menstrual sex

[sigsauerprinces]

i did a search on this subject-having sex with a woman when she's on her period-but i only found one thread devoted to it and it was in the "general" forum.

i'd really like a bdsm perspective on it. female subs-do you enjoy it? Doms- is it something you like to do..and if so why-just because it feels good? or because its a way to be more intimate with your partner? or perhaps if she doesnt like it, its a way to humiliate her?

its not something i've done, but its something that sounds really good to me. from a sheer physical point of view-when i am on my period i am SO TOTALLY in the mood, 24-7. its when i want sex the most. the extra warmth and wetness would be nice. then theres the tabooness of it..the extra intimacy of sharing something like that. *sigh*. unfortunatley not all guys are into that kind of thing.

i want to hear ppls thoughts on this

 

[Limbhugger]

May help...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=223958

 

[catalina_francisco]

These are a couple of the previous threads on it which you might like, but is always a good topic for discussion.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=97830&

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=115300

I have also written a couple of stories around the topic from an extreme BDSM perspective, but not put them on Lit as yet. Is a well recognised time for heightened sexual response in women and can be the best sex with the right man. Orgasms can induce more painful cramping in some though, and often an increase in flow for a short time.

Catalina

 

[lark sparrow]

I've done it (although not with the right man ) in both (woman-to-woman) vanilla and kinky settings. It was intimate, pushing soft boundaries, and rather messy in the second case. Crime scene-like bloody handprints all over - we called it the hari-kari bed and had some good giggles the next day. It was both humbling and empowering as experience but I can't say it really turned me onto the idea as a strong desire or need - I wouldn't run to or from it.

I find it often does induce stronger cramping for me personally, though not always.

 

[Ziggy*stardust]

To me as a dominant it does not matter whether my girl is menstruating or not, when it comes to having sex.
It doesn't bother me at all: nothing that can't be removed with soap and water.

Obviously, her menstruating gives a different feeling and a different experience, but I don't see it as a way of humiliation or anything in that direction. I guess it's more about it being a turn on. Then again sex with her is always a turn on for me.

*Ziggy*



Edited because of too fast fingers and too slow brains...

 

[ownedsubgal]

menstrual sex is a big biiiig BIIIIIG no-no for my Master, just something he finds completely and totally icky, to put it mildly, so that will never happen with him. He does not mind if others who wish to use me at that time do so, but he gets no pleasure from that either, so it's not something he encourages. but like you sigsauer, i tend to get especially um..antsy...during that time. it's actually quite a good lesson in discipline every month, to have that aching and yearning and know that it will not be satisfied....after all, why should it be? i'm a slave, my physical desires are irrelevant. helps put things in perspective.

 

[sigsauerprinces]

I've done it (although not with the right man ) in both (woman-to-woman) vanilla and kinky settings. It was intimate, pushing soft boundaries, and rather messy in the second case. Crime scene-like bloody handprints all over - we called it the hari-kari bed and had some good giggles the next day. It was both humbling and empowering as experience but I can't say it really turned me onto the idea as a strong desire or need - I wouldn't run to or from it.

I find it often does induce stronger cramping for me personally, though not always.

hehe...it sounds fun kind of like finger painting

osg-good point

catalina-id love to read your stories about it, hope you put them up soon.

personally for me, orgasms seem to relieve cramps, not make them worse. and i get really bad cramps sometimes so its a good way to relieve them without having to take anything, which i dont like to do really.

 

[PumaSue]

Oh yeah!


What I love about having sex when I am
bleeding is the fantasy in my mind that I
am being fucked even though I am wounded,
but he doesn't care and continues to fuck my
wound. If I am having cramps and he is fucking me
I enjoy it even better because of the pain element.

 

[sigsauerprinces]

Re: Oh yeah!

What I love about having sex when I am
bleeding is the fantasy in my mind that I
am being fucked even though I am wounded,
but he doesn't care and continues to fuck my
wound. If I am having cramps and he is fucking me
I enjoy it even better because of the pain element.

RREOWWRR i hadnt thought of that angle..but i will be now, believe me mmmm. fucked while im bleeding, wounded, and he doesnt care. no not just that he doesnt care-he's enjoying it that im bleeding and in pain. nice.

 

[PumaSue]

Re: Re: Oh yeah!

RREOWWRR i hadnt thought of that angle..but i will be now, believe me mmmm. fucked while im bleeding, wounded, and he doesnt care. no not just that he doesnt care-he's enjoying it that im bleeding and in pain. nice.

And when he is done he makes me clean
all of my blood off of his cock and balls.
It's a real turn-on. The rougher he is the better.

 

[sigsauerprinces]

Re: Re: Re: Oh yeah!

And when he is done he makes me clean
all of my blood off of his cock and balls.
It's a real turn-on. The rougher he is the better.

yesss.

 

[NCShin]

I've had vanilla sex while previous girlfriends had thier period. I mostly just find it messy.

Not a turn on, or turn off.

 

[dragonlace]

I had one experience(a very long time ago) with this kinda thing and although at the time i was apprehensive about it, it was so very intense. He told me he wanted it and i wasn't sure about it so he took me roughly, telling me i was his when he wished it. I had the same feeling of being overly horney and so i was edgy anyway, and when he took me from behind, i started moaning(I was always overly quiet). He grabbed me by the hair and told me i was his little bitch in heat. It wasn't as bad or as messy as i thought it would be, and actually i came harder than i had ever done before. I guess as long as my partner didn't have an issue with it i would do it again, although most men i have known wouldn't even consider it.

 

[sigsauerprinces]

it was so very intense. He told me he wanted it and i wasn't sure about it so he took me roughly, telling me i was his when he wished it. I had the same feeling of being overly horney and so i was edgy anyway, and when he took me from behind, i started moaning(I was always overly quiet). He grabbed me by the hair and told me i was his little bitch in heat. It wasn't as bad or as messy as i thought it would be, and actually i came harder than i had ever done before.

hotness.

 

[jhangel]

During that time of the month I am extremely horny and want sex 24/7. My master does not mind it one bit. One b/c we are trying to have a baby and the first day or two are supposed to be good times to concieve. And two b/c after we do he knows that i will give if a massage with soap in the shower which he LOVES.

 

[FungiUg]

Doms- is it something you like to do..and if so why-just because it feels good? or because its a way to be more intimate with your partner? or perhaps if she doesnt like it, its a way to humiliate her?

Completely ambivalent about it.

 

[Krinaia]

Geez... I try to keep an open mind but fucking someone's wound just goes too far for me... course, I have hard limits against breaking the skin.

But I lost my virginity while on my period and often get horny while menstrating... which is a pain in the ass... because of the mess... lol. I tend to not get much in the way of cramps though that is changing somewhat. But I have no feels about the stigma against it so I just go at it and enjoy myself.

If I do get weird about it ... it's the hormones affecting my moods and throwing me into some form of weird girlness.

I think it's the taboo element that often makes things like this have a particular allure to the bdsm crowd. Similar to anal sex, (besides actually feeling good) it does have that societal blemish of being wrong and dirty ... which makes the naughty part of ourselves enjoy it all the more. I think those men that have no problem with the messiness of it, probably enjoy it for similar reasons as the reasons as to why they enjoy anal sex.

(edited for grammar... sorry guys, i'm getting sleepy)

 

[lark sparrow]

Geez... I try to keep an open mind but fucking someone's wound just goes too far for me... course, I have hard limits against breaking the skin.

lol I thought it was pretty powerful imagery and a rather poetic, if ghastly, turn of phrase. That one sticks out like Netzach's meat leash to the soul.

 

[PumaSue]

*Shrugs shoulders*

lol I thought it was pretty powerful imagery and a rather poetic, if ghastly, turn of phrase. That one sticks out like Netzach's meat leash to the soul.

What can I say.......I am a masochist.

 

[NOFX95PGT]

......

 

[sigsauerprinces]

i know puma sue said "fucking a wound", but my own mind turned that into him fucking me while im bleeding from somewhere else besides my cunt-maybe he whipped me so hard on my ass that i bled...maybe he cut me, deliberately, on my arm, carving his initial into my skin, marking me as His forever..and the blood dripped down over us and onto my pussy and his cock, and we made love as it colored our skin, christening us, together forever, his cock, my pussy, my tummy slick and wet with it. he takes his finger and gets some blood on it and, smiling at me, writes MINE across my chest. then using the slippery blood to lubricate my nipples, he rubs hem then sucks each clean. then he's fucking me hard again, brutally, and i look at the blood and and then up at him, reveling in the look of pleasure on his face, the pleasure he is taking in hurting me and the fact that my cries of pain mean nothing to him. he fucks me harder and i moan "owww, it hurts" and he pushes deeper and murmurs "ohhh yeah" and as hes about to cum he roughly grabs my clit and pinches it and i cum like a freight train, moaning his name, my nails digging into his back in extasy as he pumps his hot cum deep inside me. afterwards we lay together like that, warm, the blood drying, getting sticky and tacky. bonding his skin to mine, holding us together.

 

[PumaSue]

Excellent!

i know puma sue said "fucking a wound", but my own mind turned that into him fucking me while im bleeding from somewhere else besides my cunt-maybe he whipped me so hard on my ass that i bled...maybe he cut me, deliberately, on my arm, carving his initial into my skin, marking me as His forever..and the blood dripped down over us and onto my pussy and his cock, and we made love as it colored our skin, christening us, together forever, his cock, my pussy, my tummy slick and wet with it. he takes his finger and gets some blood on it and, smiling at me, writes MINE across my chest. then using the slippery blood to lubricate my nipples, he rubs hem then sucks each clean. then he's fucking me hard again, brutally, and i look at the blood and and then up at him, reveling in the look of pleasure on his face, the pleasure he is taking in hurting me and the fact that my cries of pain mean nothing to him. he fucks me harder and i moan "owww, it hurts" and he pushes deeper and murmurs "ohhh yeah" and as hes about to cum he roughly grabs my clit and pinches it and i cum like a freight train, moaning his name, my nails digging into his back in extasy as he pumps his hot cum deep inside me. afterwards we lay together like that, warm, the blood drying, getting sticky and tacky. bonding his skin to mine, holding us together.

Damn, that was exciting to read!!

 

[catalina_francisco]

I think it's the taboo element that often makes things like this have a particular allure to the bdsm crowd. Similar to anal sex, (besides actually feeling good) it does have that societal blemish of being wrong and dirty ... which makes the naughty part of ourselves enjoy it all the more. I think those men that have no problem with the messiness of it, probably enjoy it for similar reasons as the reasons as to why they enjoy anal sex.

(edited for grammar... sorry guys, i'm getting sleepy)

I don't know, I have never had any men in my vanilla days feel either was taboo or naughty and certainly not in BDSM. Mostly they just enjoy getting their rocks off and consider it part of nature, nothing special. The only ones I have met who didn't feel this way were the ones who felt it dirty in a non sexual way so didn't bother, but they have been few in the last 30 years.

Catalina

 

[sigsauerprinces]

Re: Excellent!

Damn, that was exciting to read!!

thanks

 

[Krinaia]

I just... EW. Blood to me is like scat... though menstrual blood isn't so bad because its supposed to happen. It's part of my monthly health... that bleeding let's me know that my body is functioning as it should. My body bleeding for other reasons... well I just don't like that. It's scary in a bad way. I know that wording will piss someone off but it was the best I could come up with... what I mean is, I don't want scars. I don't want to worry about wounds healing improperly or becoming infected because someone got too rough and spanked me til they broke the skin.

If you guys are safe with it, then I can't really say you shouldn't do it. I'm just saying, it gives me the willies and any man that broke the skin and didn't immediately stop... well he'd have some 'splaining to do.