boy friend happy, and wasn't really interested in it. She (My girl friend) is very insistent that I be included in any fun, and that we remain in the same room during the encounter.

I don't think that's an absurdly in depth list of requirments, but we're just starting to explore this, and we thought we might get some helpful hints here. Thank you in advance for any advice that we may use!
 
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Unfortunately I'm a guy and can't help you guys out...I just wanted to see if you could figure out where i live.... ;-)

Hope you find what you're looking for!
 
hmm

I am not too far away depending on where in SE MI you are. If BBW's are you taste (for both of you) then message me and we can see if we have chemistry!


13abovethenight said:
We live in Southeast Michigan, the Lansing area. We're interested in finding another woman, and maybe eventually a couple to have fun with. We're just not sure how to go about it.

We have a very secure relationship, which we feel is essential to this sort of thing, and we're both relatively attractive (Niether of us will grace your magazine covers anytime soon, but we won't be scaring children at bus stops either.), young (I am 30, she is 23.) and open minded.

We're definitely interested in finding another woman to have fun with. She'd love to perform every sex act we know on another woman, with me watching and helping enjoy this. We're going to be cautious however, as we want to make sure we get several things:

  1. Clean, an obvious one right? We want some one who is disease free, maintains good hygiene, and isn't going to drop a kilo of coke in our home, or hotel room. (My job sort of frowns on that sort of thing...)
  2. Honest. We don't expect to get her, our their social security numbers, but we'd like to know we can trust them to uphold their end of any bargain reached. We're also not looking for polyamorous fun-just sex.
  3. Willing to meet our needs. She's had one experience before with another woman, but it wasn't much worth repeating. The other woman was just doing it to make her boy friend happy, and wasn't really interested in it. She (My girl friend) is very insistent that I be included in any fun, and that we remain in the same room during the encounter.

I don't think that's an absurdly in depth list of requirments, but we're just starting to explore this, and we thought we might get some helpful hints here. Thank you in advance for any advice that we may use!
 
I'll let her know we have a potential contact, and then after discussing it with her, we'll PM you either way.
 
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thanks~

13abovethenight said:
I'll let her know we have a potential contact, and then after discussing it with her, we'll PM you either way.


I look forward to either response....if not me, then good luck to you both. You seem to have the right attitude and a strong relationship
 
We try! It's not as easy as we'd hope to tap into the "scene", as it were, in Michigan. But we'll give it a spin.
 
Good Luck!

I wouldn't mind being the plaything, but unfortunately, I can't get my wife that interested. Good luck to you!
 
check out some swinger boards..make a profile and have fun
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You can also try AdultFriendFinder.com. Free personals, but limited searches and mailing unless you pay. If you are still searching, good luck!
 
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