Men ... What do you like?

Nicole

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Do you prefer a woman that is sexually aware of what she does or doesn't like? Being open and telling you what she does and doen't want you to do?

OR

Do you prefer a woman that you have to work at to get her to open up to you? The type that when you do something, she'll say yes or no as to wether you can continue or not.

I just wonder what you Lit men like and dislike.
 
It depends on if she actually knows what she wants or just prefers other things. I had a gf once that told me she was blah about quite a bit of things. Wanting to please her I stopped doing those things except rarely. I found out after we broke up she resented me for doing that.
I prefer a woman who is comfortable with herself and helps a little but is still open to experimenting and letting me know how it effects her.
 
WE ALL KNOW THE CHASE IS FUN but once that is done i like somebody that is self assured and confident in what she wants , likes and does , i am never scared to try something different and i like the same in my partner
 
SHE WOULD HAVE TO BE>>>

the most important thing to me is honesty.other than that i don`t care.who is going to be with a lier.
 
Doin' the butt

I like a woman that is upfront. I also like a woman that has large breasts,(no Pam Anderson, though,) and can shake her ass. firm asses are such a turn-off. Shake it for me, baby. Their is nothing better than watching a hot woman in a tight black dress wiggling her ass. MAN, I got myself hot and bothered. I'm gonna need a cold shower. JOKE!!!!! I also love a woman that likes anal. The taboo of my girl taking it up the ass gives me a hard-on.
 
Nicole said:
Do you prefer a woman that is sexually aware of what she does or doesn't like? Being open and telling you what she does and doen't want you to do?

This one. :cool:
 
Nicole said:
Do you prefer a woman that is sexually aware of what she does or doesn't like? Being open and telling you what she does and doen't want you to do?

OR

Do you prefer a woman that you have to work at to get her to open up to you? The type that when you do something, she'll say yes or no as to wether you can continue or not.

I just wonder what you Lit men like and dislike.

I chose door number #1 or the first one. As for what else I like, I like a woman who has a personality, a great sense of humor and/or pretty eyes
 
I didn't know what I wanted...

...until I found it.

She didn't either.

Best friends for ten years, married to other people for twenty, suddenly sparks flew, and life changed gears. She knew what she wanted and had never tried. Me too.

It's been one helluva ride for over five years (they'll say we're too old for this!).

She's sensual, aggressive, submissive, expressive, capricious, vivacious, and voracious.

Wow!
 
Hi Nicole

Nicole said:
Do you prefer a woman that is sexually aware of what she does or doesn't like? Being open and telling you what she does and doen't want you to do?

OR

Do you prefer a woman that you have to work at to get her to open up to you? The type that when you do something, she'll say yes or no as to wether you can continue or not.

I just wonder what you Lit men like and dislike.



I like a woman who is not afraid to try new things. The type who loves to please me as much as I love to please her.I would'nt want her to tell me her Likes or dislikes about sex over dinner,lol.

I would rather she show me instead of telling me. I was with a woman last week and we was getting it on pretty hot. I slid my hand under her ass and started circling her asshole with my finger, she didn't say a word, she just reach back and took a hold of my hand and placed it on her breast. I knew right then she didn't like that. There are many ways of saying no or yes, yes,yesss, without a word spoken.
 
I like a woman who is sexually aware enough to decide what she likes and doesn't like. And confident enough to tell me. Of course sometime what we might like is a bit of discovery.
 
Nicole... I just plain like YOU!

*runs before anyone can yell at her for not being a guy and answering anyway*
 
I'll take the first one anyday as the second is the kind of woman who sit's there crying but won't tell you why :confused:

I mean what the fuck is that all about, are they like trying to see if you've become fucking psychic overnight or something :confused: :confused:
 
Alot of women wont' tell you why, because of how you ask. Some guys give the sigh and ask "now what's wrong?"

Women aren't fragile, little whiny creatures... but we tend to show emotion more easily than men do. Alot of guys aren't very sensitive when it comes to a women crying.

Therefore, we put ourselves on guard, and say "nothing" and hope you won't give us 'tude about it.
 
What I like

Juspar Emvan said:
I like a woman who is sexually aware enough to decide what she likes and doesn't like. And confident enough to tell me. Of course sometime what we might like is a bit of discovery.

I must agee totally!!! She doesn't have yell out orders just give a small hint in the right direction and not be afraid to take control once in a while!!! :D

Well maybe more than once in a while :D :D ;)
 
Licci~Nicci said:
Alot of women wont' tell you why, because of how you ask. Some guys give the sigh and ask "now what's wrong?"

Women aren't fragile, little whiny creatures... but we tend to show emotion more easily than men do. Alot of guys aren't very sensitive when it comes to a women crying.

Therefore, we put ourselves on guard, and say "nothing" and hope you won't give us 'tude about it.

I daresay that's often very true but I've had time's when I've shown nothing but kindness and understanding and all I get is silence...how can you fix a problem if the other person will not talk..? and often when I have got to the bottom of the problem it turned out to be nothing at all worth the tears.

I blame myself for being with the person in the first place....I mean they always seem so sane when you start seeing them then they lay this on you :confused: :confused: :confused:
 
I like women

I like women that know what they want and are not afraid to explain what they like but I also like mystery. I like to be with a woiman who has never done certain things and who would be willing to explore new paths.
 
Re: I like women

rambling man said:
I like women that know what they want and are not afraid to explain what they like but I also like mystery. I like to be with a woiman who has never done certain things and who would be willing to explore new paths.

Oooooh hehehe ;)
 
If I wanted to be with the #2 style woman. I'd make a trip to the adult book store for a blow up doll.

Sex has to have some variety, and with that variety comes some experimenting. It so much better if your partner is secure enough to say "Yes, like that, oh thats good" or in the very least moan so you know you got the right spot, speed, whatever.

That being said, I don't want to go to bed with a woman who wants to tell me every move to make either. I'm not a robot. Its all about give and take to me. Don't get me wrong, I love for my woman to throw my ass down and take control from time to time, but wouldn't like it every time. I think she feels the same way.
 
willywanker said:
If I wanted to be with the #2 style woman. I'd make a trip to the adult book store for a blow up doll.

Sex has to have some variety, and with that variety comes some experimenting. It so much better if your partner is secure enough to say "Yes, like that, oh thats good" or in the very least moan so you know you got the right spot, speed, whatever.

That being said, I don't want to go to bed with a woman who wants to tell me every move to make either. I'm not a robot. Its all about give and take to me. Don't get me wrong, I love for my woman to throw my ass down and take control from time to time, but wouldn't like it every time. I think she feels the same way.


So, you like the type that says, OHHHHHH, please don't stop that feels so good, oh please, oh, oh, my ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh, that is so incredible, you are so good, you are soooooooo big,

You mean, something like that?
 
Nicole said:
Do you prefer a woman that is sexually aware of what she does or doesn't like? Being open and telling you what she does and doen't want you to do?

OR

Do you prefer a woman that you have to work at to get her to open up to you? The type that when you do something, she'll say yes or no as to wether you can continue or not.

I just wonder what you Lit men like and dislike.
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I would go with the 1st suggestion, Nikki.
 
unusuallyconfused said:



So, you like the type that says, OHHHHHH, please don't stop that feels so good, oh please, oh, oh, my ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh, that is so incredible, you are so good, you are soooooooo big,

You mean, something like that?

LOL, no, not quite like that. More like, "Yes, thats the spot, lick me there." or "Where is the fire, slow down"

I want to be told what she likes, just like I will tell her what I like. Sure, I'll admit I like to hear the kind of things you wrote sometimes, but everytimes would start to loose its effect. And I've been around long enough to know, every time is not going to be perfect. To many variables. Thats why being able to say whats working is important.
 
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