men have you talked about same sex activity with your wife or girl friend

[wild175133]

Men have you talked about same sex activity with your wife or girl friend? What did she say? How was her reaction?

I have done this with quite a few women and there reaction has been pretty negative for the most part. Just wondering if you have had the same experience.

 

[mijbob79]

pegging

I asked my wife about pegging me and it went over like a lead ballon.

I thought it could be a lot of fun....

 

[bedroomexplorer]

I routinely talk to my wife about my desire to have sex with men (sometimes multiple men at once. She understands the need and helps me with my desires. We sometimes make it part of our sex. She fucks me with a dildo when I ask nicely. It is better than before I kept those desires to myself.

 

[pussycatmeowth]

I routinely talk to my wife about my desire to have sex with men (sometimes multiple men at once. She understands the need and helps me with my desires. We sometimes make it part of our sex. She fucks me with a dildo when I ask nicely. It is better than before I kept those desires to myself.

This, if you are bisexual, I feel it's important to discuss it, early into a relationship. The longer you leave it, the worse the possible fallout. Most women I have known, have been pretty cool about it. The men I've been with, weren't bothered at all.

 

[BBCfan]

Men have you talked about same sex activity with your wife or girl friend? What did she say? How was her reaction?

I have done this with quite a few women and there reaction has been pretty negative for the most part. Just wondering if you have had the same experience.

My desires are more fetishistic than true Bi but I've usually first tested the water a bit while early dating. If she comes off as homophobic or says something like "I could never date a bi guy...gross", then I wouldn't tell her but that would be our last date too.

I've told all the women I've gotten serious with and most desired monogamy so as long as I was monogamous it wasn't an issue.

My wife found out pretty early in, and she is the one I've been most open with. Role play and toys with her have really helped me enjoy our monogamy thus far way way more than I expected.

 

[sterculius]

Not that long ago, I confessed to my wife of more than 30 years, that as a teenager I had eagerly and willingly served as my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker all through high school, and that I would give him daily blowjobs whenever and wherever he told me to. I admitted that I really liked sucking cock and that I loved the way that being a "cocksucker" made me feel. She was surprised, but ultimately attributed it to adolescent sexual experimentation, which in a way I guess it was. When she asked if I still had the desire to suck cock, I lied and told her no. She's unaware that I never stopped being a cocksucker and that I routinely meet with men to give them blowjobs. I love my wife and it pains me to have to deceive her and hide my oral obsession from her. I have attempted on numerous occasions to reopen that conversation in the hopes of convincing her to accept my love of sucking cock, but she immediately changes the subject, the last time becoming quite annoyed at my persistence. It's as if she suspects the truth but would prefer not to know for sure.

 

[BBCfan]

Not really, but sorta, she likes it when we fantasize about me putting him in her. If he slips out me taking his cock, and sliding it back in, maybe loosely holding him as he fucks her. Maybe when he's cumming I stroke him til he shoots on her. Once I said i wanted to lick her from underneath, while she got fucked, and have his balls slap my forehead. Not really much more to do except let him slide in my mouth, but we havent got that far, well she hasn't, I have thought about it...a lot.

That's hot. Would be fun if my wife's roleplay with me headed in that direction.

 

[CharlieBoker]

Yes.....

I told my wife many years ago about being bisexual and also confessed to having been unfaithful to her with m2m sex.

She was so very understanding and we worked things through, although she was, and still is, happier not to hear all the details.

She adopted a stance of the only difference between us being that I'd acted on my gay fantasies and she hadn't, as she is very bi-curious.

We role play same sex activities and play hotwife games among other bedroom antics and that's enough for us both at the moment. We have a great sex life.

She knows that I watch gay porn, am writing gay erotic stories and am having a mooch on here. Providing I don't betray her in any way, we're both cool about our relationship and sexuality.

We're both in our early fifties and have been together for well over 30 years and are very close.

I consider myself very blessed.

 

[slowreader1942]

Men have you talked about same sex activity with your wife or girl friend? What did she say? How was her reaction?

I have done this with quite a few women and there reaction has been pretty negative for the most part. Just wondering if you have had the same experience.

We usually fantasize about having another man in the bedroom. My experience with her reaction is that her lips say no but her body says yes. We are senior lovers and the though of mfm or mmf turns us both on.

 

[mcato]

I told her I wanted us to suck a cock together and I wanted to try pegging. She shut down those discussions. I think she is grossed out and I have not pushed it.

 

[SissySalina]

According to Her that is the difference between a sissy and a cross dresser. She is the one that wanted sissy to become a sissy.

 

[Hardnippled]

According to Her that is the difference between a sissy and a cross dresser. She is the one that wanted sissy to become a sissy.

Yes my ex gf and I had talked about it but it never happened. But there was more she wanted all three of us to have sex. I that it would be hot but I knew it would take some getting used to. Seeing her suck another man's cock. But idk it might hAve been hot!

 

[muycurioso]

I did a few years back

we had fun with it, she even said she wanted to see me take a FACIAL!!! We talked about her getting fucked by the new cock. We talked about his size. Well........... we are now in a long dry spell and I have tried to reignite our sex life. No dice! And she seems now to think male on male sex is not so hot anymore. Oh well, it was fun while it lasted. I need to find a hot couple to talk about these things with

 

[muycurioso]

I coulda done MMF things when I was younger

Yes my ex gf and I had talked about it but it never happened. But there was more she wanted all three of us to have sex. I that it would be hot but I knew it would take some getting used to. Seeing her suck another man's cock. But idk it might hAve been hot!

But either I was shy, or nervous who knows. Plus I was in the USMC for a few years and I felt eyes were always on me. This was around the time of don't ask, don't tell. I had some opportunities but figured I would get dimes dropped on me...more like manhole covers

 

[NoOperator]

Oh yeah, and we're going to pansexual night at the swinger club when it opens back up. I think she's more excited than I am.

 

[haventdonethat]

Men have you talked about same sex activity with your wife or girl friend? What did she say? How was her reaction?

I have done this with quite a few women and there reaction has been pretty negative for the most part. Just wondering if you have had the same experience.

In a way I guess I have.

First wife:
As I was indulging in some good oral sex (amongst other things) while she was sitting in a big arm chair. “I bet you would like a hard cock in your cunt while I suck on you”. Had never heard of the term “fucklicking” at that time,
Her reply: “YES! I could really get into that. YES!
After our second round of fucklicking with our good friend, she did the talking; ”that’s it, suck each other”; “you guys look great”.
I couldn’t reply, I was taught not to speak when my mouth was full.

Second wife:
She told me about a fling she had with a neighborhood woman so I told her about the bi times with first wife. Fast forward a few months and same friend was fucking her and we were sucking each other.

Present GF:
I have told her about some past activities with wives. She knows I like cum, we share ours all the time. She knows I have sucked at least one cock and swallowed cum; my own. Maybe the time will be soon to get it all out.
PS: Her fantasy is to be spit roasted.

All in all, positive reactions I would say.

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[Traveler99921]

Yes I have

My late wife and I frequently discussed me having sex with men. Before I actually started having gay sex I told her of my desires. That led to many conversations. The most memorable was when she told me it would be OK. Soon after I started sucking cock. She always knew when I had gay sex and it seemed to excite her.

I tried to limit the number of times I had sex with a man. Several times she suggested it was time for me to "go on a date". She was not all that much interested in the details but always wanted to know if I had a good time.

Our conversations about my homosexual needs and experiences led to conversations about her sexual needs. She said I was a much better lover after I became bi. I am sure she was right.

 

[muycurioso]

nice

In a way I guess I have.

First wife:
As I was indulging in some good oral sex (amongst other things) while she was sitting in a big arm chair. “I bet you would like a hard cock in your cunt while I suck on you”. Had never heard of the term “fucklicking” at that time,
Her reply: “YES! I could really get into that. YES!
After our second round of fucklicking with our good friend, she did the talking; ”that’s it, suck each other”; “you guys look great”.
I couldn’t reply, I was taught not to speak when my mouth was full.

Second wife:
She told me about a fling she had with a neighborhood woman so I told her about the bi times with first wife. Fast forward a few months and same friend was fucking her and we were sucking each other.

Present GF:
I have told her about some past activities with wives. She knows I like cum, we share ours all the time. She knows I have sucked at least one cock and swallowed cum; my own. Maybe the time will be soon to get it all out.
PS: Her fantasy is to be spit roasted.

All in all, positive reactions I would say.

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looks like a lot of hot times!!!

 

[yukonnights]

Yes.....

I told my wife many years ago about being bisexual and also confessed to having been unfaithful to her with m2m sex.

She was so very understanding and we worked things through, although she was, and still is, happier not to hear all the details.

She adopted a stance of the only difference between us being that I'd acted on my gay fantasies and she hadn't, as she is very bi-curious.

We role play same sex activities and play hotwife games among other bedroom antics and that's enough for us both at the moment. We have a great sex life.

She knows that I watch gay porn, am writing gay erotic stories and am having a mooch on here. Providing I don't betray her in any way, we're both cool about our relationship and sexuality.

We're both in our early fifties and have been together for well over 30 years and are very close.

I consider myself very blessed.

I'm sure this discussion has come up before, but it's a good discussion. What CharileB has said above is very close to my experience. In my case it was sharing pillow-talk secrets early in our marriage where I confessed to my prior sexual experiences and she shared hers. Turned out that we both had some same-gender memories. That night of openness was just a bit of luck, but I am really thankful for it. We both now know about every person we were intimate with. It's not really a long list since we met and stuck together at a young age.

My heart goes out to those of you who have had bad experiences in sharing your true selves ~

 

[shotofcooter]

Yeah....I dated a woman that was all for it initially, she brought it up....then she went thru the change and was suddenly not interested...she used my bi interest as a reason for leaving. So I'm not telling any woman again...

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

I tried once

I tried once to tell my wife that I thought I might be bisexual. Her response was a textbook "if looks could kill" moment. The look she gave me was so hateful as she responded angrily with "well, ARE you?" I just said I wasn't, and left it at that. Now, I am so embarrassed I ever brought that to her attention, especially when she referred to that moment as "that time you thought you were queer".

I envy the men whose wives accept their sexuality, and even participate, especially when the wives are bi, also. I can only imagine what it must be like being in such as safe and trusting relationship.

 

[wild175133]

I tried once to tell my wife that I thought I might be bisexual. Her response was a textbook "if looks could kill" moment. The look she gave me was so hateful as she responded angrily with "well, ARE you?" I just said I wasn't, and left it at that. Now, I am so embarrassed I ever brought that to her attention, especially when she referred to that moment as "that time you thought you were queer".

I envy the men whose wives accept their sexuality, and even participate, especially when the wives are bi, also. I can only imagine what it must be like being in such as safe and trusting relationship.

There have been a wide variety of answers to this question and here is just one example. The one thing we can count on in this universe is that change is constant so in a long term relationship communication is the key. Often a couple grow together mentally and spiritually when this happens it is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately they will also grow apart and friction develops in the relationship. It is up to each couple to decide what is a deal breaker and what is not. How ever it is hard to keep the relationship going when one person does not at least respect the other which is what happens one one person comes out to the other as bi.

Some times it is just best to pack up and move on there is no use arguing and defending who you are to some one who despises and hates the person you are.

The next time she says that to you ask her point blank is it time to go and talk to a lawyer. If the answer is no then tell her to shut the fuck up and don't ever bring that up again or you will go see a lawyer.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

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I told my wife before we got married that I like to try and have fun with men. I told her that I loved going to adult book stores and loved the action in the arcades. Long story short we have had many great experiences and hope to have many more.

 

[cuck72]

I'd love to come out, and tell my wife that I really get off watching gay porn, and think of sucking cock. That there are a few guys I fantasize about sucking off, even though I believe their all straight. I know she would say " that's sick, don't tell me your gay now?" And I'm so afraid she wouldn't look at me as a real man anymore.

 

[gk6h]

mine caught me watching gay porn and just laughed...said I knew it...now she just calls me names...and it makes me get off so hard...