Men

[spicecajun]

MEN why is it you get married? I am not male bashing here. I really want to know

 

[MechaBlade]

MEN why is it you get married? I am not male bashing here. I really want to know

So she won't leave?

 

[Oliver Clozoff]

I'm hoping to get a few homecooked meals, some housekeeping, and regular sex.

yeah, yeah, yeah... maybe that love and companionship thing too, but I could use some good eats.

 

[bored1]

MEN why is it you get married? I am not male bashing here. I really want to know

Why do women get married?

 

[Ice Cold]

Coz her father is holding the shotgun.

 

[medjay]

MEN why is it you get married? I am not male bashing here. I really want to know

Because her dad is standing behind you with a shotgun.

 

[Ice Cold]

ha ha Great minds think alike!!

 

[bluemuse]

Men fall in love too, ya know.

 

[spicecajun]

women

ok ....I just want to know from different views of men why they got married. I am in a business where I see a lot of men complain about being married. Or their wives. There has only been two in thirteen years who have spoken nothing but good about their marriage.

 

[peachykeen]

spice most guys talk a lot of harmless bullshit but when it comes down to it they don't want to be alone. Complaining is just a way of venting a little steam.

 

[MechaBlade]

Men fall in love too, ya know.

I understand this. And I am young, but I don't believe I'll ever love one woman so much that I want to legally bind myself to monogamy with her. Unless she swings.

 

[Ice Cold]

Could be due in part to misconceived expectations of what life would be like after the marriage. Things have a tendacy to change, and what you found to be a charming trait in a boyfriend / girlfriend can quickly become a perceived annoyance.

 

[MechaBlade]

spice most guys talk a lot of harmless bullshit but when it comes down to it they don't want to be alone. Complaining is just a way of venting a little steam.

So you're saying they get married just so they won't be all alone? (I know that's not the only reason, but it's the one you gave and it is the main reason for many guys (I think))

 

[Monazwx]

Like women, Men get married for tons of different reasons. But, if they're not happy, they should work on it instead of bitching. Alot of woman complain too though. Some people aren't breathing if they're not complaining about something.

 

[spicecajun]

ok I am a hairdresser. so I hear it all see it all know it all. and I want to say to these men "get a divorce" but for the sake of my job, it is not my place. Some of these men have unreal beautiful wives. I dont get it

 

[pabloback]

one word
IRONING

 

[MechaBlade]

ok I am a hairdresser. so I hear it all see it all know it all. and I want to say to these men "get a divorce" but for the sake of my job, it is not my place. Some of these men have unreal beautiful wives. I dont get it

Oh, but living with them could be unbeautiful. I imagine. Once again, I am speaking from ZERO experience and living with Carmen Electra could be as great as it sounds.

 

[Freya]

Unreal beautiful doesn't mean a damn thing - marriage requires more than just looks.

 

[HeavyStick]

I thought marriage was like having a talking hemorrhoid.

 

[Freya]

one word
IRONING

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Wives are supposed to iron? Fuck that, I'm never getting married.

 

[peachykeen]

So you're saying they get married just so they won't be all alone? (I know that's not the only reason, but it's the one you gave and it is the main reason for many guys (I think))

you say "just" like that's a little thing. It's not. It's major. It's all encompassing. If youthinkof your wife as only the only woman you're allowed to fuck, well, that's a problem then. My husband is my best friend, my truest companion, and the person with whom I have chosen to take on this adventure that is life through thick and thin. I haven't physically seen him for over 3 months now but he is my constant source of strength. So while I am 'lonely' at moments without him, I am never 'alone' in this world. And that is a big, big, big deal.

 

[Lost Cause]

Because....

Marriage isn't a word....it's a sentence!
If I want to have to explain my thoughts, actions, or words, I'd get married again.
If I want to put my balls in a drawer as I go out to be with the guys, I'd get married again.
If I want someone that will give me head until my balls shrivel UNTIL the marriage, then have excuses rather than an open mouth for the rest of my days, I'd do it again.
If I want to make a choice between her or my Harley.....oh yeah! I did! That's why I'm happily single for life!

*Sworn to Fun, Loyal to None!

 

[spicecajun]

ice cold

...you gave a reason for not marrying someone.

 

[Monazwx]

wife = talking hemorrhoid

Sounds like you'll be paying alimony someday.

 

[HeavyStick]

wife = talking hemorrhoid

on the flipside it could be the guy