Messy BreakUps & Former Lovers

juicylips

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Are you on good terms with former lovers/partners?

Does it bother you to see them with their current partner?

Was the ending messy and who ended it with who?

Yea..I'm nibby as hell, I know.:D
jl:kiss:
 
juicylips said:
Are you on good terms with former lovers/partners?

Does it bother you to see them with their current partner?

Was the ending messy and who ended it with who?

Yea..I'm nibby as hell, I know.:D
jl:kiss:

I am on good terms with my former lover, I actually depend on them alot. I mean life is tough enough with 2 hands, imagine if I gave one of them the cold shoulder...?

They don't currently have a new partner, but I assure you it won't be another dick. As for messy endings...ugh.
 
I would honestly have to say that I haven't seen my former lover ever since we broke up but I would still like to know how she is doing in her life.

As to who ended it I did- I had to.

Before you call me what you are thinking I have to add something. I did it because I feared for my sanity.... I needed to finish it with her.

Okay, think of me as you wish to- I'm not in the mood to care any more.
 
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Angelus said:
I would honestly have to say that I haven't seen my former lover ever since we broke up but I would still like to know how she is doing in her life.

As to who ended it I did- I had to.

Before you call me what you are thinking I have to add something. I did it because I feared for my sanity.... I needed to finish it with her.

Okay, think of me as you wish to- I'm not in the mood to care any more.


How do you know what I was going to call you? I had no preconceived ideas of your relationship. I don't think of you in a bad light at all. :)

If you're not in the mood to care, what kind of mood are you in?:D
 
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Gunner Dailey said:
I am on good terms with my former lover, I actually depend on them alot. I mean life is tough enough with 2 hands, imagine if I gave one of them the cold shoulder...?


Always the gentleman, aren't you?

Love this av as well, darlin'. You just don't take a bad pic, do you?:kiss:
 
I don't think I have a mood.

Oh wait- laid back. Yeah- that's the mood that I'm in. :cool:
 
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juicylips said:
Always the gentleman, aren't you?

Love this av as well, darlin'. You just don't take a bad pic, do you?:kiss:

Is this where you charm my cock...?




ty JL :kiss:
 
As funny as this sounds,I am still friends with my ex.

He still calls to talk to me about stuff. But I gotta tell ya, its wierd to give him advice about his girlfriend and blow jobs.

Sometimes I think we are too close.
 
lovetoread said:
As funny as this sounds,I am still friends with my ex.

He still calls to talk to me about stuff. But I gotta tell ya, its wierd to give him advice about his girlfriend and blow jobs.

Sometimes I think we are too close.


Yea. You two are.

Advice on blowjobs????????:D
 
My ex is still my best friend. We talk on a daily basis, and hang out on a nearly daily basis. Sometimes I'm overwhelmed by the love I still feel for her, but it doesn't get in the way. We simply enjoy each other too much to call it quits just because we decided to not be a romantic couple any more. We were together for three years, and she has been the love of my life thus far. I hope I can be in love with someone again someday, but until then, I have the unconditional love of my very best friend.
 
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lol,I mean whether he should let her do it or not.

He is uh... very uptight when it comes to sexual matters.

Hence the reason he finally became an ex.

He couldnt handle my freakiness. ;)
 
lovetoread said:
As funny as this sounds,I am still friends with my ex.

He still calls to talk to me about stuff. But I gotta tell ya, its wierd to give him advice about his girlfriend and blow jobs.

Sometimes I think we are too close.

Maybe she needs the advice.

But then that would be too weird. Though I suppose it does happen.
 
Since the question is non-applicable at this point in my life I'll just say...

Good morning JL (takes note....JL is a nibby person....must look that up)
 
lovetoread said:
lol,I mean whether he should let her do it or not.

He is uh... very uptight when it comes to sexual matters.

Hence the reason he finally became an ex.

He couldnt handle my freakiness. ;)

Let her do it? I think he needs to be tied up and blindfolded for a while to help him get over some of his hang-ups.
 
weed said:
Let her do it? I think he needs to be tied up and blindfolded for a while to help him get over some of his hang-ups.

Asking to be tied up,blindfolded,and spanked is how I found out that I was freaky,at least according to him. ;)
 
weed said:
Since the question is non-applicable at this point in my life I'll just say...

Good morning JL (takes note....JL is a nibby person....must look that up)

I tried to post back to you when it was actually morning, but it wouldn't let me. So, I can say good afternoon.:)

Nibby means nosey and you probably won't find it in any dictionary. I think it's strictly and Ohio term....lol
 
It only got messy with the EX ... too much bickering + re - hashing unresolved details..never able to get beyond that point.
allthough now civil to each other,, we avoid contact like the black death..

after that I still remain friends with 3 former live in lovers..
cards during the holidays, at least a phone call or two a year..
things like that.
carring, understanding, closeness,,, can form a strong bond of friendship that last's , even years in the future.
 
Why does this feeli like deja vu thread day?

I am on excellent standing with all my ex's. All 2 - of serious relationships.

I ended both relationships. Neither was messy. A great deal of pain yes...but it was time.

They both helped shape me into the woman that I am today. Apart of them is still with me.

I want nothing but happiness for both.
 
Lover before last wanted to date me AND her ex before me who hit her (after we had dated for 3 months exclusive like).. so no, I dont stay in touch.

Last one I met in an online game, we talked for 3 months online and on the phone, met in person finally, she got here Thursday night, left Friday morning because everything wasnt perfect from the start, I was nervous having just met her in person.. we dont talk anymore either :confused:

/sigh

Slowfingers

Did someone mention being tied up and spanked??? :eek:
 
Surprisingly enough, I am still friends with my exes. But I cannot seem to bridge that gap with my most current ex. I don't know why. I am hoping that someday, we can be friends, but right now, I know that I can't handle it. The break was mutual and it wasn't messy, but it was knee buckling painful, if that makes any sense.
 
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