men's bounce back time

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Men what is your bounce back time after sex until you can go again?

Women what times have you noticed?

Just trying to see what the average is..:)
 
really depends on what I did to cum in the first place and how horny I am.

usually good to go full tilt with in the hour!

KC
 
Depends on how long the last session was. But usually around 20 minutes. Some times an hour or 10 minutes. Also depends on how tired I am.
 
I was with a guy once that had one and that was it for him. It was frustrating sometimes if he finished too soon because no matter what we tried he couldn't do it fully again for several hours. He was really cute and had a really really nice cock but the thing just wouldn't work like I wanted it to. After awhile it made me think maybe it was me regardless of what he said. Sometimes that kind of thing gets in your head.
 
Men what is your bounce back time after sex until you can go again?

Women what times have you noticed?

Just trying to see what the average is..:)

It has very much depended upon whom I was with. With the love of my life, it was no more than 15 min, usually much shorter (depending upon fatigue, etc). With others a bit longer, maybe up to an hour. But that hour is filled with cuddling, hands, kissing, etc, so it really does not matter.
 
It depends on the first activity, and how horny I am. Have been good to again in 20 minutes, and sometimes a few hours. Also depends on the activities happened in the down time, if things are exciting and easy going, I will tend to be ready sooner, if things are stressful, not so much.
 
Like others have said, it depends.

When I was younger, I could be back and ready to go in just a few minutes.

Now that I am older, I can usually get hard in 20 minutes or so. But actually having an orgasm again in less than an hour is probably not going to happen.

Fortunately, my partner is understanding and she takes full advantage of the recovery time in other ways.
 
With apologies to James Doohan

I'm reminded of the Star Trek original series episode "The Naked Time" where Scotty says, "I can't change the laws of physics. I've got to have 30 minutes".

I've had to say that to my wife a few times when she asked me to go at it again.

Kit
 
These days I'm a one shot wonder. It's not going to be hard again till tomorrow, or the next day.
The advantage is that I am able to delay my own orgasm until she is ready.
Unlike my youth when my memory tells me I never went soft, but equally I never lasted all that long either.
 
It depends with my husband but I would say about an hour or so. Things change over the years and when he was younger he could cum and stay hard for one or two more rounds. But even when he can't fully recover he more than makes up for it in oral work. NO complaints here. :heart::heart::heart:
 
My husband is already well in his forties so it takes a bit longer in general anyway, but still there are circumstances which have an effect on things.

If he ejaculates after "basic" PiV sex or penis-focused masturbation it'll take him about 5-8 hours until he can get it hard again. Mind, it won't necessarily grow as big as it could or he might not be able to ejaculate but as a rule a new erection is possible. BUT if the said hours pass while he sleeps, he will wake up with a grand morning wood and will ejaculate in a normal manner. Of course there are a couple of exceptions: if we've been apart for weeks and he is very, very horny he can get another erection after 2-3 hours. Or if I just keep stimulating him despite ejaculation (to the point where he cries and screams in pain) it will stay hard and take him ages to cum again, which is nice if I just want him to keep doing me.

If he ejaculates through combined penile and prostate stimulation it definitely takes him around 10-12 hours to get hard or ejaculate again.

If he orgasms through prostate stimulation (without anything working on his dick) he usually gets 2-3 dry orgasms - just like us girls. Prostate stimulation produces so much sperm that I nearly always want him to ejaculate in the end, which drains him in every possible way. So after 2-3 dry o's and one wet o it takes him at least 12 hours until next erection is possible. It also makes him very uninterested in sex in general all the way until he gets a spontaneous erection again.

And lastly, if he has a multi-hour "passive" extended orgasm through milking, meaning prolonged constant prostate stimulation, it takes him 2-3 days until his erections and interest in sex return. Milking drains everything sexual out of him and instead makes him well-behaved and incredibly service-oriented. He is a cuddly man by nature, but milking takes it to another level.

I have to say hubby is a champ in delaying his own ejaculation. I've owned his ejaculation ever since we started our D/s thing, so it's normal for him to hold them back. Dry o's are his to keep though, so if I'm working with his ass he can let those orgasms flow as often as he feels like it.
 
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