MEN-should girls moan?

[MissExotica]

I was just wondering, to all the men out there (and women too), does it bother you if us women don't make noise when having sex? Would it make you feel bad, or better with the more noise we were making? any comments are appreciated

 

[Guest]

Since you added "and women too"...

I like it better when a partner I'm with (be it male or female) makes at least some noise conpaired to none at all. I dated a gal a while back who had had only one male lover before me and no previous female lover and she just laid there. It creaped me out how she never made a single noise or moved one bit. Had I been a man and actually making love to her I would have been a lot more upset. (I can only imagine what you men feel when faces with a woman like her! )

And, on a personal note, I've been told I can be a "screamer". It just depends on what's being done to me, I guess. I can get very vocal and wild at times.

 

[BlazeofLife]

I personally prefer a screamer, but there's nothing wrong with silence.
It just means that I have to pay more attention to her body language in order to guage the effect of my ministrations to her...
that can be fun, too...

blaze

 

[Guest]

It just means that I have to pay more attention to her body language in order to guage the effect of my ministrations to her...

If there is body language. Like I said, that one gal (who was 18 when I was about 20 or 21) I was with did not move or make a sound. It was really rather frustration. Made me wonder why I was even with her or taking time to try to please her body. ~sigh~

 

[BlazeofLife]

If there is body language. Like I said, that one gal (who was 18 when I was about 20 or 21) I was with did not move or make a sound. It was really rather frustration. Made me wonder why I was even with her or taking time to try to please her body. ~sigh~

Jeez, I couldn't handle that, you might as well fuck a doll. No reaction? Yikes.
Was she into it at all when it was your turn? Or did she not even do that for you?

Blaze

 

[Guest]

moan, scream, yell

Yes, men LOVE to hear women make noises. A woman cumming is the most wonderful sound on the planet. It gets rather frustrating if they don't make noise.

 

[dlj403]

I was just wondering, to all the men out there (and women too), does it bother you if us women don't make noise when having sex? Would it make you feel bad, or better with the more noise we were making? any comments are appreciated

Unless there's a good reason for us to be quiet (like we're doing it someplace we shouldn't) then I'm all for the louder the better. For me it's a real turnon to be with a vocal partner.

dlj

 

[Guest]

Was she into it at all when it was your turn? Or did she not even do that for you?

I guess she was not an "active" bisexual...

Actually, the whole thing is kind of a long story that may not make much sense with how my brain is functioning at the momemnt.

 

[BlazeofLife]

Ah, I think I see.
I hope your next experience was much more gratifying for you!


Blaze

 

[silencer]

I love it when my partner moans,and screams with delight.It gets me more aroused if she moans alot.How can you really know how much she is enjoying it and what spots she likes best if she does'nt......You might as well be useing sex toys if not...lol



Silencer

 

[69FEELGOOD]

Should girl`s moan.

"NO" not if you dont like what we are doing.If you moan and you dont like what we are doing.We will think you are haveing a good time and your not.

 

[mal234]

should girls moan?

My wife makes absolutely no sound when we make love and only a slight movement when she orgasms.
Oh if only she would moan and scream I would at least know that I was giving her some pleasure.
I, on the other hand, do make quite a lot of noise.
Ah well, que sera...................

 

[CarolineOh]

I think most men are very eager (or is anxious a better word?) to please, and really want as much non-verbal feedback as they can get. Moaning and body language let them know how they are doing without them having to actually discuss anything with you!
69Feelgood is right, if you don't clue your man in as to what pleases you, how is he going to know?
BTW, Tiggs, I love your new AV, I moaned just from looking at it

 

[jyd]

moaning OOOOHHH YEAH!!!!

I think when some is making you feel so good you should use your whole body to express what you are feeling (that means moaning is good) and pus its sexy




jyd

 

[GambitandRogue]

Re: Should girl`s moan.

"NO" not if you dont like what we are doing.If you moan and you dont like what we are doing.We will think you are haveing a good time and your not.

YES I AGREE!! I love to hear women moan. It makes me feel that I'm doing something right and helps me get into it more.

However, if women fake a moan, or anything else, they're more inclined to get what they don't want in the future, or not get what they love if don't give some kinda cue.


Gambit

 

[Guest]

BTW, Tiggs, I love your new AV, I moaned just from looking at it

Thank you.

 

[daedalos]

Yes, by all means do something to express pleasure when you feel it: moaning, sighing, saying things that tell your lover you are in ecstacy (provided you are in ecstasy of course). What CarolineOh said is certainly true for me. Part of what makes a great sexual experience for me is knowing that I am giving pleasure.

I suspect this is true of many men. Why? Well, think about what the actresses do in mainstream porn flicks. (And I am assuming here that these films have a male audience in mind). Do the women in these movies just lay there quietly and "think about England"? No way! They are depicted as enjoying every second of whatever is happening to them sexually and they express it by moaning, sighing, grunting, screaming, whatever. Personally, I think what makes such films attractive to men is not so much the appearance of the women as it is the absolute rapture of the women during the sexual experience.

 

[G_Pleasure]

I have to say that I am a "screamer" during sex. I love to let my man know what he is doing feels good. I think that he would be hurt if I just layed there and not made a sound. I also am very vocal in letting him know what I want him to do. Screaming...yelling...moaning...grunting, whatever you want to do...DO IT! Don't hold back on how you are feeling! I mean if you get hurt you say "ouch" right? Why not do a simple moan or grunt when something feels good? Also I get so turned on by telling my man that I enjoy what he is doing by screaming! If it feels good...LET HIM KNOW! That is the only way you will get it again!

 

[1sexylady]

A Moaner?????????? YEP!

I moan....I am not really loud but I moan....I am a grabber.. Yep I grab pillows, arms, hands, sheets, fingers......whatever is there.... and that is because I squirm...yep a squirmer too.... I love to hear my s/o moan and I agree with everyone else...how would I know I was pleasing him....

1sexylady........

Sorry I had to edit this...I also use bad words...

 

[Guest]

Well, think about what the actresses do in mainstream porn flicks... (And I am assuming here that these films have a male audience in mind). Personally, I think what makes such films attractive to men is not so much the appearance of the women as it is the absolute rapture of the women during the sexual experience.

So, women faking it in pornos is a turn on? Hell, that's one of the reasons I laugh at most porns instead of getting turned on!

 

[CarnalGerund]

Honk (or moan) if you like what we're doing

I think being vocal is very important. Anything, directions, updates as to how you're doing, giggles if we're being playful. And if we really find something that you like, then by all means, shatter the mirrors. It's wonderful and a huge turn on.

 

[iceman919]

to moan or not to

to me i think it comes down to how much pleasure you are giving or recieving. i personally like it when my woman moans it makes me feel like i am givng her great pleasure.

i once had a girl who was as quite as a mouse till she finally had a big o then she would shake and mumble but that just did not do it for me i like to know it feels good from the begining

 

[silencer]

Moaner and a squirmer???? ooooooooooohhhhhhhhhh!!
1sexylady You can moan and squirm under and on top of me anytime

The bad words are ok too....



Silencer

 

[sazmotax]

hehe

my husband is soooo quiet and it bugs me to death! i love to hear noise, i need to "hear" him enjoying himself. the more noise i hear, the hotter i get. as for me, i'm as noisy as they get! i have a habit of digging my nails in, moaning, writhing, squirming, and damn near close to screaming. my neighbors must have gotten an earful last summer!

~ Lisa

 

[1sexylady]

Well then Silencer......

come on over here... you can see for yourself....and I would be glad to show you.... Now were am I on top or the bottom...

1sexylady.....