Men say they want a lady in the parlor & a whore in the bedroom, but do they really?

[MsQuote]

Men say they want a lady in the parlor & a whore in the bedroom, but do they really?

I just want get some feedback from others about their thoughts and experiences. So far, all I have to go on are my experiences and observations. I only know two men who truly do and can.

 

[help_me_Rhonda]

I just want get some feedback from others about their thoughts and experiences. So far, all I have to go on are my experiences and observations. I only know two men who truly do and can.

'Who truly do and can' what? Say they want a lady in the parlor & a whore in the bedroom?

What exactly is the question?

 

[longneckbottle3]

For me I like a lady who is smart and funny and can be articulate and carry on all ranges of conversations as well as beautiful. I want a head and brain with that beauty, also want a great sense of humor, a woman that can laugh at her self and doesnt take herself too seriously....is in touch with her female side, but not so girly she doesnt know how to be silly on ocassion. In the bedroom....I like passionate and sensual...but want a woman who can be totally dominate and in control, knows what she wants...can talk dirty, play dressup with costumes and will play with toys in the bed...isn't afraid to ask for what she's in the mood for. I also like a woman who likes a little kink....isnt afraid to be covered in sweat and have the whole room smell of sex...aggghhh....guess I want it all....lol

 

[Aquagal]

I don't know any men that WANT a prim lady in the bedroom. That may be what they get, be it from shyness, inexperience, religious upbringing etc... But I haven't met one yet that said they preferred that I lie there blushing with my knees pinched shut.

 

[wcanvil]

As a guy I think it's hot when a woman pretends to be innocent, ladylike, or whatever... because if she is willing to roleplay like that it means she has a true slutty side. One of the great joys in the sex aspect of my marriage is how I've helped my wife to discover her inner slut more and more over time.

 

[MsQuote]

I don't know any men that WANT a prim lady in the bedroom. That may be what they get, be it from shyness, inexperience, religious upbringing etc... But I haven't met one yet that said they preferred that I lie there blushing with my knees pinched shut.

Believe me, they're out there. My ex-husband and my ex-fiance. At least my ex-fiance thought he was teaching me a new thing or two, but once he learned I was with another man after my ex-husband and before him, he flipped out. Like I was supposed to save myself for the rare possibility of meeting him after I was already married for 12 years???

 

[C5MiGuy]

I just want get some feedback from others about their thoughts and experiences. So far, all I have to go on are my experiences and observations. I only know two men who truly do and can.

To answer the question - yes please.

 

[Aquagal]

Believe me, they're out there. My ex-husband and my ex-fiance. At least my ex-fiance thought he was teaching me a new thing or two, but once he learned I was with another man after my ex-husband and before him, he flipped out. Like I was supposed to save myself for the rare possibility of meeting him after I was already married for 12 years???

Yes, only save yourself for those you're betrothed to.

 

[MsQuote]

As a guy I think it's hot when a woman pretends to be innocent, ladylike, or whatever... because if she is willing to roleplay like that ...

Who said anything about role playing? LOL

I don't pretend to be innocent, but I am ladylike.

... it means she has a true slutty side. One of the great joys in the sex aspect of my marriage is how I've helped my wife to discover her inner slut more and more over time.

LOVE happy couples like that! How awesome!

 

[C5MiGuy]

Yes, only save yourself for those you're betrothed to.

I agree. I also believe in 1 week marriages.

 

[wcanvil]

Who said anything about role playing? LOL

I don't pretend to be innocent, but I am ladylike.



LOVE happy couples like that! How awesome!

Thanks for the compliment. Do you have anybody helping you find the right mix of lady and tramp in your sex life? Just curious...

 

[Aquagal]

I agree. I also believe in 1 week marriages.

Funny

 

[MsQuote]

I agree. I also believe in 1 week marriages.

Meet your new ex-wife!

But what happens if I still like ya after the divorce?

 

[MsQuote]

Thanks for the compliment. Do you have anybody helping you find the right mix of lady and tramp in your sex life? Just curious...

Umm ... yeah, but it's delightfully complicated.

 

[C5MiGuy]

Meet your new ex-wife!

But what happens if I still like ya after the divorce?

Nothing says you can't have consecutive marriages with the same person.

Personally I think they should get rid of the til death do us part, and make it read like a business contract

"...for a duration of not less than 5 years, with the option to re-up the contract at that time...I do."

 

[smallgirl]

I just want get some feedback from others about their thoughts and experiences. So far, all I have to go on are my experiences and observations. I only know two men who truly do and can.

i think most men do want this. i know my hubby does...he says that's the one thing he loves the most about me(and always has). in public i am this quiet, confident woman. great mom. hard worker. smart...etc.
in bed? i am a huge slut, and in his words his own personal whore...

 

[wcanvil]

[...] i am a huge slut, and in his words his own personal whore...

Does that make you feel like his property in a way?

 

[Lily13]

Nothing says you can't have consecutive marriages with the same person.

Personally I think they should get rid of the til death do us part, and make it read like a business contract

"...for a duration of not less than 5 years, with the option to re-up the contract at that time...I do."

Hey - that was my idea!

 

[C5MiGuy]

Hey - that was my idea!

Prove it!

 

[MsQuote]

Yes, only save yourself for those you're betrothed to.

I have no intention of saving myself to be some kind of antique ... especially if my parts were to wear out, stop working, break or lose, their luster.

 

[LadyVer]

I've been with a few men who say they do, but they lied.

 

[C5MiGuy]

I've been with the "I only like it this way" girls. Never again.

 

[Aquagal]

I've been with the "I only like it this way" girls. Never again.

And how did they like it?

 

[LadyVer]

I've been with the "I only like it this way" girls. Never again.

That would tend to get old fast.

 

[smallgirl]

Does that make you feel like his property in a way?

yes it does