Men: Are you a silent or loud lover?

[secretlover1]

and girls: do you like a vocal lover?
We're not talking grunting/howling but deep husky breathing and moaning

Does this do it for you?

And also ladies does making more noise intensify your orgasm?

I definitely cum harder when I breathe heavily and sigh loudly

Very hot

 

[want24nik8]

and girls: do you like a vocal lover?
We're not talking grunting/howling but deep husky breathing and moaning

Does this do it for you?

And also ladies does making more noise intensify your orgasm?

I definitely cum harder when I breathe heavily and sigh loudly

Very hot

As I start getting close, I start moaning... and then I usually groan when I cum. Louder if she's cumming with me.

 

[jasper3738]

Im loud

Im a loud love maker hard fucking sex animal

 

[Ahi_Viking]

Depends

Depends on the mood, setting and feedaback I'm getting. If we are camping in a tent with friends just outside there probably won't be any screaming. But, I may, in a teasing way, put her legs over my shoulders, get on my toes and do a real nice, slow, full-depth pumping - kind of challenging her to stay quiet. I like to encourage a woman verbally, too. If she's burning me down I'll tell her...

 

[Henrytafsr]

I'm the silent type.

 

[secretlover1]

I'm the silent type.

Why darling?

I'm silent generally too but it is better when there's some nice subtle noises of encouragement

 

[Image13]

Loud and vocal

 

[j769]

Oh I'm definitely loud especially when I cum. Love to growl if the mood is right...

 

[sunandshadow]

I prefer a guy to be loud (as long as he's not calling me insulting names or something). I'm mostly quiet myself because I'm conditioned to there being someone nearby that I don't want to hear me; I try to remember to communicate what I'm feeling and thinking, but I often forget. :/

 

[big_heart_nerd]

irl I am quite

 

[secretlover1]

Quite?

quiet? Men "generally" are but why?

Is it because you all were dirty little horny bastards when you were teens shagging a sock?

You're sexing your women now and usually don't HAVE to be quiet so don't

Make some noise - we do LOVE it

 

[secretlover1]

did that sound really AGGRESSIVE?

Sorry

I don't know how things come across on the net - it wasn't meant to be

I just like sexy sounds............

nothing nicer than the throes of passion

 

[want24nik8]

did that sound really AGGRESSIVE?

Sorry

I don't know how things come across on the net - it wasn't meant to be

I just like sexy sounds............

nothing nicer than the throes of passion

Oh I know exactly what you mean..... It is such a turn-on to hear groans and moans during sex...

 

[Mindfondler]

I tend to be quiet, and so does my wife, but that's partly due to conditioning from having our children sleeping in bedrooms adjacent to ours for many years. We're also both quite shy, inhibited types, so it doesn't feel natural for either of us to be highly vocal. However, we've recently been encouraging each other to be noisier (especially when we're on our own together) because we love to hear it from each other. Our "re-training" is an ongoing project...

This may sound silly, but I'd say that another reason why I'm sometimes quiet is that I'm concentrating hard. It's difficult to make all those noises and stay focussed.

 

[secretlover1]

I tend to be quiet, and so does my wife, but that's partly due to conditioning from having our children sleeping in bedrooms adjacent to ours for many years. We're also both quite shy, inhibited types, so it doesn't feel natural for either of us to be highly vocal. However, we've recently been encouraging each other to be noisier (especially when we're on our own together) because we love to hear it from each other. Our "re-training" is an ongoing project...

This may sound silly, but I'd say that another reason why I'm sometimes quiet is that I'm concentrating hard. It's difficult to make all those noises and stay focussed.

I do forget about you all being parents

OK in a different situation - you're in a nice secluded hotel on the ground floor in your own wing

You won't disturb anyone and you have privacy and discretion from the staff - just a little bit of noise would make that orgasm 100% stronger and more intense. That is actually a scientific fact. If you breathe very hard and pant you will cum like a fountain! Same for us girls.

I'm not married and I don't have children (or a partner at the moment) but I'm sure some us time together would get you vocal

And I forgot men can't multitask - just kidding darling but breathing is a voluntary thing and you will guaranteed tip your wife over the edge if you even sigh in her ear loudly

We all respond to that

Animals make a hell of a racket and they breed a LOT and after all we all are animals

Rant over x

 

[secretlover1]

us time? hahahaha

I meant "we" as in you and your wife

Like I'm hitting on you sorry hahahaha x

 

[Pj2424143]

I am defiantly a vocal lover... Not a screamer... But I am vocal

 

[Mindfondler]

OK in a different situation - you're in a nice secluded hotel on the ground floor in your own wing

You won't disturb anyone and you have privacy and discretion from the staff - just a little bit of noise would make that orgasm 100% stronger and more intense.

My wife and I recently managed to get an overnight break in a hotel suite which turned out to be in an isolated annexe. We managed to make a lot of noise then! It would have been rude not to.

That is actually a scientific fact.

I think I'll have to arrange an experiment to validate that claim.

If you breathe very hard and pant you will cum like a fountain! Same for us girls.

... or maybe a whole series of experiments, then.

I'm not married and I don't have children (or a partner at the moment) but I'm sure some us time together would get you vocal

us time? hahahaha

I meant "we" as in you and your wife

Like I'm hitting on you sorry hahahaha x

Heh... at first, I thought you meant my wife and me, with you instructing!

And I forgot men can't multitask - just kidding darling but breathing is a voluntary thing and you will guaranteed tip your wife over the edge if you even sigh in her ear loudly

I'll try it and report back. *salutes*

Rant over x

Not taken as a rant! Rather as amusing and inspiring.

 

[Cookie123]

It all depends on the partner and mood. If I'm just fucking, my neighbors want a cigarette by the time I'm finished. If I'm enjoying a slow, sensual encounter, then although I may be a bit quieter, my partner definitely knows I'm feeling pleasure.

 

[secretlover1]

My wife and I recently managed to get an overnight break in a hotel suite which turned out to be in an isolated annexe. We managed to make a lot of noise then! It would have been rude not to.



I think I'll have to arrange an experiment to validate that claim.



... or maybe a whole series of experiments, then.



Heh... at first, I thought you meant my wife and me, with you instructing!



I'll try it and report back. *salutes*



Not taken as a rant! Rather as amusing and inspiring.

I can be rather quirky at times - and bossy sorry

Sounds like you and your lovely lady are in no need of any instruction just some nice "us" time

Just to make sure I get it right this time - I will pop over and give you pointers

"now sigh darling - just a little pant for me - that's it, lovely" LMAO!

Glad you're having fun sweetheart - I want a husband to play with

 

[secretlover1]

It all depends on the partner and mood. If I'm just fucking, my neighbors want a cigarette by the time I'm finished. If I'm enjoying a slow, sensual encounter, then although I may be a bit quieter, my partner definitely knows I'm feeling pleasure.

that is fucking hilarious!

Women like to give encouragement don't they? I can't say I'm a loud lover but I think if I wanted my man to do this or that I could be gently persuaded to be a screaming banshee x

 

[saskatuna1]

I always thought I was very much so the quiet type, but it has since been demonstrated to me that I was wrong. Hah!

 

[Mindfondler]

I can be rather quirky at times - and bossy sorry

Quirky is good!

Sounds like you and your lovely lady are in no need of any instruction just some nice "us" time

Oh yes, please! Preferably somewhere with a four-poster bed and a jacuzzi bath.

Just to make sure I get it right this time - I will pop over and give you pointers

"now sigh darling - just a little pant for me - that's it, lovely" LMAO!

Oooh... that was spooky!

I think you've re-programmed my brain.

Glad you're having fun sweetheart - I want a husband to play with

Awww... *offers consolatory cwtch*

 

[Cookie123]

that is fucking hilarious!

Women like to give encouragement don't they? I can't say I'm a loud lover but I think if I wanted my man to do this or that I could be gently persuaded to be a screaming banshee x

I was the screaming banshee you referred to just a couple hours ago on Skype with my Daddy. I'm surprised the authorities didn't arrive. True story.

I do like to know when my efforts are being appreciated.

 

[secretlover1]

Quirky is good!



Oh yes, please! Preferably somewhere with a four-poster bed and a jacuzzi bath.



Oooh... that was spooky!

I think you've re-programmed my brain.



Awww... *offers consolatory cwtch*

CWTCH awww diolch x

I think I should have been a sex counsellor or something - not getting any myself but I'd like to help others