UrbanBohemian
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Have you ever given or received mercy sex? Or a sexual act? What's the story? Why did you do it? How do you feel about mercy sex in general?
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Raingirl85
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not mercy..
Well mercy would be the wrong word for what I'm thinking of. Have I had sex with someone I wasn't sexually attracted to out of generosity? Yes, a few times. But generosity has its own selfishness/narcissism. It can be exciting/satisfying in its own way to give that nerdy guy who just can't get girls the fucking night of his life; knowing that when he is old and senile and has forgotten his own children's names he will still remember the hot girl that rocked his world that one time.
Well mercy would be the wrong word for what I'm thinking of. Have I had sex with someone I wasn't sexually attracted to out of generosity? Yes, a few times. But generosity has its own selfishness/narcissism. It can be exciting/satisfying in its own way to give that nerdy guy who just can't get girls the fucking night of his life; knowing that when he is old and senile and has forgotten his own children's names he will still remember the hot girl that rocked his world that one time.
lydia_kitty
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Makes me think of maintenance sex in marriage. You're not in the mood but your partner is so you still fulfill theor desires. Sometimes you even end up getting into it too!
More like "I want something from you, so I'll fuck to put you in a good mood" sex from my ex.
TalkToMeInSB
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Have not heard of the term "maintenance sex"! Hmmm... Will have to grok it to see how I feel about it.
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Since I started the thread it would be unfair not to share my own story. Years ago I had a friend who confessed to having a huge crush on me (this has happened to me a number of times for some reason) and she was having just a really shit month. And she was telling me how she never got a break, how she helped a few people out and they burned her, and her ex-girlfriend (she liked women too) had just left her... Pretty much a tale of woe. And she said she wished she could just have one day of getting what SHE wants for a change. Now I didn't have romantic feelings for her even though she was far from unattractive, in fact she was kind of hot, but I just... Did it. I feel like a dick saying it was because I felt sorry for her but it really was.
I thought it would be awkward after that but it wasn't. She and I had sort of an unspoken understanding that it was one night when she just needed a human connection and I was there so... Anyway, I don't think I've ever gotten mercy sex myself but I'm not opposed to doing it again. It was emotionally satisfying for both of us so I don't see a problem with it. We were both single at the time.
I thought it would be awkward after that but it wasn't. She and I had sort of an unspoken understanding that it was one night when she just needed a human connection and I was there so... Anyway, I don't think I've ever gotten mercy sex myself but I'm not opposed to doing it again. It was emotionally satisfying for both of us so I don't see a problem with it. We were both single at the time.
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Is a "slumpbuster" mercy sex? For those of you unaware (and ladies, don't start throwing shit at me - not my idea), when an athlete (I believe baseball players started this) is in a slump, he finds the most unappealing female he can, flirts with her, seduces her and bangs the snot out of her. As the legend goes, his slump is over.
For the record, hockey players do it too and, yes, I have and, yes, it worked.
lydia_kitty
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I don't think that counts, I think mercy implies a level of care for the person... that just sounds like ego boosting.
lydia_kitty
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That's actually a really nice story! You sound like a very caring person and I'm glad that it didn't ruin your friendship.
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What a strange term. Mercy sex.
Is it like .... please, have some mercy, save his life!
Where here, you have to fuck someone to save them?
or Please! For mercy sake! Fuck me! Im a desperate little weener, and I can't get anyone else to do it.
Where here it's just a despised form of pity sex.
Iv'e never cum across the first one, and wouldn't belittle myself for the second one
My husband did mention a mate of his who use to go up to women and say.
'Want a fuck'. He got a lot of knock backs, a few slaps, and a lot of fucks as well.
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I have! I know because just as he was about to cum he cried out "OH MERCY".
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Denny
I've heard married people talk about maintenance sex when they do it just to satisfy their partner.
As soon as I saw this thread called MERCY SEX I looked at it as fucking someone before they die because they did without most of their life.
If I did that and they died I'd feel I killed them. Is that illegal, fucking someone to death?
I have fucked a few ugly gals and some very old ladies because they asked. I suppose I felt mercy for them................. or I was horny!
Lit is getting so complicated!
I've heard married people talk about maintenance sex when they do it just to satisfy their partner.
As soon as I saw this thread called MERCY SEX I looked at it as fucking someone before they die because they did without most of their life.
If I did that and they died I'd feel I killed them. Is that illegal, fucking someone to death?
I have fucked a few ugly gals and some very old ladies because they asked. I suppose I felt mercy for them................. or I was horny!
Lit is getting so complicated!
I remember reading about "mercy fucks" in modern literature. Henry Miller specifically used that term, when referring to someone who just really needed to get laid. He complied.
I also remember accounts from women who took mercy on horny young men with no idea where to start on getting laid. They had no interest in developing a relationship, but understood that someone really needed some guidance and a confidence boost.
As a young man, I was once granted a mercy BJ from a nice woman who understood how horny I was after a night of socializing with her and her friends at a bar. When she dropped me off at the driveway of my parents' home, she took care of me on the front seat of her Ford Maverick.
I also remember accounts from women who took mercy on horny young men with no idea where to start on getting laid. They had no interest in developing a relationship, but understood that someone really needed some guidance and a confidence boost.
As a young man, I was once granted a mercy BJ from a nice woman who understood how horny I was after a night of socializing with her and her friends at a bar. When she dropped me off at the driveway of my parents' home, she took care of me on the front seat of her Ford Maverick.
Yes. I've been at parties where I could see a guy hanging back and I could tell he felt left out. So I included him. But to be fair, I don't really like the idea much. I've done it, but I prefer men who know what they want and use me good and hard. They don't need mercy.
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When my wife had a couple of years with serious depression it was six months of rare and unfulfilling sex followed by eighteen months of no sex during which time I had to be really sensitive with consolation cuddles for her so as not to pressure her with my desire and that was tough to do.
I say all this because in that time she did signal to me her understanding that I might have to go elsewhere. I didn't. But I hugely admire her for giving that permission to me. I haven't heard the term 'mercy sex', but that's what we were talking about for me back then I suppose.
That hard time for her is so, so, passed.
I say all this because in that time she did signal to me her understanding that I might have to go elsewhere. I didn't. But I hugely admire her for giving that permission to me. I haven't heard the term 'mercy sex', but that's what we were talking about for me back then I suppose.
That hard time for her is so, so, passed.
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I thought we'd agreed that you wouldn't mention this to anyone else?
the statute of limitations is up
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I guess in a way,"Mercy sex" is how I met my husband. He was a Marine in Vietnam and was terribly wounded and lost his left leg and had some serious scars on the left side of his body almost to his armpit and on part of his chest. This, plus the attitude towards Vietnam soldiers back then, dates were hard to come by for him and sex was practically impossible. A mutual friend knew I was "easy," shall we say and asked me if I would do him. I did, plus I liked him and eventually fell in love with him and married him a few years later.
There have been a couple of others, but this one was probably closest to being truly "mercy sex."
There have been a couple of others, but this one was probably closest to being truly "mercy sex."
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Once and forever
I was an assistant coach on a womens rugby team. One evening after a match we were at a local pub where the team hung out and one of the women said to me will to take me home this evening? We had been friends for years but never gone out. She said I just cant be alone this evening please take me home and spend the night with me.
We left as the bar was closing and I said lets go back to your place and she hugged me and said follow me. When we got to her house she said you don't have to fuck me but I sure would not mind if you did, and gave me a sweet wet kiss on the lips. she wasn't very experienced but once we started she didn't want to stop and we went to it till the sun came up and we she made breakfast and left.
At practice that week she came up to me and said she really would remember that night forever and if I ever needed someone for an evening to give her a call and that us being together was our little secret and that's just how we left it. One night of shameful lust like it never happened except in our dreams.
I was an assistant coach on a womens rugby team. One evening after a match we were at a local pub where the team hung out and one of the women said to me will to take me home this evening? We had been friends for years but never gone out. She said I just cant be alone this evening please take me home and spend the night with me.
We left as the bar was closing and I said lets go back to your place and she hugged me and said follow me. When we got to her house she said you don't have to fuck me but I sure would not mind if you did, and gave me a sweet wet kiss on the lips. she wasn't very experienced but once we started she didn't want to stop and we went to it till the sun came up and we she made breakfast and left.
At practice that week she came up to me and said she really would remember that night forever and if I ever needed someone for an evening to give her a call and that us being together was our little secret and that's just how we left it. One night of shameful lust like it never happened except in our dreams.
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I LOVE this story. <3 <3
UrbanBohemian
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Thank you so much! I always love when you share stories of your life. It's very much appreciated and you're always more than welcome to provide your experience in any thread I start.
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