Mental bondage

[Bette_coquette]

I'm a longtime member of this site, but because of recent personal changes I've decided to come here under a new identity.

Enough of introductions.

Someone mentioned in a thread I was reading about the best bondage was mental. So true!! I recently felt the need to bring myself to orgasm in my pet's presence. As much as he wanted to help, I wouldn't allow him. I told him he wasn't to touch my skin, so he was left with his hands hovering above me and his mouth coming deliciously close to my bits, here and there, but never actually making contact. I had my shirt on and kept tucking it under my chin, only to have it fall down again. I instructed him to hold my shirt up so I could play with my nipples, but again, he was not to touch my skin.

I can still see him holding that material with his fingertips, being ever so careful not to touch me. The hunger in his eyes was deep and passionate. His erection was like steel. I brought myself to orgasm and rearranged my clothes. The look about him was something like, "Is it my turn?" I ignored him and went to wash up and go about my day.

Later, he admitted that was about the most erotic encounter he'd ever had.

What are some examples of mental bondage you enjoy, either giving or getting?

 

[Vail_Indigo]

For me, it is all mental.
In D/s, I seldom use titles like 'Mistress' or ropes, or any toys or contraptions or costumes (not that there's anything wrong with any of that).
She (or I, for that matter) kneel because of need, because there is nothing else that can be done.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

It's not my thing.

I can appreciate the hotness it holds for some, but for me, it kind of ends up in the same area as 'self inflicted' stuff. The fact that I have to concentrate on one particular thing like that separates me from everything else going on, and keeps my consciousness sharp, it stops me from sinking and wallowing in sensation, in him.

 

[SlaveNano]

Agree with the previous post that it is all mental. For me it is all about the mental state of submission. Once you accept your PYL's control over you anything becomes possible. It can involve lots of equipment or not - that just depends on the pesonal style of the PYL - but once your head goes so many opportunities get opened up.

I guess any kind of orgasm control is a mental control, any command that control's behaviour such as I am going to torture you but I do not expect to hear anything from you. How about virtual bondage. Your thumbs are tied up with cotton - pain is inflicted but you are not allowed to break the cotton. There are loads of examples - my Mistress uses these techniques on me all the time.

 

[SlaveNano]

It occurs to me that my essay BDSM Rituals is relevant to this discussion about mental torture - the link is given below:

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=416762

 

[romanticosuave]

Mental Bondage

I love to feel mental Bondage.

 

[Oubliette123]

I guess mental bondage comes in so many forms. For me it can be just a look from him, that stops me in my tracks for whatever reason, the kind of look that has my cheeks burning (that'd be on my face!) and I feel like a rabbit in headlights. Or when I just know he is thinking of something BDSM related and can feel his energy. These times seem to take our playtime to a deeper level.

 

[lilturtle]

I agree it is all mental. My Daddy has held me in place with just his voice before. It is very erotic and rather hot. His voice alone is such a turn on for me. It doesn't take much.

 

[afunguy4u]

I think you should do it again and let him touch and play eith your tits. Try it please!

I'm a longtime member of this site, but because of recent personal changes I've decided to come here under a new identity.

Enough of introductions.

Someone mentioned in a thread I was reading about the best bondage was mental. So true!! I recently felt the need to bring myself to orgasm in my pet's presence. As much as he wanted to help, I wouldn't allow him. I told him he wasn't to touch my skin, so he was left with his hands hovering above me and his mouth coming deliciously close to my bits, here and there, but never actually making contact. I had my shirt on and kept tucking it under my chin, only to have it fall down again. I instructed him to hold my shirt up so I could play with my nipples, but again, he was not to touch my skin.

I can still see him holding that material with his fingertips, being ever so careful not to touch me. The hunger in his eyes was deep and passionate. His erection was like steel. I brought myself to orgasm and rearranged my clothes. The look about him was something like, "Is it my turn?" I ignored him and went to wash up and go about my day.

Later, he admitted that was about the most erotic encounter he'd ever had.

What are some examples of mental bondage you enjoy, either giving or getting?