Men's Health - Some Men Have a Kink for Being 'Forced' to Be Bisexual

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On its surface, I sincerely appreciate the contents of the article and the open discussion about the psychology here. However, I feel like the language throughout is more informed by what we find in pornographic internet searches rather than reality. Coerced bi (rather than forced) isn't a new phenomenon. I've been in a relationship where we engaged in it regularly. But the amount of porn dedicated to it is. I just think that the author's attempt to destroy sexuality labels by describing these encounters exactly as they appear on Pornhub actually reinforces those very labels.
 
I fantasize about being begged and persuaded by my wife to take a huge Cock up my ass like I have done to her many times and swallow every drop of every load I can coax out of it
 
Agree...completely wild this is in a fairly mainstream publication.

For me my "bi" fantasies are definitely in the forced realm falling under this category the author states " they might be straight and interested in exploring naughty taboos, or engaging in behaviors they’re actually not into.”

Since I've been happily monogamous with wife since dating, being forced into my fantasy bi scenario means I had no choice in breaking my desired monogamy. Fun in fantasy realm but likely zero interest IRL for "forced" by hung guy gym encounter. :unsure:
 
This is very cool. My bi fantasies began as forced with a Domme Mistress but have evolved over time. I honestly had never considered touching another guy sexually for most of my life. It wasn't on my radar in any way until my then gf brought it up while role-playing. She asked if I would suck her strap on if it was on someone else. I said yes. Then she asked "even if it was on a guy?" Until then we had both agreed that guy/guy stuff did nothing for us but the fact that it turned her on made me consider it and under the right D/s scenario, it forced, I admitted it could be hot. Then, as I and we fantasized about it more and more I became desensitized to it and I looked to push my boundaries. Now, a decade later I fantasize about forced bi, cuckolding, and even submition to a male Dom Master or Daddy. I am still bi but mostly straight and the "forced" aspect is still a part of it because I enjoy submitting and humiliation in its many forms (including the idea of being cheated on, but I digress).

I've written many, many stories on the subject.
 
This is very cool. My bi fantasies began as forced with a Domme Mistress but have evolved over time. I honestly had never considered touching another guy sexually for most of my life. It wasn't on my radar in any way until my then gf brought it up while role-playing. She asked if I would suck her strap on if it was on someone else. I said yes. Then she asked "even if it was on a guy?" Until then we had both agreed that guy/guy stuff did nothing for us but the fact that it turned her on made me consider it and under the right D/s scenario, it forced, I admitted it could be hot. Then, as I and we fantasized about it more and more I became desensitized to it and I looked to push my boundaries. Now, a decade later I fantasize about forced bi, cuckolding, and even submition to a male Dom Master or Daddy. I am still bi but mostly straight and the "forced" aspect is still a part of it because I enjoy submitting and humiliation in its many forms (including the idea of being cheated on, but I digress).

I've written many, many stories on the subject.
This is similar to me in a way. It took me a long time to actually understand that I have absolutely 0 romantic interest in men, and in fact have 0 physical attraction to men. I used to think I was to a certain extent bisexual, but heteroflexible is probably much more precise as I have no interest in men outside of the BDSM context.

I didn't fully realize this until maybe the end of my 20s when I became much more secure and comfortable with my sexuality as well. It just doesn't float my boat in that way so to speak. I think it's fantastic that this article was published in something that is so mainstream though. I think that is a milestone in many ways not only for the sexuality of men, but the validity and visibility of femdom.
 
This is similar to me in a way. It took me a long time to actually understand that I have absolutely 0 romantic interest in men, and in fact have 0 physical attraction to men. I used to think I was to a certain extent bisexual, but heteroflexible is probably much more precise as I have no interest in men outside of the BDSM context.
I've found myself in a similar thought, with no interest in men, as well. But tranny and lady-boy porn has gotten much more common in the last few years and I've wondered, what if a truly gorgeous feminine tranny or hermaphrodite offered me her cock, I would do. Heteroflexible? A long shot, but maybe.
 
Thank you. I wish the trolls were less vitriolic so I can post more
The trolls are obviously threatened by what it reveals about their inner psyche. Why would they even read them I wonder...
As authors one must develop thick skin to a degree, although easier said than done.
Your stories I've read I thoroughly enjoyed.
Fuck the loser trolls.
 
I definitely think there's this hidden sexual revolution for what's "acceptable" for straight men to enjoy and participate in.

I have several straight friends who've openly admitted to letting their GF slide a finger in them or use a toy in their ass. Or they're totally comfortable cuddling with another dude or showering next to a gay guy in the showers. I think it's great, I don't think pleasure should be categorized as "gay" or "straight" or "bi".
 
Thank you. I wish the trolls were less vitriolic so I can post more

Easy for me to say ignore the trolls, so I won't say it. But it's a damn shame, because I love your stories.

The trolls are obviously threatened by what it reveals about their inner psyche. Why would they even read them I wonder...
As authors one must develop thick skin to a degree, although easier said than done.
Your stories I've read I thoroughly enjoyed.
Fuck the loser trolls.

Couldn't agree more: Fuck the trolls.
 
Having never been a part of the BDSM community or lifestyle, I can't address the "Forced Bi" scenario. However, with over 20 years in the cuckold lifestyle, I have seen and taken a fair number of husbands who agreed to do it to fulfill the wife's fantasy, and I tried to make sure they enjoyed it. It didn't necessarily turn them bi or gay and it wasn't forced. I considered it very loving in fact.
 
I never had to be forced. I was watching my wife suck a guy and stroking myself and she asked if I wanted to try in. I was on my knees sucking him in seconds and have never stopped sucking cock since. Later that day she got the two of us to fuck each other and I haven't stopped getting fucked since then either. That is until my recent heart attack and the cardiologists recommending that I only do hand jobs and blow jobs until I am fully recovered.
 
Easy for me to say ignore the trolls, so I won't say it. But it's a damn shame, because I love your stories.



Couldn't agree more: Fuck the trolls.
I have a few things I have written that I may post sometime.

Truth be told I have moments of thick skin and moments of insecurity and for a while the latter seemed to take over and I stopped posting.

I enjoy writing and haven't stopped and my only "payment" I need is the dopamine hit from positive comments haha.
 
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