Rick DeVille
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is more important than physical but it takes more grace, skill and determination.
Mental Control
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I am not sure of your context, since your post is just one statement, but I would say that whether mental control is more important than physical control, depends on what you are looking for in the relationship.
*I am also somewhat confused by the use of "but" in your statement. Do you mean "and"?
Would you mind clarifying?
~I do not mean to nitpick. Just trying to understand what you mean.~
*I am also somewhat confused by the use of "but" in your statement. Do you mean "and"?
Would you mind clarifying?
~I do not mean to nitpick. Just trying to understand what you mean.~
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The mental control I'm sure to some is more erotic but.... I am a person who has an extreme amount of self control, to the point of being so focused on my self control that I can block out everything else.... for me physical controls (being physically restrained) allow me to completely let go and not focus on my own control so I can enjoy what is going on around me....
I actually hope to get to a point where I can let go of some of the self control I have developed over the years and be able to let go much easier.
I actually hope to get to a point where I can let go of some of the self control I have developed over the years and be able to let go much easier.
A Desert Rose
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Rick DeVille said:
~~~~~~~~and might I add FINESSE to your definition? So much of the romance is mental. Knowing how to gently guide your partner into new experiences is a true art.
Rose
My two cents worth
There is a certain ability in being able to 'stroke' the mind, which can have a far more lasting and powerful impact that simply physically stroking. I am not suggesting for a moment that physicality is not an important ingredient, but if the mind is 'stroked' in just the right kind of way, the physical sensation can be exhilirating.
I find this topic enthralling, I think mental stimulation is powerful. Just look at love - isn't intimacy at its best when we love someone - and love is a mental characteristic!
Love,
adam
There is a certain ability in being able to 'stroke' the mind, which can have a far more lasting and powerful impact that simply physically stroking. I am not suggesting for a moment that physicality is not an important ingredient, but if the mind is 'stroked' in just the right kind of way, the physical sensation can be exhilirating.
I find this topic enthralling, I think mental stimulation is powerful. Just look at love - isn't intimacy at its best when we love someone - and love is a mental characteristic!
Love,
adam
