Men's Complaint

[angela40]

I have been exchanging with men who complain about there wifes not having a sex drive or its fading away. It's not a one sided street. Communication between the partners is vital, or create sexual fantasies that will get her wet and him hard. Mutual masturbation is an emotional ride. It's just my observation.
Myself I love to entice my dates with upskirt, nylons and being pantiless. I been with men have to wank them for a long period of time till they get hard. Men make sexual suggestions to your partner to bring her into your world.

 

[FGB]

My now EX-wife when I complained after about three months of marriage informed me that me wanting sex was MY PROBLEM not hers.

Why I waited so long to divorce her is because I an Idiot that hates to give up.

But know what it takes two whole people to make a good functional relationship

One and a half can't do it.

 

[Pines]

I have been exchanging with men who complain about there wifes not having a sex drive or its fading away. It's not a one sided street. Communication between the partners is vital, or create sexual fantasies that will get her wet and him hard. Mutual masturbation is an emotional ride. It's just my observation.
Myself I love to entice my dates with upskirt, nylons and being pantiless. I been with men have to wank them for a long period of time till they get hard. Men make sexual suggestions to your partner to bring her into your world.

Very good and thoughtful advice.

 

[MLBF]

No longer a problem

I’ve been married 40 years to a woman I adore. She has so many admirable qualities not the least being smart, fun to be with, a great figure, and looks 20 years younger than her age. I attribute that to a lifetime of exercise and healthy diet but.....
When going through menopause her sex drive diminished and she said it was not enjoyable for her. We still had regular sex but no fire, she pretty much was accommodating my needs.
Then she went to a physician who is very good at hormone therapy. I knew it was successful when a few weeks after starting treatment I was sitting in the sofa reading. She came out of the shower wearing just a silk robe which she promptly dropped revealing her gorgeous body and freshly shaved pussy. (Something I had often hinted I liked). It was but a moment before she was sitting on the back of the sofa and grabbed my head to glide my mouth to her moist cunt. Suffice to say we had a hot session and fucked like demons on the spot.
Moral of the story, menopause can be hard on a woman but we never stopped loving each other and modern medice is wonderful. Since that night our sex life is better than ever.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I’ve been married 40 years to a woman I adore. She has so many admirable qualities not the least being smart, fun to be with, a great figure, and looks 20 years younger than her age. I attribute that to a lifetime of exercise and healthy diet but.....
When going through menopause her sex drive diminished and she said it was not enjoyable for her. We still had regular sex but no fire, she pretty much was accommodating my needs.
Then she went to a physician who is very good at hormone therapy. I knew it was successful when a few weeks after starting treatment I was sitting in the sofa reading. She came out of the shower wearing just a silk robe which she promptly dropped revealing her gorgeous body and freshly shaved pussy. (Something I had often hinted I liked). It was but a moment before she was sitting on the back of the sofa and grabbed my head to glide my mouth to her moist cunt. Suffice to say we had a hot session and fucked like demons on the spot.
Moral of the story, menopause can be hard on a woman but we never stopped loving each other and modern medice is wonderful. Since that night our sex life is better than ever.

I love a good story with a HAPPY ending.
My story is almost a mirror image of yours EXCEPT with no turn around in activity. Besides being financially unfit for the HRT, her hip joints have taken a beating over the years that she is experiencing HUGE trouble in trying to overcome, positional body mechanics can be EXTREMELY tiring and exhaustive.

 

[wifewatcher1997]

I’ve been married 40 years to a woman I adore. She has so many admirable qualities not the least being smart, fun to be with, a great figure, and looks 20 years younger than her age. I attribute that to a lifetime of exercise and healthy diet but.....
When going through menopause her sex drive diminished and she said it was not enjoyable for her. We still had regular sex but no fire, she pretty much was accommodating my needs.
Then she went to a physician who is very good at hormone therapy. I knew it was successful when a few weeks after starting treatment I was sitting in the sofa reading. She came out of the shower wearing just a silk robe which she promptly dropped revealing her gorgeous body and freshly shaved pussy. (Something I had often hinted I liked). It was but a moment before she was sitting on the back of the sofa and grabbed my head to glide my mouth to her moist cunt. Suffice to say we had a hot session and fucked like demons on the spot.
Moral of the story, menopause can be hard on a woman but we never stopped loving each other and modern medice is wonderful. Since that night our sex life is better than ever.

This...THIS gives me hope!!

Been married for nearly 23 years and my wife was a nympho from the start. We even explored her playing and taking lovers (about 12 or so during a 10 year period) and it brought a stronger level of trust and experiences in the bedroom. The past 2-3 years she has been dealing with health issues (mental and physical) and a hysterectomy is coming soon. She knows her sex drive has waned and that she truly doesn't desire any intimacy in the bedroom. She loves my flirts, my compliments, and how I continue to pursue her, but it does not lead to any extra fun.
I am hoping that something like this can work for her and bring back the flames and fun of our previous years. I miss it terribly and love her dearly.

 

[WillJ8787]

I have been exchanging with men who complain about there wifes not having a sex drive or its fading away. It's not a one sided street. Communication between the partners is vital, or create sexual fantasies that will get her wet and him hard. Mutual masturbation is an emotional ride. It's just my observation.
Myself I love to entice my dates with upskirt, nylons and being pantiless. I been with men have to wank them for a long period of time till they get hard. Men make sexual suggestions to your partner to bring her into your world.

Amen...I think a large percentage of complaints revolve around this lack of putting in the time for her. Well said!

 

[MLBF]

I love a good story with a HAPPY ending.
My story is almost a mirror image of yours EXCEPT with no turn around in activity. Besides being financially unfit for the HRT, her hip joints have taken a beating over the years that she is experiencing HUGE trouble in trying to overcome, positional body mechanics can be EXTREMELY tiring and exhaustive.

Please note the key detail that the doctor must be very good at hormone therapy. Hers is an endocrinologist who specializes in this area.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I have been exchanging with men who complain about there wifes not having a sex drive or its fading away. It's not a one sided street. Communication between the partners is vital, or create sexual fantasies that will get her wet and him hard. Mutual masturbation is an emotional ride. It's just my observation.
Myself I love to entice my dates with upskirt, nylons and being pantiless. I been with men have to wank them for a long period of time till they get hard. Men make sexual suggestions to your partner to bring her into your world.

so then what is there to do when she either ignores all of my talking, suggestions
and requests or just flat out says ("no-, its not happening, so just stop bothering me.") ???

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Please note the key detail that the doctor must be very good at hormone therapy. Hers is an endocrinologist who specializes in this area.

I love my wife dearly or else I wouldn't have spent all this time with her BUT--, I'll not go to prison because I get busted robbing banks so she can get hormones. We don't have insurance and like I said, I don't have the finances for the therapy.