Men, Women, Do you Notice....?

[3113]

I was getting ready this morning and I began to wonder...there are little things I sometimes put on--cosmetics or clothing or accouterments, that are supposedly meant to garner attention. I'm not talking about very obvious things like a tight skirt or a push-up bra. I mean little things like a color of eyeshadow. I'm told that if I wear this, I'll get more attention, and if I don't, I won't.

But do these little things get noticed at all?

I understand that it probably doesn't matter. A lot of the little things we wear are to enhance our perception of ourselves. Nevertheless, I'm curious. Name something you or others commonly wear--common to men/women, something subtle enough that you're not sure if it ever gets noticed, like glossy lipstick or a silver belt buckle, and we'll chime in with a yea or nay.

Here's mine: I'm curious to know if Men/Women notice when a woman is wearing that glittery powder (or lotion) that makes her skin sparkle just a little.

Follow up Question: If you do notice it, do you find it attractive or silly?

 

[sr71plt]

I notice when there appears to be too much of something. (This has application to story writing too.)

 

[Tio_Narratore]

Yes, I notice it. How I find it depends on who's wearing it. On my students, it can look cute; on a colleague, generally silly...but on a colleague at a weekend workshop...

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

I've noticed it on strippers. In that environment, it seems appropriate. Beyond that, I couldn't say because I've never seen it on a woman in the daytime.

 

[JamesSD]

Here's mine: I'm curious to know if Men/Women notice when a woman is wearing that glittery powder (or lotion) that makes her skin sparkle just a little.

Follow up Question: If you do notice it, do you find it attractive or silly?

The thing about make-up in general is when the person looking at you can really tell you're wearing make-up, you're probably wearing too much.

Really, the target with make-up is to create the illusion of naturally perfect skin, and also in some cases to draw attention to things like the eyes by creating the illusion of thick strong eyelashes. For most people the intended effect is "she looks good!" not "She's wearing make-up!"

For me, glitter is very junior high. There are times it can be appropriate; if you're going clubbing for example, you can do your make-up a lot heavier than if you are going to your friend's house for dinner. But in general most things like colored eyeshadow and glitter make the wearer look a little juvenile, which is fine if this is your intended effect.

I'll close by saying that a lot of what women do in terms of clothes, accessories and make-up is for the benefit of other women, and not for attracting the opposite sex. So there often will be things that are in fashion that aren't necessarily attractive to men, but are the style of the time. Men's tastes just don't change that quickly. For most straight dudes a tight low cut top, miniskirt and enough make-up to look natural will always work.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

I agree with James. Everything in this discussion will be situation appropriate. There are even times when layering on the make-up looks right. They aren't common but for some occasions an intensely made-up face is just what the doctor called for. However, in the daytime? At work? Uh, no.

 

[Handley_Page]

1: Here's mine: I'm curious to know if Men/Women notice when a woman is wearing that glittery powder (or lotion) that makes her skin sparkle just a little.

2: Follow up Question: If you do notice it, do you find it attractive or silly?

1. Depends upon the occasion. At work it looks daft. In the dim of a dance, it can look nice.
2. I wonder if a woman notices I've put on my favourite aftershave (Old Spice - or maybe Tabac)

 

[3113]

I wonder if a woman notices I've put on my favourite aftershave (Old Spice - or maybe Tabac)

Oh, yes! Speaking for this woman, I always notice such fragrances; I love a guy who smells all freshly shaven, especially if his aftershave mixes just right with his chemistry. Then I'll start to lean on in and get a little closer. Funny, but I find that I really like some of the older (I mean, way old!), "manly," barbershop fragrance like Bay Rum.

As said, of course, too much will get noticed faster and in a negative way--and unlike too much make-up, too much aftershave or perfume never works. Especially if the person wearing it is with you in an elevator, or at the next table from you at a restaurant and that fragrance is mingling with the taste of your food

There was a perfume store (don't know if it's still in business) that sold "almost invisible" perfume. Very subtle fragrances, which my husband adored. I think it was because you could only catch a whiff of them if you snuggled in close.

 

[Handley_Page]

There was a perfume store (don't know if it's still in business) that sold "almost invisible" perfume. Very subtle fragrances, which my husband adored. I think it was because you could only catch a whiff of them if you snuggled in close.

The perfect type.

 

[YoursSINSerely]

I hate to admit this, but I do notice people's shoes--both men's and women's. After that, I'll notice their coat. I'm turned off by dirt, wrinkles, and worn out cuffs.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I find that most women are clueless when it comes to their appearance. I mean, just sit somewhere and observe women, and make ticks on a piece of paper for what you see. 1/4 are probably passable, 1/2 need some pointers, and 1/4 need a serious make-over.

Male cross-dressers are the worst. They look like Donna Reed and walk like Pop-Eye or John Wayne.

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

Do men/women notice when a woman has very fine skin? I do not mean merely skin without blemish, but skin that is smooth, fair and even in tone and texture.

 

[3113]

Do men/women notice when a woman has very fine skin? I do not mean merely skin without blemish, but skin that is smooth, fair and even in tone and texture.

You mean, as compared to freckled or tanned?

I tend to notice freckles because I like them and find them charming.

 

[TxRad]

You mean, as compared to freckled or tanned?

I tend to notice freckles because I like them and find them charming.

I notice freckles but then i like redheads and they seem to go together.

 

[lance gt]

The texture of a woman's face is very noticable to me. Unless a concealing foundation with make-up is used. a woman's face shows signs of blemishes and patches of drier skin that can detract from her looks. Pimples and acne scarring, as well as a host of skin problems, can seriously hide her natural beauty. Natural beauty is just that, natural. The colour and shape of her eyes, the set and fullness of her lips, the contours of her bone structure and muscles, all depend on how nice the covering is bringing it all together.

 

[lance gt]

I notice freckles but then i like redheads and they seem to go together.

They sure do Tx. I'm with you on redheads and freckles. Ann-Margret had the right combination of both for me.

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

You mean, as compared to freckled or tanned?

I tend to notice freckles because I like them and find them charming.

Well, I mean the quality of the facial skin (i.e. clear, supple, firm). A face that has that "soap-and-water" clean look to it. In women of color, I think of Halle Berry's skin or Beyonce Knowles' skin. In European women, I think of Monica Bellucci or Kristen Scott Thomas. Hope that clarifies.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

A clear, smooth skin is supposed to be a good indication of fertility.

 

[Huckleman2000]

[...]I'm curious to know if Men/Women notice when a woman is wearing that glittery powder (or lotion) that makes her skin sparkle just a little.

Follow up Question: If you do notice it, do you find it attractive or silly?

I notice it, and the more subtle the effect, the better. It should be something I can only notice when I'm close enough to complement you on it in a low voice. I especially like it in the cleavage area, although then it's like daring me to look there. It's not a daytime look.

 

[JT750]

Here's mine: I'm curious to know if Men/Women notice when a woman is wearing that glittery powder (or lotion) that makes her skin sparkle just a little.

Follow up Question: If you do notice it, do you find it attractive or silly?

I notice it and, unless she's dressed up as a faerie for a specific purpose, I don't like it. Its not attractive to me, its silly. But then, I don't really like make-up... I prefer au naturale or very lightly made up at worst.

 

[Stella_Omega]

A clear, smooth skin is supposed to be a good indication of fertility.

Which of course is the most important thing a woman can possibly do for a man.

What the fucking fuck, Bear!

Women are not breeding stock!

 

[3113]

Women are not breeding stock!

Well, actually, we kinda are, as there's no breeding without us.....

 

[TxRad]

Which of course is the most important thing a woman can possibly do for a man.

What the fucking fuck, Bear!

Women are not breeding stock!

20 posts and this is what you picked up on.

The Bear's not like that and you know it.

Damn.

 

[YoursSINSerely]

Which of course is the most important thing a woman can possibly do for a man.

What the fucking fuck, Bear!

Women are not breeding stock!

Good for you, Stella!

 

[Boxlicker101]

They sure do Tx. I'm with you on redheads and freckles. Ann-Margret had the right combination of both for me.

Not to mention a great body.

The first thing I notice when a woman is facing me is her tits. If I am behind her, I notice her ass. If she is passing in front of me, I notice both.

Close behind that would be her hair, if it is long. When I get closer, I might take notice of things such as her eyes or other facial features or her complexion. I don't even notice her shoes or her clothing, unless it is provocative.